Teenagers go through puberty and have to care for their body.Teenagers will need to shower more often than they did when they were younger, and many will begin using products to deal with body odor.It can be difficult to get into the habit of showering daily for many teens.You can help teens get into a routine by talking to them about the importance of hygiene, helping them learn that good hygiene is a personal responsibility, and considering the reasons why a teen might not be showering.
Step 1: Teens need to be taught about puberty.
A teen is likely to have some knowledge about puberty, but they may not be aware of the impact of body odor.Many teens know what to expect, but they may not realize that it already applies to them.It isn't like a teen just wakes up and knows they have gone through puberty.They may not realize they are smelly, because it is a gradual process.Before your child is a teenager, you should talk to them about puberty.When people go through puberty, their body does things differently than before.They will sweat, but now it will be stinky.They will grow hair in new places and that can make the smell worse.
Step 2: Someone the teen looks up to should be talking to them.
If the teen is the type that doesn't believe in anything you say, you might be able to get the help of someone your teen really looks up to.If you are the mother of a teen boy, he may be more likely to listen to a man that he looks up to, such as his father, uncle, grandfather, or even a close family friend.Give the person a few pointers if they aren't sure what to say.Don't make your teen feel embarrassed by telling them that they should be delicate.
Step 3: Teens should avoid being humiliated.
It is important to avoid making teens feel embarrassed when talking about showering and hygiene.This can be done with topics such as hygiene.They aren't going to listen to anything you say, no matter how logical it is, if they feel embarrassed.The teenage years can be difficult and confusing.It can be difficult at your age, but remember that taking care of your hygiene is important.It may seem like a hassle, but being clean and well-groomed will make you feel more confident.
Step 4: An example should be set.
Why would a teen listen to you talk about showering if you don't shower often?Children are more likely to start questioning things when they are teens.It shouldn't be seen as a bad thing because it may be frustrating for you.They are becoming more independent.If you want a teen to shower regularly, then you need to be in the habit of showering at least once a week.
Step 5: They should be allowed to pick out shower products.
Teens are more likely to shower if they are excited about the products they use.It seems like it shouldn't matter, but this gives them some control.The teen might not like the smell of the products you pick.Allowing them to choose the products is a simple way to make them feel more in control of the situation.Ask the teen to go with you when you go to the drugstore.Ask them to pick out the shower products they want to use.You can help control the price by telling them that they can only pick products that cost under a limit.A generic list can be given to a teen if they don't know what to get.You can add anything else you think is necessary to the list, but those are some essential items.Don't make comments about their choices when they bring you their selections.You might think something smells bad, but they chose it, so obviously they don't.Making comments will make them feel embarrassed.
Step 6: The password for wi-fi needs to be changed.
If you have talked to the teen about the importance of maintaining good hygiene, but they still refuse to shower, then you will have to find other ways to convince them to get in.If they aren't able to access the internet, many teens will be convinced.If you change the wi-fi password whenever you want a teen to shower, explain to them that they can have the new password once they have bathed and that this will keep happening until they are showering on a regular basis.You can apply this to other privileges as well.If your teen is not interested in using the internet or if you don't have wi-fi, think of something they do value.Maybe they enjoy drawing.You could take away their art supplies if you wanted to.Don't say "You can have the password when you've showered" without explaining why it matters.Try saying, "I changed the wi-fi password so you won't be able to use the internet until you take a shower."Once you take care of your responsibilities, you can enjoy privileges.One of the responsibilities is taking care of your hygiene.
Step 7: Consider the emotional state of a teen.
There is a lot happening in the teen years when it comes to hormones and body development.Teenagers are learning how to be like adults at the same time.It isn't unusual for teens to experience difficult emotions with all of this going on.It is important for you to consider if your teen's poor hygiene is a sign of something more serious.If a teen suddenly stops bathing and you notice other symptoms such as moodiness, changes in their school performance or social behavior, or if they have started using drugs or drinking alcohol, it may be time to seek help from a doctor.
