Humans are drawn to live in communities.We can't choose who we live near in high density areas.If you live in a city apartment or a large house in the country, you can probably find a neighbor who does not respect your privacy.It's important that you handle the situation quickly and courteously.
Step 1: The problem should be considered.
You need to fully understand the situation if you want to deal with nosy neighbors.How long have this been going on?How many of your neighbors are interested in what's going on?Do you live in a quiet neighborhood?How long will you stay in that area?
Step 2: Patterns in your neighbors' behavior can be found.
Is it common for them to be nosy at certain times?During weekends, weekdays, or evenings, they might be by nosiest.Something that is happening in their lives may be the reason for their nosiness.Maybe they are curious about something in your life.They might be interested in your children, your guests, or the work you're doing in the yard.
Step 3: Consider why your neighbors are following you.
You should try to understand their motives.If you think that they are snooping on you, then you're probably violating your privacy, but there must be a reason for that.It is possible that your neighbors have a genuine reason for asking questions.Are they trying to understand the culture of the neighborhood?Are they just interested in having fun at your expense?Are you doing something that makes them curious?
Step 4: Talk to the neighbor.
Don't get too involved in learning as much as possible.This will help you to identify if there is malice in their questions, if they are just being nosy to pass the time, or if you need help making friends.
Step 5: Decide how to deal with the situation.
You can confront your neighbors, avoid them, or befriend them.If your neighbors seem lonely and bored, try talking to them, introduce them to other neighbors, and suggest fun things to do.If you don't want to confront your neighbors, try to find ways to avoid snooping.If your neighbors are always watching you, you should put up a fence or conduct your business indoors if you can't talk to them.If your neighbors are looking for trouble, then consider increasing your security.They should be asked to stop.Don't hesitate to contact the authorities if the situation becomes dangerous for you and your family.
Step 6: Be the strongest person you can be.
Don't stoop to their level.Don't worry, just get on with your business.Don't be threatening.They have wasted their own time if they want to watch you all day.
Step 7: Pretend you're listening to music.
Pretend to listen to songs on your phone or iPod if you don't have time to be nice.If you pass through corridors, lifts, and parks, keep your headphones in your ears.nosy neighbors will see that you are unavailable, and they will look for an easier target.It helps if the headphones are large enough to be seen from a distance.Chances are, if someone walks up to you, they will say something.Some people refuse to take a hint, and might still have the audacity to ask a lot of questions.
Step 8: Pretend to be on the phone.
If you want to do this, you need to put your phone on silent.If they approach you, put your phone to your ear and pretend to be talking.When on the phone, smile and nod at them, this will add to the act that you aren't trying to avoid, but your workload is just too much."Yes, yes it will be done, will send it to you by tomorrow."The report is coming along.I heard that there were problems.There is a bug that we were trying to fix.You can choose between "Yes, yes..." and "Hmm?"On your fake phone call, "Mhm," and "Oh, okay," were used.If you don't think you can make up convincing material on the spot, this may be the best choice.
Step 9: Don't hang out in plain sight of your neighbors.
Move to the backyard if they can't see you.It is possible to host a cookout or play catch with your son in the backyard, but it is not a permanent fix.It's an avoidance technique.Even if you try to keep your neighbor from snooping, he or she might find ways to do it.It's possible to hide in the backyard once or twice, but be prepared for more snooping.You are letting your neighbors rule you if you try to avoid them.Don't ignore your neighbors if the problem is bad.It can be hard to keep your mind focused on escaping someone.
Step 10: Don't act like you're not doing anything.
That makes them less likely to watch.If your neighbors are always asking questions about what you're doing and why, you can simply do nothing.Try to make yourself seem uninteresting.When your neighbors are gone, resume your activities.If you look like you don't have anything to do, some neighbors may be able to strike up a conversation.If you're in doubt, it's probably best to avoid confronting your neighbors or wait for them to leave.
Step 11: Your security needs to be tightened.
If you think your neighbors are looking at your property, this may be a good choice.You should keep your house locked.You should install a security system if you go on vacation.It's a good idea to ask another neighbor to keep an eye on you while you're away.A guard dog is a good idea.This approach may be bordering on paranoia depending on the neighbor situation.Maybe your neighbors are sneaking onto your property while you're away, and you are just giving them a bad rap.If you suspect your neighbors of entering your property without your consent, confront them and ask them to stop.Don't hesitate to call the police if they do this again.
Step 12: Whenever you see them, make a code name for them.
For example, "spiders."If you all agree to retreat to the backyard or start making loud noises, this will prompt your family to behave accordingly.
Step 13: You need to build a fence.
If you want your neighbors to stop looking at you, you should put up a fence.Check the local by-laws on fencing.If you want to build a fence between your properties, you need the permission of your neighbors.If you build onto their property, you may give them more reason to intrude.A large fence can be built around your property by dogs or small children.Say that you didn't want the dog to run free.A hedge, a bush, or a stand of trees can be planted if you don't like the idea of a fence.It will take years to grow these barriers.Do you want to feel like a prisoner because of your neighbors?Building a fence may solve your problem, but it may inspire your neighbors to do more creative things.
Step 14: It's important to be elusive and disarming.
They can come out in 5 minutes if they go outside.Say "hi, how are you?" as you wave at them.If you want to borrow a cup of sugar or a lawnmower, ask them.People may start hiding from you if you keep asking for things.
Step 15: They should shut down their questions.
Tell your neighbors that they make you uncomfortable by asking a lot of personal questions.Give them a straight answer if they do it again, "That's not something I would like to share with you."Make it clear that you mean business when you stare them down.Then leave.They will hopefully get the message and back off.This approach is straightforward and blunt.It may get the point across, but it may offend your neighbor's pride.It's important to remember that neighbors aren't always trying to be rude.He or she might be interested in something.He or she may not know which questions are personal.Do not put up with anything that violates your space.If you tell your neighbor to stop asking questions but he or she continues, you may need to take more serious steps to address the problem.
Step 16: They need to be caught in the act.
If your neighbors spy on you, tell them something that will make them cringe.Inform everyone who is with you, and then out of nowhere, say "Hey Mrs. Jones, having fun there?"Their face turns red as they watch.Give them a cold shoulder if they deny it.Get them alone and ask them to stop.Joke about them nosing.Say something like, "Now don't you spy on me!"They may realize that they are being too intrusive.It could make them stop.
Step 17: Ask about them after giving them a small piece of information.
"So, Frank, what's up?"It wouldn't hurt to say, "Oh, just walking the dog," or "I'm good."This isn't the most exciting reply, and it makes it hard to think up more questions.Ask, "How about you?"People who don't like the feeling of being nosing on them can be upset by this.This is a great conversation starter if they are not interested in what you have to say.
Step 18: You should be obnoxious toward your neighbors until they leave you alone.
In the backyard, make loud clapping noises, play loud music, or flash your lights outside.They may be sent back indoors if they keep snooping around in your business.You should be careful what you start.Escalating the situation may cause the neighbors to escalate things even further.If your neighbors are the type to react competitively, think before you act.You need to live next to these people.If you start harassing your neighbors, especially if you make loud noises, you are giving them grounds to call the police.It may not matter who started it if the police show up.
Step 19: Inform the authorities.
If your neighbors start asking too many questions, you may have to contact the police or neighborhood watch force.If the neighbor won't leave you alone, you may want to apply for a restraining order.If you find your neighbors snooping around on your property, stealing your things, or trying to break into your home, you should call the police.