- Keep calm. Cats feel threatened by sudden movements and aggressive actions. ...
- Don't stare at him. Cats appear to think that's really rude and won't want to interact with you. ...
- Rub him the right way. ...
- Bond through beauty. ...
- Bribery works, too. ...
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Can I turn my cat into a cuddler?
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Why does my cat not cuddle with me?
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Do cats get more affectionate with age?
Some cats will become more affectionate with age. They can soften and get more comfortable with you as they mature, and this is more likely with males that are neutered. But, it all depends on the personality and breed of the cat. Some will be soft little lapcats and others will remain more independent.