You have been chatting up a guy online and you are ready to take things to the next level, but you just can't seem to make it happen.Don't fear!There are many ways you can try to get a guy to ask you out online.We put together a list of tips and strategies that you can use to land your dream date.
Step 1: He should put the ball in his court.
Mention that you would like to meet in real life if you have been talking online for a while and things are going well.He might propose a date idea.Just like that, he asked you out.You could say, "It's so fun talking to you, I hope we can meet up someday" and then he could reply "Me too!"He may reply with something like, "Why don't we find out?"If he doesn't seem enthusiastic about meeting you, try to keep it lighthearted by saying, "Who knows, maybe one day we'll actually get to meet face-to-face if the universe wants it."
Step 2: You would probably say yes if he asked you out.
If you like the guy and want him to ask you out, why not tell him?It could make him feel like he can do it.You're so fun to talk to.If you asked me to dinner, I don't know how I could say no.I think we have some chemistry here.If he does not take the bait, don't force it.He may come around eventually.
Step 3: Send a signal with your sense of humor.
You seem to have the same sense of humor if you have had a good back and forth with a guy.It's a good idea to make a joke about asking him if he knows anyone available for a date.It could end up being a real date if he plays along with you.You could say, "I don't know what to do."I really want to see this new movie on Friday night, but I don't know any guys who would be interested in going with me.You could ask, "Do you know anyone?" and "I seem to be all out of dates for this weekend."I would love for someone to help me out.
Step 4: Dropping a hint is a fun way to do it.
He will be more confident in asking you out and less worried about being rejected if he talks about going out together.Killing two birds with one stone is to come up with a fun date idea and then get him to ask you out.He could ask you if you would like to go out with him.You could say something like, "Here's the thing: I love food."It is very important to me.If we went on a date, I need to know where you would take me to eat.
Step 5: Ask him what he wants to do with his time.
Everyone loves the weekend.He may be able to take some time off from work to go out on a date.Tell him that you don't have any plans and ask him what he's doing.He may ask you to join him if he already has plans or if you want to get together since you are both free.You could say something like, "I have nothing going on this weekend, what about you?"If he doesn't seem interested in getting together, you can keep the conversation going with something like, "No."
Step 6: He could ask you if you want to go.
Talk about a movie you want to see, a restaurant you would like to try, or a coffee shop you have heard good things about.Tell him how much fun it would be to check it out.He may respond with, "That is cool, you wanna go check it out this weekend?"Let's find out on Friday!
Step 7: Let him start.
If you are shy, you don't know him very well, or you're not sure how you feel about him, just ignore it.You can still communicate with him and see where he is.He may feel comfortable just asking you out if you have great chemistry.As you get to know each other online, there is nothing wrong with taking your time and letting your relationship develop organically.If he takes a long time to get back to you, try not to come on too strong by sending a lot of messages in a row.It could make you want to drive him away.If he doesn't seem to be making any moves, you may want to consider dropping some hints here and there that you would like to go out with him.
Step 8: You should make him want to spend time with you.
If you want a guy to like you, let him know that you are into him by flirting with him.Make it clear that you're interested in more than just being friends with some playful teasing.He may ask you out if he senses that you're into him.You could respond with something like, "Sorry to hear that," if he said it was a pain.You could try to flatter him by saying, "Well, someone who's super hot like you probably doesn't have any problems getting a date."
Step 9: Positive signals will be sent to attract him.
It can be nerve-racking trying to get a guy to like you and ask you out, but don't let him see you sweat.When you are messaging each other back and forth, play it cool and calm.If he takes a while to respond to your messages or if he doesn't pick up on any hints that you want him to ask you out, it's not a big deal.It could make him want to chase after you more.He will say something like, "So sorry to take so long to get back to you!" if he replies to a message hours after you sent it.You could also say, "No worries, I was running around all day anyways."You could say something like, "Oh, look who it is!" if he sends you a message after not communicating for a few days.It wasn't like I was waiting for you.How have you been?
Step 10: Tell him you have a plan and ask if he wants to join.
You don't have to wait around if you want to because he can catch you if he wants to.Go get him if you want him.I was going to go to the new art exhibit on Saturday, but I wanted to check it out first.One of my favorite bands is playing a show on Friday.You want to go with me?