The internet makes it easy to connect to people we don't know.Asking a cute stranger out is different than asking someone out in real life.If you want to get a date with the person of your dreams, we have some tips for you.
Step 1: Represent yourself online in the same way you would in real life.
If the person you are asking out knows nothing about you, add some information to your profile that explains what you do.You look fun and interesting if you put up quality photos of yourself.This applies to any online platform, whether it be an online dating profile or one of your social media accounts.Your potential date might not want to go out with you if your profile is boring.It is possible to check out the other person's profile before sending a message.Before you start talking, you should have some information on them.
Step 2: Say hello for a simple approach.
If you want, you can introduce yourself.Mention your friendship in your opening line.It is important to get to know someone before asking them on a date.Try something like that.Kevin is nice to meet you.Alice is my name."Hey, how's it going?" I think you know my friend James.
Step 3: What do they do for work?
If you talk to them for a while, you will have a better chance of success.If you two are a good fit, you can learn more about them.Ask them questions like, "How long have you been rock climbing?" and "What do you get up to on the weekends?"
Step 4: Let them know that you like them.
Feel free to compliment yourself throughout your conversation.You can talk about their hobbies or their career path.It's a good idea to stay away from anything about their appearance.You could say, "I really like chatting with you!"I feel like we could talk about anything.All of your videos look professional.
Step 5: You can ask them out of the conversation.
If you are having a nice chat but aren't ready to ask, you can ask if they want to exchange digits.You can text them more if they want to go on a date with you.Say something to the effect of, "You seem really cool."If you want to keep talking, here is my number.Do you want to swap numbers?
Step 6: They're more likely to accept if you have something in mind.
If you want to ask them out, think back on your previous conversation to find an activity they enjoy.Pick a specific day and activity for you two to do.You two may have talked about how much you love coffee.I was thinking of checking out the new coffee shop downtown this weekend.If you know they are into hiking, you might ask, "I have never been out to the Multnomah Falls trail."I want to show you the ropes next week.
Step 7: If you don't know what they like to do, try this.
Do you want to know where they like to get a coffee?Tell them that it sounds nice and that you two should leave.You could say, "What's your favorite place to grab a drink around here?" and then they would say "That sounds nice."When they suggest a restaurant, you could say, "If I wanted to get Italian food, where would I go?"We should go there tomorrow night!
Step 8: For a more subtle approach, ask indirectly.
If you don't know if they like you or not, gauge their reaction by looking at their plans.If they are not, you can ask if they want to hang out.It could be that they are not interested.Say something like, "Do you have any plans this weekend?" If they say no, try something else.I was thinking about going to see a movie.Would you like to join?
Step 9: If you have been flirting a lot, use this technique.
Try to come up with an awesome date idea.If they win, you would like to take them out on that date.Say something like, "I bet you can't come up with a better date idea than me." When they tell you their plan, you win.Let's do it!