Most kids play truth or dare at some point, and the dare to kiss someone is likely to come up.It can be difficult to kiss on a dare, especially if it is your first kiss.It can be fun to kiss for the first time.Before you kiss someone, make sure you consider a few things.
Step 1: Do you know if the person is serious about it?
People joke about what they are daring you to do in a game of truth or dare.You can avoid embarrassment if you make sure they are serious about the dare.It's enough to double check if you reply with a laugh and say, "Are you serious?"You can always tell them you want to take the dare even if they say no.
Step 2: Do you want to accept the dare?
Do you want to kiss someone or not?It is possible to say no to a dare.Do not kiss the person if you feel uncomfortable.Say no to something you don't want to do.
Step 3: Ask if you can kiss them.
Since kissing involves two people, you need to make sure it is okay with the other person.Even if you want to do it, they may not like it.Asking permission is called "gaining consent."Kissing someone without asking them first can be considered sexual assault.
Step 4: It's time to breathe.
A good kiss involves fresh breath.The person you kiss won't like it if you have a bad taste in your mouth.Take a deep breath and think about what you ate recently.It's a good idea to practice healthy dental hygiene.There are many ways to breath clean.If you have time, brushing your teeth is the best option.If there is less time, chew some gum, eat a mint, or use a mouth rinse.If it is possible to plan for the chance of a kiss, buy a disposable toothbrush.
Step 5: Take some deep breaths.
Kissing can cause excitement in your body.It makes you breathe faster.If you want to be calm for the kiss, take a few deep breaths.
Step 6: Talk to the person you are going to kiss.
When the person is not familiar, this may apply more.It is possible to make small talk and ask how the other person feels about kissing.It's good to talk about the kiss before you do it.
Step 7: Slowly, move in for the kiss.
It is easy to move your mouth forward when you are excited.If you go too fast, you can hit the other person's mouth with your mouth.Lean forward slowly to make sure you connect correctly.
Step 8: Pull the back of the head forward with your hand.
You can also place a hand on the shoulder if you don't feel right touching the hair.This type of touching helps you and the other kisser.
Step 9: You should tilt your head to the right.
It's a common mistake to not tilt your head in the right way.People tend to lean to the right.The odds are good that this will work.Which way to lean is a good topic for the pre-kiss talk.
Step 10: Don't be aggressive.
Since this kiss is on a dare, you will not know the person you are kissing very well.It is a good idea to start out slowly.Unless you feel your partner starts it, don't use your tongue.
Step 11: It's best to kiss for the right amount of time.
It is okay to let the kiss last a little while if it is going well.If you can't tell the other person is uncomfortable, then stop the kiss.
Step 12: End the kiss.
It seems obvious, but how the kiss ends is important.Don't pull away too fast.Pulling away and giving a light, short kiss is a good way to end a kiss.
Step 13: There's a smile.
It may feel awkward when you kiss and look at each other.Smiling at your partner will make you feel better.Whether the kiss went well or not, ending it with a smile is better than a frown.
Step 14: Don't get carried away.
Don't take the kiss too seriously because it was for a dare.Take a deep breath like you did before the kiss, because you may be breathing heavily.Discuss the experience with the person you kissed.If you break the possibly awkward silence, you will be able to relax and move past the kiss.
Step 15: Act confidently.
Since dares are usually done in front of other people, you should act like you did a good job.If you are afraid, don't show.You should not show that you didn't know what you were doing.Act as if it went well.
Step 16: It's time to let it go.
The person dared you to kiss them.You can stop thinking about it if you take a new step.