It's exciting to have a crush in middle school.Your heart races as you feel new feelings.You expect to see a special person in the hallway or 5th period.The time in a young person's life is unlike any other.It may seem nerve-racking at first, but there are more than a few ways to enjoy having a crush.This guide will help you appreciate the experience more.
Step 1: The new feelings need to be embraced.
When dreams are made, they reveal more about you than you might think.When young girls and boys start to grow out of childhood, this is the effect.Your body reacts to chemicals in your brain called dopamine when you like someone and your heart beats faster or your palms sweaty.It's also known as thepleasure chemical.You may think about it a lot.They are on your mind when you wake up, eat and sleep.It will feel like you're dreaming.Do your best to not be embarrassed by liking someone.Natural chemical reactions take place in the body.Don't expect anything to happen.Relax and enjoy the feeling of liking the person.It may seem hard to do.It will allow you to escape any outcome.
Step 2: You can express your feelings.
Having an outlet for these feelings could help you make sense of them.Love notes can be written to your crush.Keep your writing to yourself.You can make a list of songs that remind you of your crush.When you can't see or talk to the person, play the songs.You can save it for the special day when you decide to reveal your feelings.
Step 3: From afar, look at and admire your crush.
Become a secret fan of your crush.Don't follow the person.Take notice of the little things about your crush.There are some obvious things that you like about your crush.People might overlook other things if they take the time to notice them.Maybe they have a birthmark or they snort when they laugh.They should learn to appreciate anything that makes them different.Get to know your crush in a different way.You can find out if they have social media accounts.What do they post about?Do some research if they post about a sports team.Maybe they like the same thing you do.
Step 4: Keep your crush a secret.
If you want anyone to know about your feelings, it's up to you.You can be as private as you want.No one can read your mind.Don't worry, you have a choice.You can either deny or brush it off.Keep it to yourself if you've written about your feelings.No one can find what you've written, so make sure it's in a safe place.If you like the person, act normal around them.Don't bring attention to yourself.If your mind tries to tell you otherwise, remind yourself that they are a regular person.
Step 5: Take care of your appearance.
You do more than what you've been doing before.If you're a girl or a guy, use a new perfume or cologne.You should wear your favorite clothing item.Make sure it's something you've been praised for.Get fit and healthier.Eat more fruits and vegetables.
Step 6: Say hello and be friendly.
Many forget this, but it may seem obvious.There is no pressure.Being friendly is what you are doing.Make eye contact and smile."I like your shirt.""Are you going to homecoming?" is a small question.Did our team win the game last night?
Step 7: You should tell your friends about your crush.
Gossiping about your crush with your friends is one of the best parts.You can make your relationship better by sharing your feelings with them.Your secret could reach other people and eventually lead to your crush.Friends may try to make you look bad.This is part of the process.Even though they like someone else, they will tease you.
Step 8: If you're not already friends with your crush, become a friend.
You could become your crush's best friend forever.You may still wonder what this person is like.You get to know your crush as a friend.Asking questions could be the first thing you do.What do you like to do on weekends?What is it about your family that makes it special?When you get older, what do you want to do?
Step 9: Find out if your crush likes you too.
The benefit of talking to your friends about your crush is that they can give you information.You can find it for yourself.Is your crush nervous around you?Does their face get flushed or does they look away?Those could be good signs.If a girl plays with her necklace, flicks her hair, or rolls up her sleeves, she might like you.If a guy breathes in and pulls his shoulders back or stands like a cowboy, with his hands on his hips and thumbs through his belt loop, he might like you.
Step 10: Ask your crush a question.
There are ways to approach your crush about going on a date with you.Ask friends about how they got their boyfriends or girlfriends to go out with them if you search on the Internet.Plan a fun date if they say yes.There are a few things to remember.It should be simple.Make it worth their time.Surprise them with something out of the ordinary.The power of being confident can be underestimated.Make sure to smile at them.
Step 11: Sometimes having a crush is the best part.
The challenge before the catch is half of the fun of getting a guy or girl.Enjoy the feeling of liking someone before you think about what will happen next.It's a special time in middle school.