One thing to get a girl to go out with you is another to keep her happy.You can either get lazy and forget to show her that you love her or you can have a hard time figuring out what she wants.The rewards of relationships are worth it.Keep your girlfriend happy by following the tips in this article.
Step 1: She needs to be treated like a princess.
Stand up when she enters the room, offer her your jacket, and pull her chair out for her.She'll like the small gestures.Don't make her pay or split the bill when you take her on dates.Girls like it when a guy takes care of the dinner bill.Do not force her to be helped if she doesn't like it.
Step 2: Affirm her.
When she least expects it, tell her she is beautiful.Girls spend a lot of time trying to look nice, and it will make her happy that you noticed.Your compliment should be meaningful and honest.Try "I really like the way you did your hair" instead of "Your hair is pretty".It is soft and beautiful.You can use different expressions to show that you are thoughtful.Don't be afraid to compliment her or show her affection.Real men aren't ashamed to show the world they've found a good woman, and your girl will love you for that.People talk about what they value.She will feel like a priority if you show the world how you feel about her.If she feels comfortable with it, hold her hand in the mall or at the movies.Ask her if you have doubts.
Step 3: You should pay attention to her.
You can fall into a pattern of forgetting to make her feel special after a while.Some guys ignore their girlfriends in order to get back at them or to punish them.Let her know that you're thinking about her.Send her a text when you're thinking about her.Don't text anything that she might not want her friends or family to read.Try to text her "good morning" as often as possible.When he starts his day, a girl loves to know she's the first thing on his mind.Don't ignore her as a way of being manipulated.She may dump you if you ignore her often.She is waiting for you to call or talk to her.Speak up if you are having a problem.After an argument, wait for some hours or a day to cool down the heated emotions, that the longing for one another is stronger than the anger, and there is a good chance to make it up.Even if you think she should do it first, be prepared to ask for forgiveness.Each side has the right to have feelings in an argument.She can feel dumped if you wait a long time.
Step 4: Don't be scripted.
If she likes flowers or notes, give them to her.She can be whisked away for a romantic dinner.Take her somewhere new.If you mix it up a little, many girls will get bored if you take them to the same place time after time.You will create new conversation topics and memories with her because of the variety of new places.When you know she has things to do, make sure you plan for it.Ask her about her schedule in a casual way so she doesn't know you're planning something.If she can't be part of your plan in a way that makes her happy, you should have a Plan B.E.g.If bathing is involved, you need to know which part of the month it is for, or she will reject it.Surprise her with a song or poem.Send it or a link to it for her to share if you find one that really talks about your feelings.
Step 5: Return her calls.
You need to be responsive when your girlfriend calls you.Even though you are not with her, let her know that you care about her.When ignored, girls can get anxious.A happy girl is good to her boyfriend.
Step 6: Surprise her with gifts.
A small gift like her favorite candy bar goes a long way.When she tells you what she wants, listen and surprise her with something special.Don't buy her with luxury.Don't buy gifts at the last minute.Put some thought into it, and invest some time.What do she like?Music?Are you talking about scarves?Is there bracelets that are delicate?Is it a special perfume?Does she have any collections?Do you know if she has a wish list?Has she mentioned wanting something recently?Ask your mom or best friend for advice.She needs to remember what she appreciates more than the price.It is important for you to remember important holidays and anniversaries.She may be saying what she wants.She will appreciate thoughtful gifts.Pay attention to what she says when you bring her to the mall.She can wear something to remind you of how much you care for her.A picture of you inside a locket is an awesome idea.If she gets you a gift for a holiday and you don't get her one in return, she's probably going to be upset.If this has happened before, make sure it doesn't happen again, and make up for it with a few surprise gifts.A gift can show how much you appreciate her.You are ready to give up something for her.A very personal touch, like if you make a custom design item yourself, is appreciated.Unless it has a special significance, don't repeat gifts.She can dislike the gift if you give it to another girlfriend.
Step 7: Make her happy.
You can use humor in a natural way.Unless she likes that sort of thing, you don't have to tell that kind of joke.Know what kind of humor she likes.Try to make her laugh when she's upset.If she laughs at something, try to understand it.You should show that you like her jokes.
Step 8: You should respect her.
Your girlfriend is not your property.Even if her opinions and desires are different from yours, be aware of them.She doesn't agree with you about everything, so make her feel stupid.Being with a copy of yourself is boring and disagreements give a better perspective on life.One can win a discussion but lose her affection.
Step 9: Be responsible by keeping your promises.
Make it a priority to be on time and to keep your word to her and other people.A woman thinks her man isn't safe enough for a serious relationship because he cannot keep his word.She sees that you are a trustworthy man if you warn her in time and make up for it afterwards.A broken promise is often seen as a lie.Asking for forgiveness is better than blaming circumstances.She will feel your priorities with time.Show responsibility for your studies, work and money.It's possible that you could take responsibility for a family in the future.An irresponsible man is not a stable partner.
Step 10: You should be careful when talking about female friends.
If you have female friends that you would like your girlfriend to befriend or if you want her to trust you in your friendship with other women, never compliment their physical attributes.If you have positive things to say about a female friend, say something about her being friendly or creative.Or when it's obvious: smart, famous, sporty."My friend is coming to town and I really want you to meet her."You will really like her.She's gorgeous!All of my friends stare at her because they can't keep their eyes off her.At first, your girlfriend may be suspicious of your female friends.You have eyes for only one person in the world and that is your girlfriend.If you follow this step, your female friends will be more accepting of you.If you want to avoid contact with female friends that have no stable relationship, mention that she could be a good partner to someone else.Talk about the female friend's relationship with her husband.
