Sometimes the attraction between two people is not obvious.Sometimes it seems to happen all at once, without anyone trying.It can take a long time to develop.In some cases, no matter how much you want someone to like you, it just doesn't happen.There are some things you can do to get your crush to like you again.
Step 1: Try to get his or her attention by not coming on too strong.
You might be tempted to tell them how you feel if they haven't noticed you.This can be frightening if your crush hasn't noticed you yet.They can take you for granted.Don't talk to your crush.You will look weird!To get noticed by your crush, you need to be around them.It seems like you're following them all the time.If you are around your crush, make sure you have something to do.You don't want to look like you're just hanging around waiting for attention.
Step 2: Be outgoing.
Try to be like the life of the party when your crush is around.Talk to others and be loud.You should look like a happy person with an active social life.When your crush is around, be friendly.A lot of people are trying to look calm around their crush.They end up looking closed-off instead of looking calm.If you can avoid this, you will look like you are open to talking.
Step 3: They might think you're a show-off if you don't showcase your talents.
In front of the crush, look for an opportunity to show something you're good at.Do you know how to play an instrument?When your crush is around, look for an opportunity to showcase your talent.Are you good at baseball?Ask your friends to play catch if you have a crush on them.You don't want to look full of yourself if you look successful.You don't want to appear mean.Don't put other people down by showing what you're good at.
Step 4: You should use your eyes.
Don't stare, but look at your crush.You want to let your crush know that you've noticed them, but don't keep looking at them to get their attention.You want to glance at your crush for less than a second.
Step 5: Look and smell your best.
Try to look your best when you know your crush is around.Keep your hair and nails neat and clean by wearing nice clothes.You also want to smell good.Keep your body clean.If you have a distinctive smell, you might want to wear a perfume or cologne.Don't get carried away though.Studies show that smells are more attractive.Many people find too much perfume unpleasant.
Step 6: Start a discussion.
Say hello when you catch your crush's eye.Find a topic to talk about.
Step 7: You should learn about your crush.
Find out what your crush likes to do.Ask them questions about their favorite activities.You can find out what your crush likes.This can be useful for a discussion.Everyone likes to talk about their interests.If you know any of your crush's friends, you can ask them questions about your interests.The news that you are asking questions about your crush can have an added bonus.It can indicate that you like them.
Step 8: It is possible to find a common interest.
Hopefully, you and your crush have the same interests.You should get some ideas about what to talk about when you are together once you know what he or she likes.It can give you ideas for things you can do together.You don't want to impress your crush by pretending to like things.This isn't being true to yourself.Your crush will eventually find out that you don't like it.This can make you cringe.If you hate a band and your crush asks you about them, just say you don't like them.Bring up something you enjoy.You don't seem negative, but you are pretending to be someone else.
Step 9: They should spend time together.
When you've had a chance to chat with your crush, look for opportunities to spend time together.You can use your common interests to do this.You can join the art club if you like to draw.If your crush wants to go to a baseball game, see if you like it.It's probably a good idea to spend time with your crush in a situation where other people are around.Once you've had a chance to get to know each other, it's time to ask your crush to do something for you.
Step 10: Don't be negative.
People like being around positive people.When you're spending time with your crush, try to be happy.Hopefully, being around this person makes you feel good.Don't give up.You shouldn't belittle yourself if you like a bragger.You should show that you like yourself if you want your crush to like you.Say "thanks!" if you get a compliment.Don't complain too much.Everyone needs to blow off a little steam when they have a hard day.Try to keep your conversations lighthearted and fun.
Step 11: You should make eye contact.
You can start sending signals that you like him once you start spending time with him.You can use your eyes to talk.You should make eye contact with your crush for a few seconds and then look away.If they do it again, watch.Don't look at something for too long.It can be unnerving.
Step 12: There's a smile.
If you make eye contact with your crush, smile to yourself.You don't want to seem excited.A smile lets your crush know you're happy.
Step 13: Be who you are.
It's important to be yourself, even if you flirt with your crush.To please your crush, don't pretend to be someone else.They will never like you if they don't know you.Don't try too hard on the flirting.Don't get carried away with it.It will not seem genuine if you give your crush tons of compliment, laugh at every joke he or she makes, or try to strike handsome poses.Try to be calm and be who you are.
Step 14: Contact.
If he or she seems to like flirting with you, try touching him or her in a playful way.When your crush makes a joke, laugh and lightly touch his or her arm or hand.It's a good idea to lightly punch him in the arm.If you are walking past a crush in a hallway, try brushing your shoulder against theirs.It should look accidental.You can wiggle your fingers on your crush's hand or arm.Stand next to your crush.Don't make him or she feel uncomfortable.They should respect their space if they move away.Take your crush to places by holding his or her hand.Rub your fingers on the wrist of your crush.When you say hello or goodbye, give your crush a hug.If your crush is liking you back, kiss them on the cheek.If your crush hasn't shown interest in you, do not try this.When you two are alone, take the risk and try it if they have shown interest.