- Keep the message light and casual. Don't say anything intense like, “I can't live without you.” Tell your ex about something funny that happened to you or something interesting that reminded you of your ex.
- Make sure that you are sober when you reconnect with your ex.
Can an ex fall back in love with you?
According to experts, it's totally possible to fall back in love with someone you used to date, and the reason why makes sense. "Once you love someone, unless your respect for them is destroyed, you can always love them again," Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, tells Elite Daily.
How often do exes fall back in love?
Key points. Research finds that 40-50 percent of people have reunited with an ex to start a new relationship.