Maybe you want to meet someone and turn him into your boyfriend, or maybe you have been crushing on a cute guy for a while.You might be wondering how to win a guy over.We have put together the ultimate guide to winning a teenage boy's heart.If you don't already have someone in mind, we'll walk you through the best ways to meet them, get to know them better, and make your feelings known.
Step 1: It's natural to act naturally.
Make sure to be yourself when talking to that special guy.Changing your personality, interests, and looks can be tiring and frustrating.You do not want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't like you.
Step 2: It's a good idea to put a little more effort into your morning routine.
While being in a relationship with someone is more than just a mutual interest in physical appearance, there is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best to catch their attention.Pick out outfits that make you feel confident.Do not use makeup if you want to.Don't cover your natural features with makeup.
Step 3: You should get yourself pumped.
You are unique, and you are worthy of love, so remind yourself that.If you try to pursue your crush, don't get down on yourself.Have confidence in yourself and hold your head high.You should feel comfortable in your skin and think that you are worth a relationship with.To boost your confidence, write down what you like about yourself.You can show him the best qualities after writing this list.When you tell him a funny story, keep in mind that you like your sense of humor.Maybe you can make your eyes look better with some makeup.Others will notice if you are confident.
Step 4: In order to meet a guy, you have to socialize.
It is easy to meet a guy at school, a local hangout spot or a school function when you are a teenager.If you want to socialize with people, get out of your house.You don't know who you are going to meet.If you are a guy, you can meet other guys if you join a club at your school.
Step 5: Make a small talk with him.
Talking to someone for the first time can be nerve-racking.If you can strike up a conversation with him, look for an opportunity to introduce yourself.School is one of the easiest topics to talk about.Discuss a difficult homework assignment or an upcoming test with him if you are in the same class.You can find out if he likes history class or not.Go sit next to your crush at the assembly if there is an upcoming meeting, and grab a close friend to be your wing-person.This will allow you to get to know your crush and some of his friends as well.Don't feel obligated to talk about the nice weather, instead try talking about something that interests you or that you are passionate about.This will give you insight into your personality, and help you portray more confidence in what you are saying.
Step 6: As time passes, keep the conversation going.
You can't just talk to your crush and say that your work is done.It takes a lot of effort to grow and maintain a friendship.You can talk to him in class or in the hallways between classes.After a few conversations, maybe even casually exchange phone numbers, become friends on social media, or send him a message online.Whatever method you use, keep the conversation going.Don't be aggressive.A guy might not be interested in a relationship or friendship with you.If he isn't interested in talking to you, it's best to cut your losses and move on.To get him to notice you, don't play emotional games or stir up drama.immature games and acts will become tiring over time if you try to catch his attention by doing this.
Step 7: Get to know his friends.
The key to winning a person's heart is getting along with their friends.Get to know his friends by learning who they are.This will show you that you are interested in his life as a whole, not just him.A reason your crush hangs out with certain people is so you can make a new group of friends.Sitting at lunch is an easy way to do this.If you are nervous, you don't need to go by yourself.Take some of the pressure off by getting a friend or two with you.Have your crush meet your friends as well.You don't have to stop hanging out with your friends just because you are interested in someone.
Step 8: Asking him questions will help you get to know him.
Try to find out what his hobbies are.Ask about his family or pets.You should be respectful with any questions you ask.Don't ask if he's comfortable with a topic or question.It can take time to build trust.He may confide in you later if you respect his privacy now.Listen to him when he is speaking.Show that you are engaged by smiling, laughing, or giving small words of understanding.Staying engaged with the conversation will help.
Step 9: It's a good idea to also talk about yourself.
You don't want your conversations with him to feel like a one-sided interrogation, so make sure to answer any questions he has.It is just as important for him to get to know you as it is for you to understand him.This will help you discover hobbies and ideas you have in common.Talk about things that are important to you.If you want to share parts of your personality with him, this does not mean that you spill your deepest, darkest secrets to him.Maybe you can tell a funny story about how you got involved with a hobby or sport.
Step 10: Become his friend.
One of the easiest ways to get to know someone is by becoming a friend.You will have more chances to hang out with him and talk to him if he considers you a friend.You need to be patient with your progress.He might begin to feel pressured or caught off guard if you rush into admitting your feelings before he's had a chance to get to know you.If you are not dating after a few weeks, don't get discouraged because relationships can take time to grow.Before you ask him directly if you are unsure of his orientation, take the time to get to him.It could come up in a casual conversation or a topic you are talking about could give you an opportunity to ask.Use your best judgement to protect yourself.Some of the strongest relationships are formed from a solid friendship.It will happen if you are meant to be more than friends.Taking the time to get to know each other is what is important.
Step 11: Give him praise.
People enjoy being praised even if it feels awkward or embarrassing.Don't be afraid to say nice things to him.You should be genuine with whatever compliment you give.The trust between you both can be damaged by false compliment.It's a good idea to give a mix of praise based on his appearance as well as his thoughts.Tell him if you like the shirt he is wearing.If he has a good sense of humor, you should let him know.
Step 12: Outside of school, hang out with him.
You are going to have to hang out with him off school grounds in order to move past being just school friends.If this is going to be the first time you hang out with him without a group, aim for activities that you both will enjoy.If you want a low-pressure, public location, ask him to hang out in the park or at the mall this weekend.If you want something more structured, ask him to catch a movie or eat dinner at a local diner.Drop subtle hints that you would like to hang out or watch a movie with him if you are too nervous to ask him directly.He could ask you to hang out instead of taking the bait.
Step 13: Be friendly with him.
He may just think of you as a friend if you don't put in the extra effort to be flirtatious.If you use subtle body language to let him know you are interested in being more than friends, you don't have to be obnoxious.It can feel very intimate to make eye contact with someone if you are not used to it.Make eye contact with him from across the classroom, or look at him in the eyes when he is talking to you.When he says something funny or smiles at you, it will shift the tone of the relationship.It will make him feel uncomfortable if you are staring at him, so just be casual about it.Make physical contact.It can be anything from touching his arm when he makes a joke to giving him a hug or ruffling his hair when you wish him good luck on an exam.
Step 14: Take a look at his body language.
If you are lucky, other people might be flirting with you.Take a few moments to notice his body language, and what he might be silently trying to tell you.It will give you a good confidence boost if you don't know his intentions.If he puts his arm around your shoulder or waist, if he stares at your mouth when you are talking, or if his pupils dilate when he first looks at you, are some common signs of him being interested in you.
Step 15: Tell him how you are feeling.
If you tell him in person, your feelings will sound more genuine and authentic.Messages can sound flat compared to spoken words.Take a deep breath and tell him how you feel.Prepare what you want to say to him.Try to do it in front of a mirror.This will give you an idea of how you might feel when you tell him in person.Don't judge his feelings.If he tells you that he wants to remain friends or is not ready for a relationship, you need to respect his feelings.You can not force someone to like you if they don't.Continue your friendship with him, even though it may hurt at first.Even if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, he can still be a really good lifelong friend.