A massage therapist should never touch the genital area of the client. However, it is never appropriate to perform massage on or touch a woman's nipples. The area of the upper inner thigh, either in front or back, is an area that is rarely touched.1 Oct 2014
How do you massage a private part?
Try the massage by inserting a gently-curved finger into your vagina. Then gently feel for a soft spongy section on the front wall that can sit behind the clitoris. When you find it, massage it gently, varying your strokes between fast and slow and different amounts of pressure.