How To Know if You Like Your Same Gender Best Friend

Every question needs an answer.You're probably here because you suspect that you like him or her.

Step 1: Consider how they look.

Romantic/sexual attraction is different from aesthetic attraction.You probably don't like them if you think your friend is good-looking and you like to look at their face.He has nice hair.It's appealing to look at.He has good hair.I want to kiss him and go to dinner with him.

Step 2: Ask your parents how they feel about the love of their life.

How did they know that?What did it feel like to them?If you don't want to mention the name of the person you're thinking about, that's fine.

Step 3: You should notice how others respond to you.

If you're a couple, acting cold and disapproving, or trying to set the two of you up, other people may notice if you have a pretty obvious crush on them.If your friends detect a crush, they will try to set you up with your best friend.

Step 4: How much do you think about them?

Are they on your mind a lot?Are you constantly thinking about ways to spend time with them?If you think about your friend more than you do about other people, this means you have a crush on them.

Step 5: Do you have romantic or sexual thoughts about them?

Straight/aromantic-asexual people have a few fleeting thoughts about same-gender relationships, but they're minor in the long run.If you keep thinking about it, there's a good chance you like them.

Step 6: How do you feel about them?

Is your face glowing and does your cheeks feel warm?Does spending time with them make you happy?

Step 7: Consider how you feel about them.

Since you're friends, you will naturally like each other, but love and crush go beyond this.Are you able to see their inner beauty?Do you know their strengths and weaknesses, and love them?Do you want to be with them all the time?This is a sign that love is growing.