Step 11: When little white lies are appropriate, tell the truth.
You may never be able to fix the distrust between you and your girlfriend caused by major lies.It is possible to throw away a whole relationship with just one act of distrust.Show her that you are trustworthy by your actions.It's never a good idea to have conversations with other women that are flirtatious or intimate.She needs to know that she can trust you in speech and conduct.If you have a hard time with this one, maybe you aren't ready for a relationship and should question why you feel the need to flirt with other women in the first place.Do not consider other women as potential partners.Don't tell her that another woman is better looking than she is.If she asks you if another girl is more attractive than you, your answer should always be "NO!"Don't talk about how you find a celebrity gorgeous.Doing this will make her feel bad about herself, and she will resent you for it.You should always remind your girlfriend that she is more attractive when you comment on someone's beauty.
Step 12: Don't be in her.
You don't do that for most people.She's more likely to trust you back if you show her that you trust her.When she does the same for you, keep her secrets.You can show your girlfriend a different side of you.Protect her dignity by not telling others about private things that could upset her.
Step 13: Good online and phone manners.
You should say so on your Facebook account when you are in a relationship.She will feel confident in you if you are proud of her.She will not fear that you might be seeing other girls if you tell your family and friends you are serious about her.Tell your girlfriend if someone hits on you online.If you keep a secret from her, it will make her feel worse.Don't use e-mail, text or social networks to communicate with other girls without letting your girlfriend know.If your girlfriend discovers your texts while you're flirting with someone else, she's going to be furious.If she has doubts, invite her to look at your mailbox.If you choose her, leave all other girls aside, or she will probably feel it.
Step 14: Stand up for her in front of other people.
Take her side if someone is teasing her.It is an old need for girls to know that their men have their backs at all times.If she took her friends' side over yours, how would you feel?Let her know that she can depend on you.It is wise to show your readiness to "take any bullet for her" because it is often the man who needs the most support in life.A man's career is ruined if his woman doesn't support him.
Step 15: She needs to get along with her family and friends.
If her friends and family don't like you, they may convince her that you're not good for her.She will encourage her friends and family to keep going out with her if she acts like a gentleman around them.You should make an effort to be nice because you care about her, even if you don't like them as much as she does.Remember the names of people important to her.
Step 16: It's a good idea to balance your time with friends and with her.
Don't make her feel like you'd rather be with your friends than with her.You need to have friends with other people besides your girlfriend.Show that you are strong enough to be her support, because you have happiness and a social life that is not dependent on her.Make sure you strike a balance.
Step 17: Don't take her for granted.
She could leave you if you don't work hard to keep her happy.If she would lose you, make sure she feels good about it.It's time to treat her like a gentleman if you want to keep her.Don't put your hobbies, video games, or other things you like before her.Don't listen to music with headphones on if she's sitting next to you.Explain why and how long your studies disturb you.She doesn't go on a date if you want to play games on your phone and text your friends.She will think you're rude and that you don't want to spend time with her if you do things like that.When she's not around, you can do as much as you want.She can assume that if you spend a lot of time with less serious things, you will not work hard for a good income later, but be a financial burden to her.
Step 18: Give them space.
Do not smother your girlfriend.You want her to be happy when she hears from you.She may become overwhelmed if you smother her.There is time for everything, and if one feels that time is wasted for little things, it can become a reason of strain instead of joy.Help each other to be efficient so they can spend more time together.
Step 19: Be willing to change.
Change your behavior if she mentions something you do that upsets her.Girls will take a lot of hurt in a relationship.You're going to lose her if you keep hurting her.She can find someone who will treat her like she wants to be treated, even if she takes some low blows from her boyfriend.She will tell her friends if you hurt her badly.Relationships require compromise when it comes to minor issues, but you shouldn't change who you are.She should be willing to do the same for you.Both should be content at the end of the day, but sometimes you have to take the first step.There is no base for a relationship if it feels one-sided and one doesn't feel happy at the end.
Step 20: Be aware of your date.
A woman may feel belittled if the man does too much and doesn't give her the space to be in the leading position at times, like paying for a meal or helping him.In cultures with improved gender equality, some women will feel humiliated if they can't invite at every second or third date.They may need a man for their own welfare if they have an income.It should all be about love.There is a chance for a healthy relationship with balance and mutuality.The other's emotions are more important than gender roles.
Step 21: Don't treat your girl the same as everyone else, but read her emotions and surprise her.
There is a set of love languages that each person has, things that can touch their heart that they feel loved and cherished.The most common are affirming kind words, time priority, actions of service, gifts, physical touch, really understanding the other, remembering details once told, and showing no regard to obvious faults.E.g.A flower can for a lady means as much as a home-cooked meal means to a man.Explain to her that if she does things with a kind intention that makes you excited, she will not feel bad.It's a trump card that few people dislike it, and a pure gesture of thoughtfulness without erotic associations, because starting with the feet is less intimidating.If guys show love in order to get sex, girls will feel used and cheap.She can create fear in her heart if she feels disrespected.Don't think "sex" is the same as "making love" to a woman - make sure it will be for her.She wants to show love in her own way, which a guy really understands, so she can feel fulfilled sooner or later.