You are not alone if you are nervous about asking your crush.We have been there before.Asking out your crush can be scary, but we are here to make it easier.We will show you how to get to know your crush better, set the stage for success, and finally ask them out.We have advice on how to overcome your nerves and not be afraid of rejection.
Step 1: You should talk to your crush.
They will be more likely to say "yes" if you know each other.Start by talking.Say "hey" and introduce yourself.Ask your crush for help understanding the material if you're in class together.If you are in a club with someone else, talk about the club's theme.Ask about your crush.Ask how their day is going.Ask if they are excited about anything this weekend.It's easy.
Step 2: Be friendly with your crush.
You don't need to tell each other everything.A certain amount of trust will make you a known quantity in your crush's eyes.You can hang out in a group setting or walk to class with your crush.They might develop a crush on you if you are a good fit for each other.
Step 3: Be honest and authentic.
Don't try to convince your crush that you are not.Misleading this person is not the best way to get them to go out with you.It will come out eventually if you lie.If you imitate someone you think is cool, you might make your crush uncomfortable.Don't worry about illusions.You will put more passion into those things if you are true to yourself and doing the things that you really want to do.People find passion attractive.
Step 4: As possible, be as direct as possible.
Don't ask someone else or look it up if you want your crush's number.If you want to know what your crush did this weekend, just ask.It's not a good idea to follow your crush around or put them on a pedestal.
Step 5: You can do it in person.
If absolutely necessary, ask your crush over the phone or video call, but don't text the question.Asking out a crush face-to-face is much more romantic than texting, and it can be much easier to communicate with people you like.Don't expect your crush to be impressed if casual and noncommittal is what you're looking for.
Step 6: It should be natural to try to make it.
Find a time when you don't have to be with your crush.They should not be in a rush.Pick a place where you can hang out and run into each other.Try to make it as easy as possible.
Step 7: You can get your crush alone.
If you don't ask them out in front of a bunch of people, this conversation will be a lot easier for both of you.When the spotlight is on them, many people have trouble talking about their feelings one-on-one.You will need to create that space if you don't find yourself alone with your crush.It's easier to get someone alone if you're friends.Ask them to walk you home from school, between classes, or around the block.For a second, ask your crush to step outside with you.Can I talk to you on my own?Do you want to walk to class with me?Don't ask someone in front of their friends.Your crush might not want to talk about it with a group of people.It's possible that you're rejected because your crush feels uncomfortable.
Step 8: It's best to make small talk first.
If you're already hanging out one-on-one, ask your crush out.You don't have to ask the big question right away.If you ask your crush about their day, crack some jokes, and listen to what they have to say, it might help you set the mood.Both of you should be at ease.
Step 9: Wait for the right moment.
Plans can run into obstacles.Maybe you tried to walk your crush home after school, but someone else decided to join you.Be patient.It can be hard to take back an awkward moment when you rushed things, but you can always ask your crush out tomorrow.When everything seems right, look for a time.
Step 10: Be bold.
It can be hard to admit that you like someone.You will probably feel better once you get over it.If you never ask this person out, will you regret it?Do it if you will regret it.Think of it as jumping into cold water.You can stare at the water, feel it with your toes, and think about how cold it will be.At which point all you have to worry about is swimming, adjusting, or getting out, is when you push your mind aside and jump in.Set yourself an incentive if you can't bring yourself to do it.If I can't go to the party on Friday night, I need to ask my crush out.Give yourself a reason to get over it.
Step 11: You should be direct and honest.
Tell your crush how you feel by cutting through the games.This might be frightening, but you may find that it makes your job a lot simpler.I want to be clear.I want to spend more time with you.What do you think?
Step 12: Ask your crush to do something.
Don't ask them to leave.If you haven't been on a date, ask them to be your boyfriend or girlfriend.Suggest a movie, hike, show, or school event that both you and your friends will enjoy.If you ask this person to go somewhere with you alone, they will probably assume it's a date, but you don't need to ask them to be your partner yet.Ask your crush to go as your date if there is a school dance.It is possible to show someone how you feel.Unless you explicitly agree upon it, one date to date a dance does not mean that the two of you are going out.
Step 13: Take it slow.
Ask your crush out on a date, and let it be what it is.If you have already been on dates with this person, and you want to ask them to date you exclusively, then you are looking at a different conversation.If the person is just a crush, you may want to take it easy.
Step 14: You should respect the no.
You need to let that answer stand if you ask out your crush.It is one thing to be persistent because you really like someone, but it is another to stalker them and make them uncomfortable.There are other fish in the water.Don't be a selfish human being!You have to be bold.Go for it when you finally feel like you can do it.