How To Love Being Bisexual

Bisexual people are the ones who can love more than one gender, without choosing one or the other.Pansexual is a term related to bisexuality.Pansexuals love the person they are with, not their body, which means that their love is gender and borderless.If you are bisexual, pan- or polysexual, you have to love it.

Step 1: Come out when you are ready.

Do not worry if you realize that you are not bisexual after coming out as one.Not everyone knows and things can change.If you don't want to make a mistake, you can keep it a secret until you are sure.It is your decision when it comes to coming out.

Step 2: Each and every time, you say if you're getting teased about it.

You can't judge me for it since it's part of who I am.I can love and adore anyone I want, and my love is genderless.Why do you care if I'm bisexual or not?If I'm bisexual, why should it matter?Some people like blond and brown hair, so why should it be different?Don't be mean about it.Stay calm and say what you want to say.You can't start a fight just because you're a little defensive.

Step 3: Do not care what people say about you.

Straight and gay people may call you a fence sitter, or they may think you are in a phase, which is an example of biphobia.You can either ignore it or try to educate it.You can't force someone to accept it.It's their decision if you try to slowly guide them into accepting your sexuality.

Step 4: Be true to your image, and work on it.

Try not to change for people.Let it be if people don't believe you are bisexual.sexuality and personality are completely different.If someone doesn't believe you, it's probably either because they do not want to or they are stubborn.They could come around in the future.

Step 5: Be honest with yourself and your partner if you want to experiment in a relationship.

Being dishonest to the person you are with will hurt both of you.If your partner is okay with it, you can either explore this side of yourself with or without them.Try not to experiment while you are in a relationship with someone else.It could ruin your current relationship if you realize that you are not attracted to the other person or gender you were experimenting with.One relationship at a time.The route is steady.

Step 6: Over time, your sexuality or gender preference may change.

You might feel more attracted to one gender than the other.This is not unusual.Your sexuality should not be affected by that.It is a matter of opinion.If you are attracted to a certain gender slightly more than another, that doesn't mean you're not bisexual.If you have a stronger interest in males than females, that does not mean you are not attracted to females as well.