You may be wondering if it's time for your first kiss if you like someone and they like you back.It's normal to be nervous and unsure about your first kiss.The person you want to kiss feels the same way.Pick a good time to kiss, like on a date.Touch the person and then lean in for a kiss.When the kiss is over, hold hands or cuddle.
Step 1: Pick the right setting for your kiss.
Picking a time and location that will feel comfortable is the best way to get that first kiss.You should wait until you are with the person you want to kiss.Talk to them to make sure they're happy.It's not a good idea to kiss someone when they're upset or in the middle of something.A school dance is a good place for your first kiss.
Step 2: Be flirtatious with them.
You don't seem closed off if you keep your arms open and smile at them.If they're okay with it, lightly touch them on their hand, arm, or upper thigh.Give them praise, ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say.If they're flirting back, watch how they act.They are most likely flirting with you if they are looking into your eyes, smiling, and talking a lot.Slow down and give them some space if you notice them pulling away, folding their arms or looking down.
Step 3: Don't use sticky lipgloss to keep your lips soft.
People don't want to kiss dry.Lip balm keeps your lips soft and kissable.Your date might not like the scent of an unifier flavor.There is a weird texture to sticky lipgloss.Use regular lip balm.It is okay to wear lipstick when you kiss someone.Choose a long-wearing lipstick that is less likely to rub off.Don't apply it before the kiss.
Step 4: Pop a mint or piece of gum.
It's rude to kiss your partner if you have bad breath.Before you try to kiss the person, eat a breath mint or chew on a piece of mint gum.Sugar can make bad breath worse, so choose sugar-free breath mints or gum.You should carry a pack of mints or gum with you.
Step 5: To initiate physical contact, gently touch them.
Touch their arm or shoulder.You can touch them with your hand for a few seconds.If you feel ready, gently brush the hair away from their face, then rest your hand on their shoulder or cheek.You could try putting your arm around their shoulders.Slowly, introduce touching.If they are smiling and leaning in toward you, start small by touching their hand.
Step 6: You can show them you're interested by making eye contact.
Look into their eyes for a few seconds.Look away for a few moments.Don't stare at them continuously, but keep returning your gaze.They may be interested in you if they meet your gaze.They may not want a kiss if they are avoiding eye contact.
Step 7: Ask if they would like to kiss.
If you and the other person both want the kiss to happen, you should get consent.It can be really romantic.Can I kiss you, may I have this kiss, and would you like a kiss?
Step 8: You should move your body towards them.
You can close the distance by leaning in their direction or by scooting closer to them.They're interested in kissing you if you wait for them to come closer.They might not be interested in kissing if they moved away.It's best to back off.
Step 9: You should tilt your head to the other side.
If they tilt their head more to the right or left, watch.Put your head in the opposite direction.This will prevent your noses from bumping into each other during the kiss.You don't need to tilt your head a lot.Make sure your nose isn't in front of their nose.
Step 10: As you prepare to kiss, close your eyes.
Close your eyes as you near their lips, and keep them closed until the kiss is over.They won't get uncomfortable during the kiss.They might feel uncomfortable if you stare at them.Keeping your eyes open can take away from the mood.
Step 11: Put your lips against theirs.
It's better to keep your lips soft.Remember to keep your head tilted so that your nose doesn't move.For several seconds, gently kiss them.Try not to put saliva on their lips.Your lips should be pressed together during your kiss.Don't use your tongue or open your mouth during your first kiss.
Step 12: You can put your hands behind their head or lower back.
It can be hard to figure out what to do with your hands during a kiss.Put them behind the person's head.You can care for their neck or play with their hair.Place your hands on their back to make things simpler.When you're new to kissing, these are a good place to start.
Step 13: Pull away so that you can take a break.
Don't kiss them for too long.Put some space between the two of you.Think about what happened.It's a good idea to take a break before going back in for another kiss.
Step 14: Show them you liked it by smiling at them.
The other person is probably as nervous about kissing as you are.Look at them and smile.You could hold their hand or put your arm around them.
Step 15: If they seem ready for it, go in for a second kiss.
Lean in close after making eye contact.Look to see if they're leaning in as well.Ask them if they want another kiss, if you're in doubt.Say, "Are you ready for another kiss?" or "Can we do that again?"Do not feel pressured to kiss if you don't feel like it.
Step 16: For a few minutes afterwards, cuddle or hold hands.
Don't kiss after the kiss.Hold them in your arms, cuddle up next to them, or hold hands.Do what feels right for you and your kissing partner.Relax and enjoy this time together.You can watch a movie, talk, or go for a walk.
Step 17: When you're ready, say something about the kiss.
It's okay if you feel overwhelmed or nervous after your kiss.You might be excited and talking.It's a good idea to talk to your partner about what happened when you're ready to kiss.Say something like, "I've been wanting to do that for a really long time," "That was nice," or "You're a good kisser."It's okay to wait.
Step 18: It's a good idea to kiss your partner the day after.
Call or text the person you kissed to see how they're doing.Let them know if you want to go on another date or hang out with them again.Tell them if you liked the kiss.Having a first kiss doesn't mean you have to always kiss.You can decide if you want to do it again.It is normal to be excited about the chance to kiss again.I had fun last night.The kiss was nice.Are you going to walk me home from school tomorrow?