It's important to understand your options if you are already pregnant or worried about it.Women in America think abortion is their only option.All possible options should be presented to women during a difficult situation.There are two options for parenting a child.Many people think that adoption is hard.When you find out that you are pregnant, it may be overwhelming, but many women realize that they can't imagine life without their child.Proactively practicing an effective birth control method is the best way to prevent an abortion.
Step 1: Know your legal rights.
In the USA, no one can force you to have an abortion.Don't let anyone pressure you into making a decision that you are not comfortable with because the choice is up to you.It is considered child abuse to force a minor to have an abortion.Call the police if you are coerced into having an abortion.For 75% of the world's population, you have the right to have an abortion, as long as you inform your parents and get their consent.
Step 2: Consider parenting.
Helping and supporting parents can be an amazing experience.Even if the baby was not planned, some women find parenting to be the right choice.To find out who is willing to help you raise your baby, talk to the baby's father and family.It will be easier if you have the support of your loved ones.You have to come up with a plan for how you will be able to take care of your baby.Is it necessary for you to get a job and make child care arrangements while you are at work?Should you be eligible for financial assistance programs?Food, healthcare, and job training for low-income mothers are some of the benefits offered by the United States government.Will you be able to accomplish your goals while raising a child?You might be able to make arrangements that will allow you to attend school.
Step 3: Consider adoption.
If you don't think raising your child is the right choice for you, but you do not want to have an abortion, then you should consider adoption.There are loving families who will be happy to raise your child and give him or her a wonderful life.As soon as you decide to place your child for adoption, start working with an adoption agency.They will help you find adoptive parents.Adoption laws are different in the US and around the world.You may be able to arrange an adoption without an agency in some US states.In some states the baby may be placed in foster care for a short period of time before being adopted.The waiting period before the adoption becomes official varies from state to state.Depending on where you live, there are three different kinds of adoption.You won't know who the adoptive parents are and who you are with a closed adoption.You and the adoptive parents will have contact information with an open adoption.You and the adoptive parents won't have contact information, but you can communicate with each other through the adoption agency.
Step 4: Get support.
It's important that you don't feel alone, no matter what decision you make.This will be a very challenging time in your life, so reach out for the support you need to make the right decision.Talk to the parents of the child.Know what support you will get.If you need emotional support, turn to your friends or relatives.If you need impartial counseling about your options, call a hotline.Counselors can explain your choices, offer guidance, and refer you to local organizations that can help you learn to parent, arrange an adoption, or get an abortion.The pregnancy support centers are great for pregnant women.Some of the facilities offer abortions, but they also offer counseling and help with adoptions and parenting.If you call or visit a religiously affiliated pregnancy help center, you may be pressured to have an abortion if you don't believe in reproductive freedom.Pro-life organizations will not give you any information over the phone and may offer you biased information in an effort to convince you not to have an abortion.The National Abortion Federation and Backline.org both offer hotlines that pregnant women can call to discuss their options.You may be able to get a referral from a trustworthy healthcare provider.If you aren't a religious person, most churches will be happy to help you find adoption resources or talk to you about parenting.If you're still considering abortion, you may not want to go to a church that's against it.
Step 5: If abortion is legal in your area, you should consider getting an abortion.
You could travel from Ireland to England if you lived in a country where abortion is illegal.It is possible for you to get an abortion even if your friends, family, or religious institution don't like it.It is your right to decide if it is the right choice for you.
Step 6: Check on her.
It's important to recognize that a friend or loved one is going through a difficult time if they are dealing with an unexpected pregnancy.To find out if she needs your help and support, be sure to call or visit her frequently.She might be isolating herself from others.Encourage her to spend time with you and other loved ones.She can get her mind off her troubles by participating in a fun activity.
Step 7: Let her know how you can help
If you are very close to a woman who is dealing with an unexpected pregnancy, you should let her know how you would help her out if she decides to have a child.If she seems ready, talk to her about the contributions you would be willing to make.Discuss your plans for the future with the child's father.Allow her to share your opinions on the baby as well.If you live with the woman, you should discuss living arrangements with her.She shouldn't be pressured to make a decision.Tell her that you want to talk about these things so that she has all the information she needs.
Step 8: Encourage counseling.
Encourage the woman to get as much information as possible and speak to a counselor if she is not sure what to do.She can make the best decision by talking to an expert.Help her if she needs it.She might want someone to visit the counselor with her.It's important to refer your loved one to a counseling center that will inform her about all of her options and not try to influence her decision based on their own beliefs, no matter what your views are on abortion.
Step 9: Listen to what she needs.
If you can, help your loved one deal with this situation.It's best to ask her how you can help first.She will not feel pressured or intruded upon.She needs to make her own decisions if she is not interested in hearing other people's advice.If she disagrees with you, be respectful.Let her speak if she wants to.If you listen closely and offer support, you can be supportive.
Step 10: Do not judge.
Don't let your loved one know you're angry, sad, or disappointed that she's in this situation.It's important that you show your love and support for her.She is already dealing with a lot and the last thing she needs is criticism from her family.If you need to talk about your feelings for a pregnant woman, find someone else to do it with.Don't unload your issues on the pregnant woman, as this will cause her more stress.
Step 11: You have to educate yourself.