Step 8: Think of reasons a teen wouldn't want to shower.
There may be a logical reason why the teen isn't showering, so you should spend some time reflecting on what those reasons might be instead of just assuming they are being lazy.A teen with long hair might not be showering because they don't have time to do their hair after.If they don't want to wash their hair on certain days, you could suggest that they take a bath or purchase a shower cap.Some people don't need to wash their hair.The young person may not be able to find the time to shower.A lot of teens have a lot on their plate.It could be that they don't have the time.Maybe you can help them figure out a way to manage their time better, or even cut out one of their chores so they have more time to shower.
Step 9: Ask them if they want to shower.
Teens rebel over little things because they feel like they have control over their lives.You can ask the teen why they don't want to shower.Asking will help you figure out why they don't want to shower.It will show your teen that they are growing up and have opinions and thoughts of their own.Hopefully, the reason they don't want to shower is simple.If the teen doesn't like the smell of the products, you can let them pick which ones they want.If their reason for not showering is more pragmatic.If they don't want to shower because they feel like they should be natural, then you're going to have to do a bit more work.You will have to educate them on the health implications of poor hygiene and hope that it makes sense to them.It is possible that you will have to start revoking privileges.
Step 10: Make sure that you are aware of any rules regarding student showering.
Some schools have rules regarding whether or not students are expected to shower after exercise.If you want to encourage a teen to shower at school after exercise, you need to know the school's stance on the matter.It is common for a shower inspection to be done after gym class in some schools, but other schools may not allow it.Some schools don't allow showering at all.
Step 11: Talk to your students about what you expect from them.
You can give your students a talk about what you expect from them at the beginning of the year if you are a gym teacher or a coach.You can tell your students that you expect them to shower after gym class if your school doesn't forbid it.When you talk to your students about showering, you might want to explain that you don't mean 15 minutes spent washing every inch of their body.A shower after class should take no more than a couple of minutes.You may tell students that showering in front of others may seem a bit awkward at first, but you will get used to it.At first, everyone feels self-conscious.
Step 12: The reasons a student may not want to shower should be taken into account.
Most students don't like showering in front of other people.Some students may have a legitimate reason why they don't want to shower in front of their peers.It is important to listen to what the student has to say, and be sensitive when responding to these reasons.A student may have an issue with their body that makes them feel anxious about taking their clothes off in front of others.There may be a reason they don't shower.If students have a reason that they don't want to shower, they should talk to you in private.Try to make alternative arrangements if they have a reason.If they want, they can wear a bathing suit in the shower or wash with a washcloth.You should try to be sensitive if you disagree with the student's reason for not wanting to shower.Don't say, "That's a stupid reason."The student trust you to listen without judgement if they came to you.If you react negatively, that student will lose their trust in you and will feel even more self-conscious about their reasons for not showering in front of others.
Step 13: There are dangers to poor hygiene.
Your students might be aware of the consequences of showering when it comes to being smelly or unkempt, but they may not know that poor hygiene habits can lead to skin infections and even infectious diseases.
Step 14: The students need enough time to shower.
Teens may not be showering because they don't have enough time to shower and get dressed before their next class.Girls may feel like they need more time to get dry and dressed.If you expect them to undress, shower, dry off and then get dressed again, you're likely going to need to give them more than 5 minutes in between classes to do that, especially if 20 or 30 students will have to share only a few shower heads.If your students are worried about getting their hair wet because they won't have time to style it the way they like after showering, then suggest that they simply do not shower.They can either put their hair up in a loose bun or bring a shower cap if they have long hair.
Step 15: You should consider alternatives to showering.
If the students aren't able to shower or have access to showers, consider other ways to remove sweat and stay sanitary.If you can't get the teens into the shower after exercising, there are alternatives that may help.Teens can use a wash cloth with soap and water to deal with the smelliest parts.There are underarms.Disinfectant wipes might be used by students.If showers aren't an option at your school, this could help.Don't forget to remind students to use a stick of deodorant after exercising.Whether or not they take a shower is a good idea.