It's fun, but you want the girl to know you like her.Don't hit on her but show your playful, charming side.She shouldn't feel pressured or uncomfortable by flirting.She should be at ease with your flirtatious attitude.It can take a little practice, but you will be flirting with a girl when you make eye contact.
Step 1: Positive body language is good.
She knows you're attracted if you show open, flirtatious body language.Look into her eyes and don't look away.You can look closed off if you cross your arms by your sides.Make sure to give her some personal space when you speak.Stand tall and proud.Don't forget to smile!It's easier to flirt if you keep positive vibes.
Step 2: It's a good idea to give her a compliment.
You could tell her that you like her, but flirting should be fun and subtle.This makes her curious and sparks her interest in you.To compliment her, find ways to flirt."You look hot, you must have spent hours putting your outfit together."There are ways to show you want to spend more time with her.Don't say you'd love to see her in a bikini if she says she loves to swim.Say, "I bet you could swim laps around me!"Maybe we will find out soon.Let her know she's special, but don't say "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?"You could say something like, "You make the best cappuccinos of any of the baristas here," or you could flirt with her in her native language.
Step 3: Ask her about who she is.
You don't have to give the girl the third degree in order to get to know her.It's a great way to be flirtatious and sincere when you ask her questions about her interests.What do you like to do for fun?You want to get to know her.Do you have any siblings?She'll enjoy talking about her family if she's close to them.What do you think about it?If you want to make her laugh, tell her something like "What do you think you were in a past life?"
Step 4: To show your interest in her, tease her.
You can start to tease the girl once you are comfortable with her.You could click instantly and be comfortable teasing her, or it could take a bit longer to get into tease-mode.Don't be afraid to show your playful side by teasing the girl while you're flirting.She is flirting with you.You could say, "I see what you're doing!"While you wink or have a coy expression on your face, your feminine charms will not work on me.Make sure to compliment her appearance in a complimentary way.You could say, "Only you could pull off that crazy outfit."
Step 5: You should impress her with your wit.
The girl might be attracted to your sense of humor if you prove that you can answer questions quickly and have fun.You can show her that you're sharp by making a statement at the right time.Showing the girl that you can keep up the banter is one of the great ways to impress her.Shoot back if she's making a sarcastic or clever comment.Don't be boring.Finding a new way to think about old topics is part of being witty.Don't tell her anything.Understand your audience.Don't be mean when you're playing.You don't want to say something that's funny at the expense of someone else.
Step 6: You should show off your sense of humor.
Being funny is a sign of being smart.To catch her attention, make fun of yourself or inject a little humor into the conversation.Time your jokes so you don't interrupt the conversation.Don't say "Oh, that's hilarious" if she says something funny.You can match her humor with your own.It will look like you're trying too hard if humor is effortless.
Step 7: Be confident but not arrogant.
It's sexy that confident people are secure in themselves.She'll be able to tell if you flirt with her.It's easier to talk with her about positive things if you're confident.Don't be self-deprecating.It is different from calling yourself a loser orragging on your life choices to make fun of yourself.Talk about something you're good at, whether it's sailing or learning a new language.You don't have to brag to show you're interesting and capable.She's lucky to be getting a minute of your time if you act like you're so great.It is a big turn-off.Things should be kept on the same level.You should feel lucky to be talking to each other.
Step 8: Don't make sexual comments or come on too strong.
If you are too direct about your intentions, your target will be turned off quicker than you can say, "You're so hot."Don't be too aggressive, this will make you cross over fromflirting with her to hitting on her."Hey, want to make out?"If she feels like you're pushing her to go to the next level, she might walk away.Don't make overly sexual comments.She'll spill her drink in your face if you say, "You have a great rack."Tell her that she looks great.The girl should not be given all of your attention.If you spend all night talking to the girl and ignoring everyone else, it may get too intense.
Step 9: Don't be subtle.
You don't want to be so subtle that the girl has no idea that you're interested.If you want to keep flirting, find ways to let her know you care.If you try too hard to be subtle, the girl will not think you are worth it.Drop at least a few hints that you're interested.She will not think you like her if you don't work with her.She's not in the friend zone.Give her feedback so she knows you're interested, compliment her looks, let her know she's special, or generally treat your conversation like the beginning of a date.She'll think you're a good friend if you don't let her know she's special.If you're on a date, don't be afraid to touch each other.You can show her you're interested by touching her hand or sitting close to her.
Step 10: Don't forget to connect.
If you want to get to know a new girl, you should not flirt all the time or you won't be able to.The girl should be asked some questions about herself and discuss other topics.It is possible to flirt and move a conversation forward.While asking the girl some questions is still fun.By the end of the conversation, you should let her know a bit about yourself.She should know at least something about you so she feels connected.