What should you give her for her birthday?The trick is to let her know you remembered and not come on too strong.It is time to make a good first impression.
Step 1: You can choose a sentimental gift.
If you buy your girlfriend something sentimental, it will most likely touch her heart.You could buy her something that symbolizes how you met.It's probably not going to be over-the-top, but it will convey that you are someone who pays attention to details and is happy you met her.You should get her a mug from the coffee shop.Maybe you met her in a bookstore.When you first saw her, get her a book from the section she was in.The point of the gift is to show you care, even though it's early on.The benefit of this approach is that it's just a cup of coffee.It has a deeper meaning.
Step 2: She will appreciate flowers that aren't roses.
The cliche is that roses are too romantic for a new relationship.You can look up the meanings of flowers.Did you know calla lilies are said to symbolize magnificence and beauty?I wish you a happy birthday, and I hope you have a nice day, I'm glad we met!Other flower meanings would work as well.Daffodils are yellow and symbolize new beginnings.If you have flowers delivered, it will increase the romance.The purple irises symbolize eloquence.Gladiolus is a symbol of strength.The goal is to match the flower to something you like about her, and let her know the meaning.
Step 3: Don't be drawn to cliches.
When a relationship is new, you want to make a good first impression.Most people appreciate being remembered, so it would be a mistake to ignore her birthday.You don't want to seem like you're getting too serious.Don't use cliches.You should forget the box of chocolates.It means that you can avoid the cheap flowers at the grocery store.You're a thoughtful person if you try for something that shows she's unique.It will make the best impression.
Step 4: She will get a cake.
Even if you're not a very good baker, she will appreciate your effort.A cake with a creative saying on it will have some meaning to her.You could also buy a cupcake for her.Specialty cupcake stores can be found in many communities.She will like a creative flavor.Most people appreciate having a cake on their birthday, so she will probably appreciate the effort and, if you actually made it, and it's not perfect, she might even laugh and find it endearing.
Step 5: She wants something moderately priced.
To show you've thought about it, the goal is not to spend a lot of money.You can buy her a pair of fluffy slippers or a new case for her phone.If she drinks, you could buy her a bottle of wine and explain to her why you picked that brand.If you've just met, don't buy her clothing.Trying to guess women's sizes can be very dangerous.Purchase her nice stationery or a print from a local art fair.A good rule of thumb is to spend between 15 and $50 for a first gift.It might seem like you are trying too hard to impress when you spend more than $100.
Step 6: Give her a gift basket.
You should put it together yourself.You can put inexpensive items in it that she likes.Put some in there if she likes Snickers.Ditto with Cherry Coke.There are funny socks.She would like a book and a couple of movie tickets.If she's under 25 you could include a small stuffed animal.The gift basket should include food items that relate to things she likes to do.You could include a new set of golf balls if she loves golfing.
Step 7: Buy something that works.
It's a good idea to stick to practicality if you're in a new relationship.Don't buy her something that will make her laugh at her friends, such as a vacuum cleaner.Buy her something that she needs.She will appreciate your thoughtfulness.You could buy her something more artistic, such as a pretty vase.You can tell her that she only has a regular coffee machine if you buy her an espresso machine.
Step 8: She should buy her tickets for the future event.
Don't make it too far into the future.It might be premature if the relationship is new.Purchase her tickets for an event that weekend, but inquire as to whether she is available.She wants to see a new movie and you could buy her tickets.These could be tickets to a local wine festival, a concert for a band she enjoys, or a book reading.If you want to take her to an event that doesn't require tickets, you can give her a card indicating the event you'd like to go to.You don't have to make assumptions about her time.Experience gifts produce memories if you do them together.Take her to an amusement park.
Step 9: Try to do something for her.
Maybe she needs to trim her hedges or her refrigerator is making loud noises.Tell her that you would like to help her out with X, Y, or Z on her birthday.She will appreciate the fact that she can rely on you.Give her a nice card that explains to her that you are enjoying getting to know her, and that she can rely on you as the relationship progresses.When things aren't new, I can be a romantic person as well.I'm taking it at a nice pace and being respectful.
Step 10: Buy her a book.
There is a dual purpose to this gift.It shows her that you have a good sense of what she likes and you are also a smart person.Pick a topic that she is interested in.You can't go wrong with a book of poetry.Try E.E.If she is Irish, William Butler Yeats.She is a lawyer.She likes to read a biography of a lawyer.Try to tie the book into her life.Don't buy her a cheap pop culture paperback or a self-help book, unless it's a book she mentioned or the book a movie she loves was based on.You could buy her a CD from a band she likes.
Step 11: Write a poem.
Even if you're not the best writer of all time, the fact that you tried will please her.The poem should be light and fun.One benefit of writing a poem in a new relationship is that poetry is subjective, meaning there are many ways to interpret it.You will want to be a little mysterious at the beginning of a relationship.The poem could be focused on an attribute of hers.Pick something like the color of her eyes or her smile if you think physical.Keep it short!You can focus on a trait of hers.She talks to everyone the same, no matter their status.Maybe she loves animals.Maybe it's that she works hard.
Step 12: She will like the card.
There is a card for a new relationship.There is a card aisle.It's best to find one that doesn't convey platonic friendship and is not gushing with love.Poems with statements can fit an early relationship.Write something on the inside of the card."I've really enjoyed getting to know you, and I'm glad we met," you could write.Happy birthday!I'm looking forward to seeing how this progresses.A pressed flower inside the card would be a nice touch.Alternatively, you could write a letter that explains what attracted you to her and expresses your happiness at meeting her.
Step 13: Give her some vintage jewelry.
Everyone knows that a ring is a sign of seriousness in a relationship.Don't stay away from rings!It's too soon!You can give her jewelry just because the relationship is new.It should be more decorative than romantic.If she has one, you could use it to find out what she likes.If you picked up a pair of vintage earrings, you could tell her you knew they would look good on her, because they reminded you of the color she was wearing when you met.You could buy her a pretty bracelet, turquoise earrings, or any type of jewelry that is not a ring.Don't wear gemstones like diamonds.It's not expensive to be quirky and artistic.
Step 14: Ask her to dinner.
If she is busy on her birthday, you would love to take her to dinner.You could make her dinner as well.Don't assume she is spending her birthday with you since it's a new relationship.If you can take her to dinner, ask her a few days before.Unless you already know, ask her what her favorite restaurant is.Ask her where she would like to go or pick something she likes.Make sure to pay.Come with a card.If you pick a place where you have to dress up, dinner is a romantic setting.You will get to know her better if you invite her to dinner.Tell the server it's her birthday.
Step 15: Buy her a candle.
Candles can be romantic, but they can also be decorative.Buy her a candle with a romantic scent, like cinnamon or ocean mist.It is an erotic substance.Don't pick something that is too homespun, like an apple or pumpkin pie.The goal is to show her that you want to pursue more than friendship.A nice card that thanks her for the time you've spent together is included in a pretty bag with the candle.
Step 16: She needs to go to a spa.
Tell her that you want to make sure she takes time for herself, and that she has a lot on her plate at work.Give her a gift certificate for a manicure or pedicure at a local salon.She won't think you're implying she needs a massage when you treat her to a facial.You can give her a general gift certificate to the spa and include a list of the services inside.