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How To Be an Attractive and Approachable Girl
Do you want to put your best foot forward?Do you think you're invisible?Do you want guys to notice you without changing you?There are a few ways to let your 'awesomeness' become more obvious.
Step 1: You should compare yourself to a few friends.
Most of the time when we look into a mirror, we see what we're used to seeing, but not always.We are more likely to notice the little things that no one else would notice.The way we see ourselves is different from how other people see us.If you compare the way you look with someone else, you will get a more accurate description of yourself.This is not meant to be a negative comparison.
Step 2: Don't look at the girl next to you and think she's perfect and I'm terrible.
This is not the topic of the article.
Step 3: You can call.
You can check your physical attributes with hers.Is your hair long or short?Is your skin dark or light?Are your eyes small or large?Identifying your physical attributes is all you have to do.They are yours alone!They aren't better or worse than anyone else.They're yours to use.You have to accept that even if you want someone else's eyes or nose, they may want yours.Remember that you are unique.
Step 4: Write down what you've observed.
Your list might be like this: "Medium length hair, eyes close together, full lips, below average height, normal skin, generally wear dark clothes, no jewelry"The list should be looked over.You can tell yourself that this is you by going over this list.You have to like the guy you get.
Step 5: Understand that this is how other people see you, and that they will describe you if asked.
Make sure you are okay with this.You have to accept that you were made this way because you are wonderful.Some of the famous movie and television stars have less than perfect features.The nose is too long and short, the skin is all kinds of different colors, and the heights are way above or below average.The fact that they like who they are and have confidence makes them beautiful, even if they have an expensive makeup artist.You have to accept that the way you look is perfect for you.
Step 6: Take a look at your personality.
What do you like?The things you don't like?What are you proudest of?If you don't know anything about music, you're not likely to meet someone who likes the same music as you, unless they have talked to you.Have you ever felt like there is no one like you in college?It's because you don't know where they are.
Step 7: Take your personality to the next level!
Getting pins or shirts of your favorite bands is a way to express your taste in music.If you put the pins on your bag, you can wear the shirts.You will be saying something to people who look at you.If you want to expose the way you think, decorate your notebooks with pictures and quotes.It's better to do this on notebooks.Only you and a few people can see the inside of your locker.Anything that is likely to be seen should be utilized.
Step 8: Be vocal.
Not friendly or loud.Everyone in school should have heard your voice once.Make sure you use your voice when you ask a question in class or apologize for bumping into someone.Don't talk when you're not comfortable, but if you think you can add something to the conversation, just say it.When people talk less, you want to talk more.If you crash into someone else, most people would just say "Sorry" or "Excuse me."You should keep that going.Say "Oh, I'm so sorry, are you okay?"When people are asked if they have any plans over the weekend.The average person will launch into a long detailed explanation of what they are doing and why and invite anyone else to come along.Be brief with something like that.This will make your reactions out of the ordinary.They are more likely to remember you if you stand out.
Step 9: You should spend time on your appearance.
If you don't bother with yourself, people will not bother you.Try a bit of make up but don't go crazy.It would be a good idea to focus on the eyes.Nobody has ugly or unflattering eyes.When people are talking to you, they'll be more focused if you play the eyes up.When guys talk about their favorite things about girls, they almost never mention the eyes, but even they might not realize that it's the eye contact that starts the attraction in the first place.
Step 10: You should change your look.
Try a new thing.Are you always wearing your hair up?If you want to see how it looks, let it go.This works best with the comparison technique.Unless you like it, don't implement it immediately.You still have a lot of work to do before you can impress everyone.
Step 11: Wear bright colors.
This is important and small.Guys usually notice girls when they are not wearing the same color as the locker or wall.They associate bright colors with confidence.
Step 12: When you walk, do not hunch.
This is very important and small.People don't notice you if you're standing upright.It makes you look more confident and personable.
Step 13: Start smiling
If you catch someone's eye and they see you, smile.A small, modest smile.We saw each other at the same time, not one that said "ooh eye contact!"Awesome!Are you looking at me?A half smile will do.You should not show your teeth.If it's another girl, that could be interpreted as a flirt move or an overly friendly move.Don't laugh if someone makes a joke.Don't blush.Don't smile.There are jokes that are meant to make you laugh.If it is a joke, laugh at it.The people around you will notice you more, because this will improve your mood and give you a confidence boost.
Step 14: No one of your friends are involved in this thing.
If none of your friends are into it, even if you do something stupid, they won't be there to laugh at you.You can join a team.Make sure you are interested in what you pick.The advantage of this is that you get to meet people you would have never met before, and you also get a chance to be more confident.You can let yourself go if no one is around.Be more outgoing.The other kids don't know you are not like that.You will enjoy yourself even more.Sometimes people need to be a little weird.Make sure you don't do a 180 degree personality change.
Step 15: Start the conversation.
If you are alone with someone, make a comment or smile at them and introduce yourself.You will be invisible until senior year if you wait for other people to make the first move.Do this with girls if you get nervous.They might be cynical and rude, but remember that it doesn't matter.You aren't looking for a new best friend.Don't take any negative comments personally.What are they going to do anyways?Did you say "hello" and smile at them?It's ok if they don't notice you.The idea is to start talking.It's still nice to have someone wave to you in the hallway, even if they won't replace your best friend.If you take the initiative, you won't lose anything.If you don't, you could lose something.You can move on to the guys once you are comfortable talking to girls.If you smile and say "Hey" and wait for him to respond, you can start a proper conversation.
Step 16: The changed look should be implemented.
It's fine if you have a few friends outside of your circle, but now that you are a bit more confident, you can be seen.If you think you look good, you don't need to worry about other people.Imagine yourself as an older and confident woman if you put a bit of effort in the way you look.imagining yourself older would give you an edge.It's like playing dress-up.If one of the more popular people goes out of their way to comment or be mean, it means they noticed you and that you can't be ignored.Most of the time, it means that they have something to be jealous of.It's nice if they don't insult you, but you look prettier than them.
Step 17: You don't have to be afraid to make fun of yourself.
One way to make other people feel comfortable is to poke a bit of fun at yourself.If you enter a room and trip, say something like "WOW, I'm such a klutz today"It will improve your approachability and make you feel less bad when someone laughs at you.Someone who can laugh at themselves is a rare and amazing person.No one is perfect.Wouldn't it be better if you made fun of yourself rather than someone else doing it for you?
Step 18: Do not want people to like you.
If one of your friends asks you to do something you don't want to.If you say your dog ate your homework, a teacher might give you a semi-amused, non-believing expression.Just smile a little bit, give out your best sarcastic expression and shake your head no.Look at them straight in the eye if they ask why.Don't worry if they pressurize you.Don't say no or yell.You can't make me!"Get away!"If you can, laugh and keep eye contact.In a case like this, sarcasm would be useful.It would give you enough time to get away if you left them with the kind of insult that would make them think.You should walk away if you think you're being pressurized too much.It will make you stronger as a person, and you will show others that you are confident when you say no.Most people do not.Even if people don't realize it at the time, saying no is more attractive and inspiring than saying yes.
Step 19: Love yourself.
You've changed, but I love the way you are.Contentment is infectious.
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