How To Convince Your Parents to Buy You a Computer or Laptop
There are many reasons to own a computer.Having a laptop can give you a sense of independence.It's possible that your parents worry about safety or that a laptop is expensive.Make a case for yourself.The ability to work on papers and schoolwork is one of the benefits of having your own laptop.Listen to your parents' perspective.If they say no, try to find a compromise.Accept this with grace, if you have to.If you can maturely listen to the word "No," your parents are more likely to change their minds about a laptop in the future.
Step 1: There are some affordable laptops.
If you've never had a laptop before, your parents are unlikely to buy you one.Do some research before asking your parents for a laptop.Some laptops have good reviews.There are online reviews of computers and electronics.If you make a plan, your parents will be more likely to agree to your request.Many of the more expensive laptops cost over $1,000, but you can find a lot of suitable laptops for under $500.Think about your needs.Pick a laptop that your parents would approve of.It's possible to find a laptop with built in word processing features.Look for a laptop that's durable.It would be a bad idea for your parents to buy you a laptop because you may break it.There is a reputation for laptops withstanding a lot of damage.A laptop that doesn't need a lot of maintenance is a good choice.Your parents won't buy you something that's going to break down a lot.
Step 2: Take a look at the benefits of a laptop.
Your parents should see how a laptop can help you.They aren't likely to invest a lot of money in something that will be used recreationally.There are reasons your laptop can help you be more responsible.There are academic benefits to a laptop.You can talk about the benefits of a laptop.You can show your parents games and software that help them learn.If there are any apps you can use to maintain a schedule, please let me know.Maybe a to-do list app can help you keep track of your schoolwork.
Step 3: Potential concerns should be addressed.
It's possible that your parents don't want you to get a laptop.They may worry that it will distract from school.Think of ways to address these concerns when you ask for a laptop.Your parents may worry about you spending too much time in front of a screen, which can cause problems with eyesight and posture.If you have a laptop, your parents may be concerned.You can tell them that you would only use the laptop for a certain amount of time each day.Make sure you know how to use the laptop.If you promise your parents, you'll keep proper posture when using your laptop.It's better to look away from the screen every 20 minutes when using the computer.Let them know that you would be happy to allow them to install security software and parental controls to make sure you're using the laptop safely.
Step 4: It's time to show you're responsible.
If your parents think you've earned it, they'll be willing to give you the request.Show how responsible you are when you ask your parents.A high level of maturity and personal responsibility will reflect well on you.There are ways to show you're responsible.Don't be asked to clean your dishes after dinner.It's a good idea to do a small household chore.This will make you look mature if you embrace responsibility.It can reflect on you if you ask for a laptop.
Step 5: It is a good time to talk.
You should find a time to talk after you feel your case is ready.You have to make sure you stop your parents from asking.It's not a good time to have one or both of your parents stressed out.Think about when you can spend time with your family.Do not ask if Tuesday nights are packed.It is possible that your parents have downtime after dinner.It's a good time to ask.Try not to be distracted when asking.Wait until the television is turned off and your parents are not using electronic devices.
Step 6: First, practice what to say.
Practice can help if you're nervous.Stand in front of a mirror and rehearse what you will say to your parents.If you want a laptop, you have to state your case several times.It is possible that you will be nervous during the conversation.
Step 7: Don't talk to your parents.
It's easy to begin the discussion.A few words can start the conversation.Say something like, "There's something I want to talk to you about."Do you have a moment?
Step 8: Don't be afraid to be direct.
Asking directly will help the discussion progress.Provide the details you gathered that help make your case right away.The conversation should begin with what you want.I would really like to own a computer of my own.You can state your case from there.Bring up the benefits of a computer.I think it would help with schoolwork.Sam is using the computer for her homework when I have papers to write.My own computer would make it easier.Don't forget to address any concerns.If you want, I would be happy to limit my computer time to a few hours each day.
Step 9: Ask for gratitude.
Your parents may be more likely to say "No" if you come off as entitled.Show your parents how much you appreciate them.When you ask for a laptop, you want them to feel appreciated.How much do you appreciate what your parents do?I know how hard it is for you guys to afford everything I have.I know a laptop is not cheap, but I appreciate that.You will sound grateful and mature.Your parents will be aware that you've thought a lot about why you need a laptop and are not just asking on a whim.You know how much these items cost.
Step 10: Listen to what your parents have to say.
Your parents may be hesitant.Before agreeing to a purchase, they may have some concerns that need to be addressed.Stay calm and listen.Your parents might have a reason for saying no.Try to comprehend the reason.Your parents will be happy to know their voices have been heard.It's possible to summarize what your parents said to make it clear to you.I understand that you're worried about my health.You don't want me to be online all day.
Step 11: Do not argue or whine.
You don't want the conversation to go in a bad direction.Don't complain or argue with your parents.This will make your parents less likely to listen to you.Do something to blow off steam if you feel the conversation isn't going anywhere.Instead of blowing up at your parents, go for a walk.
Step 12: In return, offer to do something.
If you can offer something in return for the laptop, then you should.It is possible that your parents are willing to strike a deal.You can earn the laptop by doing this.Your parents may be concerned with your grades in the course.If you would bring up your math grade, you could get a new laptop.Your parents may be worried about money as well.If you can offer to put in some money of your own from an after school job, you might be able to get a new laptop.
Step 13: Ask your parents why they don't want you to have a laptop.
You do not want to argue with your parents.It's possible to know why they're saying no.You can potentially address any issues if you do this.Ask politely.Don't say, "This is so unfair!"Why can't I have a computer?If you don't want me to have a laptop, try something else.Can you tell me why?
Step 14: You might be able to find a compromise.
As mature as possible, offer a compromise.Your parents may be able to meet you halfway if you present a clear, concrete compromise.Make the terms clear.Don't say, "If you let me have a laptop, I will not use it that often."If you want specific timeframes, go for it.If I have a laptop, I will only use it for 2 hours a day, and I'll turn it off an hour before bed.Appropriate punishments can be suggested if you break the conditions of the compromise.If I use the laptop for more than two hours in one day, you can take it away for a week.
Step 15: Accept a "No" for now.
Your parents may still say "No" even if you ask calmly and maturely.Your parents may be concerned about you using a laptop.Accept as much as you can if you get a "No" for an answer now.Say thank you for listening.I like that.You can try again in a few months.If your parents see you're mature enough to accept a "No", they may reconsider in the future.