It is possible to have medically accurate information about sex.Try websites that teach you about contraception, responsibilities, pressure, and the emotional aspects of relationships.You should know how to say "no" to a partner, understand your own body, and be able to put on a condom.Clear and continuous consent is needed.Before engaging in a sexual act, make sure you have your consent.Say no if you don't want to change your mind.If your partner becomes angry, disrespectful, or aggressive if you say no, this is a red flag.
Step 12: There is a plan.
It's important that you have a plan, no matter how you decide to prevent pregnancies.Think about what methods will be easiest for you to use.Consistency and correct usage are required for most birth control methods.Discuss your birth control plan with your sexual partner.Let him know that you expect him to be involved in preventing unwanted pregnancies.It's not acceptable for your partner to refuse to take part in the plan.Don't have sex with him if he refuses to wear a condom or use other birth control methods.
Step 13: Consider not having sex.
It's the only way to make sure you won't become pregnant.This is not the right choice for everyone, as it requires a lot of discipline.If you feel ready for the responsibilities, you should only become sexually active when you are.Sometimes penetration isn't needed to become pregnant.It's possible to get pregnant when sperm comes in contact with the vagina.The transmission of sexually transmitted infections will not be prevented by having only oral sex.If you're Abstinent, it's a good idea to have a backup plan.Many couples become pregnant when they have sex with no protection.Take hormonal contraceptives or keep a barrier contraceptive handy in case your plan fails.
Step 14: Use contraceptives regularly.
Hormonal contraceptives can prevent you from becoming pregnant.In the United States, you need a prescription for hormonal contraceptives.Many of the methods are covered by insurance.The oral contraceptive or birth control pill is the most common hormonal contraceptive.Some pills contain both progestin and estrogen.The pill needs to be taken every day in order to work.The birth control ring is inserted into the vagina for three weeks, then removed for a week and replaced with a new ring.You have to remember to remove and reinsert the ring on time if you want to prevent pregnancies.The birth control patch is a small, flexible patch that sticks on to your skin and releases hormones into your body.You wear the patch for three weeks, then take it out for a week and replace it with a new patch.You must remove and replace your patch on time in order to prevent pregnancies.
Step 15: There are long-term hormonal birth control options.
If you're worried about having to remember to take a pill every day or change a patch every month, there are other hormonal birth control options that may work better for you.For months or even years at a time, a quick visit to your doctor can keep you protected against pregnancies.The birth control shot can be given at your doctor's office.You have to remember to get each shot on time in order to avoid getting pregnant.The birth control implant is one of the most effective contraceptives because it works for a long time without you having to think about it.A small rod is placed under the skin of your arm by your doctor.It keeps you from getting pregnant for up to three years.IUDs are a highly effective form of birth control.Your doctor implants tiny devices into your uterus.They prevent eggs from implanting into your uterus by releasing hormones or copper.They prevent pregnancies for five to 10 years depending on the type.
Step 16: Use condoms.
Condoms are very effective at preventing pregnancies when used correctly.If you are sexually active, condoms are the only way to prevent the transmission of STDs.If you think you might be at risk of contracting an STD if you use another birth control method, you should always use condoms.Male condoms fit over the man's penis to prevent the exchange of bodily fluids during sex.There are also female condoms available.Similar to male condoms, these are placed inside the woman's vagina.They aren't as effective as male condoms.Condoms and another birth control method will reduce your risk of becoming pregnant.
Step 17: Spericide can be used.
Spermicide helps prevent pregnancies by killing sperm.Gels and creams are available over the counter at drug stores.It's not a very effective method of birth control on its own, but it can reduce your risk of pregnancy when combined with other barrier methods.spermicide is included in some condoms for added protection.
Step 18: Other methods of contraception can be looked into.
There is a way to prevent pregnancy by placing a cap inside the vagina before sex.Every woman's body is different, so you need a doctor to fit you for these devices.spermicide and diaphragms must be used together to be effective.
Step 19: Consider the possibility of sterilization.
If you are certain that you don't want to get pregnant now or ever, you can see a doctor to have a surgical procedure.If you're sure you won't change your mind about wanting to get pregnant in the future, you should only use this option.Two different types of female sterilizing can be done as outpatient procedures.The fallopian tubes are tied closed with tubal ligation, which prevents them from coming in contact with sperm.The fallopian tubes form scar tissue when they are irritated by an instrument, which prevents eggs from traveling through them.It can take several months to be effective.If you have only one sexual partner, he can have a vasectomy.The procedure prevents a man's sperm from reaching his penis.It is effective, but not 100%.
Step 20: Don't forget about emergency contraceptives.
There are still ways to prevent pregnancies if your birth control plan fails.The sooner emergency contraceptives are taken, the more effective they are.Some of the emergency contraceptive pills can be purchased over the counter.If you are already pregnant, these pills prevent you from getting pregnant.Emergency contraceptive pills can be purchased at most pharmacies without a prescription, and they are also available at women's health clinics.An emergency copper IUD is also available.You will need to see a doctor.If you need more information about emergency contraceptives, you can call the hotline at 1-888-Not-2-LATE.Emergency contraceptives do not work as well as other methods of birth control.If you miss a birth control pill or condoms, you should consider taking emergency contraceptives.