Don't make your first connection a rushed story about what may have been a scandal at the time it occurred. Instead, be friendly. Let the long lost relative know your DNA test matched the two of you. Offer them your contact information, and let them know you would like to keep in touch.
Can I see my dads will after he dies?
You need to contact the probate court and the court clerk's office with your father's name and the date he died to see if there was a will that was filed. Sometimes, this can be done online. The court must then rule whether the will is valid and whether there were two witnesses.28 ene 2017