It is difficult to know what to do when you realize you have feelings for a girl.You want her to know you're interested, but telling her directly might feel too big of a step.Dropping some hints is the perfect solution.She will realize that you see her as more than just a friend if you show your interest through body language, light teasing, and social media attention.
Step 1: Casual plans can be made with her.
You are not asking her out on a date.In a big group setting, set up something very casual.Showing her that you want to spend more time with her is a big hint about your feelings, but the large group of friends around will make it a low-pressure situation.Start with fun, energetic activities like bowling and laser tagging, where you will be able to talk a bit but without the pressure of a one-on-one date.It should sound like it happened to you to invite her.I am going to the beach this weekend with a large group of people.You should come.I thought it was boring, but with you there it might be fun.
Step 2: Tease her and make her laugh.
She is studying at school, her hometown, or her favorite TV show.Don't tease her the whole time you're talking, and avoid self-deprecating humor, which could make you come off as unconfident.Listen to her sincerely and mix a couple of jokes into the conversation.If she works on the school paper, smile and joke, "I bet you report a lot of hard-hitting news stories around here."Playfully disagrees with her with a line like, "Your favorite movie is Ghostbusters?"Don't tease her about her looks, her intelligence, or her family.
Step 3: She should be treated differently than everyone else.
Go out of your way to find and talk to her when you hang out with a larger group of friends.This will show her that she is more important to you than other girls, and that her conversation is special to her.If you joke around with every girl you talk to, be more genuine with her.Don't pay a lot of attention to other girls.You might think it would make her jealous, but that won't be the case.She will assume that you are just a flirt who is not really interested in her, and that she will be hurt by the change in your feelings.
Step 4: Give her a compliment.
Say something nice about her.She will be flattered that you have been thinking about her and listening to what she has to say.You could compliment her taste in music, movies, food, or anything else by saying, "You look amazing tonight," or "That's so cool that you volunteer at a dog shelter."You can say, "Good choice, the steak is the best thing on the menu" or "That band you recommended is amazing."
Step 5: Before you leave, say goodbye to her.
If you are at an event with her, make a point of finding her before you leave.She will remember that you came back to her just to say goodbye, and that she must be special to you for you to exert that kind of effort.It was great to see you, but I have to head out.If she smiles and agrees, try for a hug.If you haven't asked for her number yet, now is a great time to do it, just smile and say, "Okay, see you later."Say, "Oh wait, I don't think I have your number" when she agrees that you should see each other again.Can I get it done quickly?
Step 6: Text her because.
You should text her to set up plans, but you can also send her random things that remind you of her.This will show her that you are thinking of her even when you aren't together, which shows you see her as more than just a friend.If you tease her lightly, it will encourage her to respond.If you text her, you can say, "We were talking about all these symbols in Hamlet today and I was thinking, if only Susan were here, she's the biggest Shakespeare nerd I know!"
Step 7: You can take a picture of the two of you.
Make sure you both look good in it and write a caption.A relaxed caption will show you are not desperate because of the fact that you posted a picture with her.If you are nervous about taking a picture together, make a joke out of it by saying, "Finally found the one person who knows more about baseball than I do."My mom wants to know if I talked to anyone besides my brother.Will you be the proof?
Step 8: Like a few of her recent photos.
Be careful not to like any photos that have been posted more than six months ago.You can show her that you are interested in her by liking her page.
Step 9: Leave a comment that is flirtatious.
It is possible to show a girl you are interested in with a clever comment.Keep your messages short, casual, and cool by commenting on just one or two recent photos.I'm not sure why I wasn't invited to the Super Bowl party.Have you ever heard of my food?
Step 10: Send pictures on the app.
Send selfies with silly filters.Make it your mission to become her best friend, and even start a streak, which will give you an excuse to snap each other every day.Send a message every few days to let her know what she is doing.She can tell when you take a picture and replay it, so make a joke out of it.If she sends a funny selfies, for example, you can send a message saying "Blackmail material ;)", so keep most of your flirting to your regular texting.Don't send inappropriate pictures.They will scare her off and freak her out.
Step 11: Direct message her to have a casual conversation.
It is possible to start a conversation about something she has posted.You can leave a comment on a picture if you write something neutral.She will have to respond to a question or reference an inside joke that no one else would understand.If she posts a picture from a tropical vacation, you could say, "I'm debating about going there next year, give me three reasons why I should, ready go."
Step 12: Don't overload her with comments, pictures, or messages.
Let her reply or like the picture before you comment again.If you send a message, wait until she sends you another one.Sending continuous messages with no response will make you come off as desperate and a little weird.tease her when you see her next if you send something that she doesn't respond to.If she laughs and says she didn't see the message, you're in the clear.Let her make the next move if her response is less friendly.
Step 13: Make eye contact.
If you are talking to her, you should make a point of looking at her even if you aren't talking.She will like the fact that you are paying a lot of attention to her.If you see her across the room at an event, look at her a few times--not so much that you will seem weird, but enough to catch her eye at least once.Give her a small smile if she looks back.She may see you out of the corner of her eye if she doesn't make eye contact.Make a joke about it, like "Yeah, I guess I just couldn't take my eyes off of you"
Step 14: When you are talking to her, lean in.
Take any excuse to get closer.If you are at a party, restaurant, or sporting event, you have a reason to talk to her.This shows that you want to hear what she's saying, and also to get closer to her.Try not to get too close to her.If she backs off a little, say, "Sorry, it's just so loud in here." Lean in with your ear first, to make it obvious that you're getting closer to hear her better.She might suggest walking somewhere less crowded to continue the conversation.
Step 15: tending to her needs is how to show her respect.
Holding the door open, offering to carry something for her, or speaking politely are examples of "chivalrous" gestures.Walk her out when she's ready to leave.If she does not want your help, don't push too hard.
Step 16: There are ways to touch her.
Sit so that your legs are brushing each other, or skim her hand when you laugh.Let your arm linger on her shoulder as you say hello and goodbye.You are showing her that you want to have physical affection with her, but you also see her as more than just a friend.She is probably just shy if she backs off a little.Keep talking and let her relax, then try something casual.If she was surprised by a hug when you said hello, try to lightly touch her shoulder.
Step 17: When you see her, fix your appearance.
Fix your shirt or smooth your hair.If you care about how you look in front of her, you will let her know that you are interested in a flattering way.
Step 18: She doesn't have to ask to order her favorite food or drink.
This is a great way to show your interest in a group of people.She will be surprised and happy that you remembered her favorite dish, and the food or drink will give her an excuse to stay put and keep talking to you.I thought you could show me what's great about onion rings, because I remembered you said how much you love them.
Step 19: A funny gift for her.
If it is around her birthday or another holiday, this is important.She will be touched that you went to the effort of buying her a gift.It indicates that you like her more than just a friend.Try to incorporate any inside jokes you have.If you share a class and complain about how hard the assignments are, look for a funny book of wrong test answers.You can give her a taco cookbook or a gift card to your favorite taco shop if you like them.
Step 20: Leave something sweet for her to find.
Surprise her with a small chocolate bar or packet of candy will make her day better.If you know she has a tough test in one of her classes, sneak in early and leave a candy bar on her desk.How did the test go?I have heard that chocolate helps you score higher.
Step 21: She will love a ticket to the event.
She would love to go to a music festival if she mentioned a certain genre.This is a great way to show her that you care about her and want to spend more time with her.I have an extra ticket to that ice cream festival.You should eat your way through 50 flavors with me if you are free next weekend.