The world of dating has been shaped by social media.We are more connected than ever, leading to more opportunities to meet new people.Like flirting in real life, there is an art to flirting on social media sites.
Step 1: Search for girls near you.
You can find exciting new options on the Internet.Search for girls close to where you live if you hope that an online connection will lead to a real life one.You can join a local group and start looking for a match.
Step 2: It's a good way to flirt with friends.
In the real dating world, many men meet women through mutual friends.If there is a girl that catches your eye, browse your female friends.If you find a girl you like, your friend can give you information about her such as her interests and whether or not she is single.
Step 3: Pay attention to the pictures on the profile.
A lot of what a girl is looking for in a man can be seen in her Facebook profile pictures.A girl with a profile picture with friends wants to project an exciting, interesting life, while a girl posing carefully for her photo is concerned with her appearance.
Step 4: She gives a lot of information.
Once you've befriended a girl on Facebook, it's a good idea to look at the amount of personal information she has posted.A girl with little information is likely a private person.She may become more withdrawn if she asks too many questions.She may think you are not interested if you ask any questions.
Step 5: You should be able to spot fakes.
Some girls like to flirt on Facebook.It can be difficult to spot fakers, but pay attention to subtle clues that may show that the girl is already taken.
Step 6: It's a good idea to read between the lines when it comes to status updates.
If a girl updates her status many times a day, it's likely that she likes to be socially active and have a lot of friends.Pick a fun place to meet her so that she can have fun.
Step 7: She should be invited to events that are small.
If you have something planned.You can invite her to a small gathering or band gig.This will make her feel important, and not just another person in a sea of Facebook friends.
Step 8: There is a post on her wall.
Sharing a good movie, book, music, or article will get her attention and make her flirt.The wall posts are public.
Step 9: Comment and "like" her posts.
This shows her that you are interested in her life.You can seem clingy if you like and comment on everything she posts.
Step 10: Go ahead and hit her.
Poking is a way to get a girl's attention and let her know that you're thinking about her.A playful Facebook poke may lead to something more intimate.
Step 11: You should type how you would speak when using messenger.
Many people take a more formal tone when using social media, which is not a good way to flirt.Make a mental note of whether or not the message sounds formal by reading it out loud.
Step 12: Don't post and/or message too often.
Being behind a screen can make someone bolder.It's important to keep in mind that being too forward or sexual with her too early on Facebook can be seen as desperate.Communication every other day is a good jumping-off point for actual time frames.
Step 13: Avoid using them too much.
There is a playful and casual tone to a winking face.The use of emoticons shows her that you are an adult and not a teenager.
Step 14: Talk light and casual.
When flirting with a girl on Facebook, stay calm and talk about topics that you have in common.Do not ask questions that are too personal at first."Hey, how's it going?" is a good conversation opener.How has your week been?Did you know about the event that both of you are aware of?Did you hear the global news story?
Step 15: Don't talk about yourself.
Both boys and girls like talking about themselves on Facebook.You can learn more about your crush by asking questions about her.Ask questions such as "What did you do this week/weekend?" if you don't know much about her.How was your day?Ask about her hobbies if you know what she is into.Have you heard any new bands recently?Have you read any good books recently?Did you see the movie?What did you think about it?
Step 16: Know when to get the information.
It is possible to learn about a girl in a way that is casual.Asking personal questions too soon can make you seem weird, so keep it light by asking questions like "Do you have any big plans for the weekend?"I noticed that you have a cute pet, who do you mostly hang out with?I saw some of your vacation pictures, what fun things did you do?
Step 17: Applause was given to her early in the exchange.
She knows that you want to be more than just friends.It could be too late next time if you wait too long to compliment her.If you've just met her, use a compliment like, "It's great getting to know someone as interesting as you.""Your job sounds really interesting" is a good way to compliment her if you already have information on her.It sounds like you got out of your relationship at the right time.Let her know if she makes you happy."You crack me up" is enough to let her know that you like her sense of humor.
Step 18: When you are joking, make it clear.
Body language is useless when you are flirting on Facebook.If you do tease or use sarcasm, make it very clear that what you are saying is a joke by adding an emoticon or the word joke in parentheses.There is a big difference between a girl reading "Yeah, I'm sure you look terrible in the morning" and someone else.
Step 19: Don't give too much away.
The thrill of meeting a new person is uncovering the mystery.Say something along the lines of "You will have to find that out next time we talk" or "Perhaps I'll tell you later" if she asks you a personal question.Don't be too secretive, but keep her guessing.
Step 20: Make it clear that you are interested.
Don't end the conversation with "It was nice talking to you".Show that you are interested in talking again with a statement such as "It was great talking to you, I hope we can do this again soon"This shows her that you are interested in keeping in touch.