Asking another woman out might be intimidating for a woman in the LGBT community.The prospects of a beautiful relationship should be more important than the fear of rejection.
Step 1: Look at her body language.
A woman's interest level is obvious if you pay attention to her body language.If they are interested, many women will lean into you as you speak.She might look at you from across the room and make eye contact with you when you are not speaking.The signs could mean that she likes you.If you know her to be a shy person, or that she is reserved around others, then it's not a good idea to measure her body language.
Step 2: Talk to your friends.
If you have your mutual friends with you, they will be able to give you advice on how to ask her out and gauge her interest in you.If they ever have the chance to be around the two of you at the same time, ask them to see if she has any interest in them.They can give you advice on how to ask her out.
Step 3: Show your interest.
She might not be interested in you because you have not shown any interest in her.You should show interest in her gradually as you gauge her interest.When you see her, greet her with a smile and pay attention to her.
Step 4: Determine her relationship status.
You should determine her relationship status before pursuing her.Maybe the woman you are interested in is someone you know.Asking her out could be seen as disrespectful if she is in a relationship.If you don't know the girl well, you can ask around to find out if she's dating someone.Social media can be helpful in this area.You can indicate whether or not you're dating someone on Facebook.If she has a significant other, she might post about him on other social media sites.
Step 5: She has views on the lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer community.
Ask her what she thinks about gay rights.If she is uncomfortable with the idea or experience, try to listen to her reasons and share your opinions with her.If her responses are negative, you should not ask her out as she will likely not be open to the idea.There are many women out there who are gay or bi.Don't get caught up in a person who is not interested.Take care of yourself as well.It's okay to remove yourself from the conversation if she makes very harsh comments about the gay community.
Step 6: Do you know if she is bisexual, lesbian or has a romantic preference for women?
She doesn't have anything against lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transexual people, but that's not always a good sign.If she is interested in women, see if you can find out from your friends.You can tell from her social media posts if you have access to her page.She might tell you if she is in a relationship or not if you ask, "are you here with your boyfriend?"
Step 7: Make eye contact.
Direct eye contact shows that you care about what the other person is saying.If you smile while looking at another person, it indicates a desire for or interest in them.Keep eye contact with your love interest.Don't stare for too long.This may be offputting to her.
Step 8: Occasionally, touch her.
Touch her slightly when the two of you are talking.If you want to avoid doing anything overt or intense, place your hand on her shoulder for a few seconds.If she has something on her face like an eyelash, you can offer to get it off, but always ask first.
Step 9: Be confident.
People respond positively to people who are confident.Don't approach her with your hands.Instead, walk up and talk to her.If you are nervous, take a few deep breaths.The mirror is a good place to practice your approach.
Step 10: Make her laugh.
Making a woman laugh is one of the easiest ways to talk.If you want to get her attention, try a few funny stories on her or come up with something funny in the moment.You can make fun of something like the cafeteria lunch or make a joke about something funny a coworker did to make her laugh.
Step 11: Give her a compliment.
People tend to compliment women positively.You can compliment her on something you like about her.It's nice to be praised for your physical appearance, but it can also be nice if you're also appreciated for the work you do.You could say something like, "I noticed some of your artwork the other day and it's phenomenal!"
Step 12: Get to know her.
As you flirt with her, make sure you are also trying to get to know her as well.To develop a bigger picture of who she is, ask her questions about herself and her life.If you don't know her well, ask questions that are not too personal.Ask her about her favorite book or movie.This will help you decide if you want to ask her out.
Step 13: Ask for her phone number.
You need to have a way to contact her before you ask her out.If you don't already have her number, ask her if you could have it so you can call or text her.You can reach out to her via social media if you don't see her often.You could say, "I wanted to know if we could talk or text sometime?"I would like to have your number.
Step 14: Ask in person.
If you can, ask her in person.This will usually be received better, will be taken more seriously, and is more romantic than asking via phone or text.You can ask her at a time when the two of you can be alone.You could text her, "hey, are you going to be at 1PM today?"I have something to ask you.
Step 15: Accept the outcome.
Her response may be positive or negative.You should accept the outcome.If she accepts your offer to leave, that's great!She needs to plan a nice date.It is okay if she states that she is not interested.Consider other options if you want to move forward.Her privacy should be respected.She doesn't want others to know she's gay.Do not out her if she tells you this.Allow her to do it her way.
Step 16: Don't be afraid to be direct.
This could be construed as a completely friendly invitation to hangout in a non-romantic way.You will need to be more clear with her if you want to date her.I was wondering if I could take you on a date this weekend to a new restaurant downtown.
Step 17: It's a good idea to plan a date.
If she will accept your offer to take her on a date, you should begin planning where you will go.When you do all of the primary planning for the date but also include her interests and likes, it's nice.If she has any restrictions on her diet, ask her if you can take her to a certain restaurant or not.Allow her to pick the movies if you pick dinner.