You know someone who has one up on you.Maybe it was a coworker who made you look bad, or a friend who pranked you.Maybe a significant other hurt your relationship, or maybe it was someone you don't know.It is time to get even.Here are some ways to get revenge, get even, and get some peace of mind.
Step 1: For now, play it cool.
Getting even is a way to release anger which can be harmful.Don't say you're going to get even right away.Make your target think he's won when you react honestly.He'll be less likely to expect payback.Say your coworker didn't tell you about an important meeting or used your work as his own.It will make you look worse if you call him out and make a scene at work.Wait for your chance to get even and let him think he's won.Is your friend taking advantage of you?Tired of not being able to talk to him?Wait for your chance to get even, don't blow up at him.Maybe your partner is taking advantage of the relationship.If you're freaked out, try not to say things like "This is why..." or "You always...".
Step 2: It's possible to brainstorm ways to get even.
There are lots of ways to get even.It is time to channel your frustration into thinking.Either come up with your own plan or give him a taste of it.Plan when, where, and what.You have time to set up, so get to work early.Plan a date with your significant other or hang out with a friend.Do you remember the coworker who hurt you?You can use what you have to get even.It's possible that your friend is always borrowing your stuff.Do you not want to get even by returning the favor?It's possible that your significant other is always late or never offers to pay.
Step 3: You should put your plan into action.
It is time to get your dessert.With your plan all set up, you will have to do some acting to keep him from thinking anything is up.You can set up a private event that won't show up on your coworker's calendar if you use a shared calendar at work.If you want to have a bit more fun, you can move his files into a shared folder, hide them in subfolders, or even remove them completely.Make sure that you don't get fired for doing what you're doing.When your friend's phone runs out of battery, he can't charge it by himself.It may sound silly, but we're getting even here.If you feel creative, you can use his phone or computer to post on his social media account apologizing for all of his transgressions.If you want to get even with your significant other, make him wait for once or forget your wallet.
Step 4: He remembers that document getting even.
You can enjoy it over and over again.It's just as fun as getting even.A friend can help you snap a few photos or shoot a video.Providing proof is the best way to make someone remember what he has done.You can always post it to social media if you feel like it.
Step 5: After you get even, reconcile.
Remember that you are getting even, not ruining his life or ruining a relationship.Tell him why you did it and how you can help him with anything you may have done.
Step 6: Find people who want to get even.
Chances are you are not the only one who feels that way.When looking for ways to get even, this could be useful.Maybe you have been mistreated by your coworker.Work with other people to come up with a plan.For a multi-front getting even scheme, grab your friends.If you have access to his apartment or home, you can easily rearrange his furniture, and if you really want to get even, put his mattress on the roof.
Step 7: Everyone should be given a role.
Everyone has a part in a great movie.If you want to distract your target, you need to know who is going to be the greaseman.When there are many moving parts make sure everyone knows his role.
Step 8: Prepare and rehearse.
If you want to play in the Superbowl, you have to practice.
Step 9: The plan should be executed for getting even.
It is time to put your plan into action after everyone has been assigned a role.It will take you a long time to complete your task if you get even with your coworker.To clock how much time you have, you should get to work early.Know what his schedule is like and how long it will take you to get in and out of his house if you are getting even with him.If he leaves his phone unlocked, pay attention to how he uses it.One simple option is to have your other friend distract your target while you put in the wrong password enough times to keep him out.It is possible to lock him out for 24 hours.
Step 10: You should bask in your glory!
You did it!Now that you and your friends have gotten even, enjoy your achievements with a beverage or two.
Step 11: It's up to you to let it go.
Sometimes the best way to get even is to leave it up to karma and make peace with yourself.Show the person who hurt you that his immaturity doesn't affect you.
Step 12: Let us know how you feel.
It doesn't mean ignoring what happened when you let it go.You can tell the person who hurt you that what they did isn't ok.It does not have to mean that things stay the same.You should stop letting your friend take advantage of your relationship by not giving him things or allowing him to use your stuff.
Step 13: The focus should be on the present and the future.
You can change how you deal with what happened in the past.You can get stuck in a neutral zone when you can't let go of things that have happened to you.Setting positive goals to accomplish or flip negative feelings into positive ones is a way to move forward if you're taking a high road approach.Maybe it's a cry for help if your coworker makes you look bad.Maybe he values you and looks up to you.Help him with his work in the future.
Step 14: Allow him to forgive you.
Showing someone you forgive them can be very powerful.You don't have to forget because you forgive.You can forgive someone if you help them accomplish something they're having trouble with.Speak about your feelings.Tell him how his actions made you feel.You have to put yourself in his shoes.There is a reason for his actions.Think of a time when you did the same thing.If all else fails, just breathe.Take some time to yourself and take a few deep breaths, remember that the world is larger than you and what's going on in your life.