It's not easy to play a player.If the guy is a true player, then he's an expert at fooling girls and breaking hearts and has been doing it for years.If you want to play a player, you can do it by playing hard to get, making the player want you, and then cutting him.If you want to learn how to play a player and have him eat out of your hand in no time at all, follow these steps.
Step 1: He can see you having fun with your girls.
You need to remind him that you have better things to do than to be with him now that he's paying attention to you.He can see that you have a good time with your girls by laughing it up with them, hitting up the dance floor, or just having a great time without him.You can do this anywhere, not just at a bar.If the player is in your school or someone from town, let him see you having fun with your girls no matter what you're doing.Make it clear that you don't need him.
Step 2: At first, ignore him.
If you want to play a player, you have to get his attention.Do you run your hands through his hair and tell him how hot he is to get his attention?Absolutely not.If you have to, be an ice queen and ignore him to play a player.If he walks into a room and tries to charm you and your girls, look away, stare into your drink, or barely say hello before you check your phone or disappear to the girl's room.He will notice you because you didn't notice him.He will wonder why his magic didn't work on you, as players expect to be worshipped by every woman around.You don't have to be rude to him.You have better things to do than to talk to him.You don't have to insult him or call him names.
Step 3: Slowly acknowledge him.
You can start to open up a bit after a few weeks at the same party or bar.To get to know you and win you over, you should let him know that you see him, but just enough to make him curious.You can introduce yourself, repeat his name, or smile at him from across the room.Don't let him make you laugh, or ask you to dance.If he insists on buying you a drink, you can let him, but don't allow him to spend the night trying to charm you.Take the drink and say thank you.
Step 4: Let him know that you're having a good time.
Let him see you hanging out with other guys to reinforce the idea that you don't need the player in your life.If another guy is showing interest in you, or if you're hanging out with your guy friends, you should let him know that you enjoy all of the attention, as long as it's not from him.You can show him that you don't need him by chatting with other guys.It's not necessary for you to grind with another guy on the dance floor to show that he isn't needed.Don't look at the player to see if he sees you having fun.He shouldn't think that you're trying to get his attention by ignoring him.
Step 5: It's possible to be flirtatious.
When you acknowledge the guy only to ignore him with your girlfriends and other guys, it's time to bring him back into your life.You should have a flirtatious conversation with him after you think you've driven him crazy.It's cool to play it cool.Don't flatter him.Let him know that you enjoy talking to him.Things should be fun and light.That will make him want to talk to you more.Tease him a bit.Don't let him take himself too seriously.
Step 6: Be aware of his charms.
He's not going to fall for his usual lady-killing tactics if you let him see that you like flirting with him.You can make fun of him or refer to the girls behind him as his girlfriends.This will make him want to prove how different he is.He'll only become more persistent if you don't flatter him.That's what he wants.
Step 7: It's a good idea to be mysterious.
It's time to be elusive while making the player want you now that you've played hard to get.To make him want you, you need to be mysterious.Don't talk about your past, your hopes for the future, or your biggest fears.He should speak in hints and innuendos instead of being honest.Don't tell him where you're going.Let him think.He should figure out who you are from what you do to how many siblings you have.Instead of giving him information, let him do all of the work.He shouldn't be kept up to date with your schedule.You are busy over the weekend.You don't have to tell him that you're celebrating Aunt Mary's 50th birthday.
Step 8: It's fun to be fun.
Part of the reason players play girls is because they're tired of girls who drag them down, fall in love, or want them to do serious boyfriend-like things like go to the grocery store or let you cook a never-ending meal for them.If you want to make a player want you, you can't drag him down.You should be up for anything, whether it's a trip to the beach or a run through a rain shower.Things should always be fresh and light.You're trying to play this guy, not marry him.Talk about the fun things you will do that day or week.This player won't be with you in the future.Don't cry, laugh.This person isn't the one who should see the things that upset you.
Step 9: Make him jealous.
You shouldn't make the player think that he has your heart because you're spending more time with him.Don't be shy about flirting with the other guy if you run into him.If you're going out with another guy, tell the player about it.He will want you more if he knows there are other guys in your life.If you want to make him jealous, you can pretend that you are meeting another guy.Don't be afraid to answer the phone if another guy calls you.As you chat with the guy who called you, be flirtatious and fun.
Step 10: Don't get jealous.
If you want to drive the player crazy, you should not show any signs of caring if you see him with another woman or if he gets a text.The players thrive from having multiple women compete over them, or from the rush of trying to juggle a few women without any of them knowing.If you act like you don't care if he sees another girl, he'll want to make you jealous.To get the power to play a player, you have to stand out.Every other girl in his life has been jealous.You will be different because of this.Don't say "Who's that?" if someone calls or texts him.As he talks into the phone, look bored.If you see another girl, be nice to her.Show him that you don't see her as a competition.
Step 11: Limit the amount of communication you have.
Girls who text or call all the time and don't give them time to themselves is something players are used to.That's where you will find yourself diverging from the pack.You can call him or text him occasionally, but you should let him do most of the talking.If he reaches out to you, don't respond immediately, sit by the phone and wait for him to call.Don't follow him on Facebook.You can do your own thing online.Leave him alone if you know he's gone.He'll think you're obsessed with him if you text or call.Don't get back to him until the next day if he knows you're out.He should be concerned about what you were doing while he was away.
Step 12: You should maintain your independence.
Keeping your independence is part of limiting your communication.While you're seeing the player, you should have your own busy life, friends, and even some other guys to date.Make him shift his plans so you can see him.Don't allow him to change his mind for the next day.Tell him that you're booked for the next few days.He won't do it again if you make him feel like he missed out on something.When you're with him, talk about your other friends or the things you do that don't involve him.Allow him to see that you don't worship him.
Step 13: It is possible to beat him at his own game.
You have to be a player if you want to play.While juggling him with two or three other guys, make him think that you like him.Make him feel special by flattening him, and knowing that everything you say is meaningless.If you really want to play the player or get back at him, you should only do this.Changing your lifestyle can be tiring.
Step 14: He should be eating out of your hand.
He should be eating out of your hand once you've tantalized the player enough.If you're always immune to his charms, he may be obsessed with the idea that he has to win you over or he will be a failure.You will know when he's eating out of your hand.He will compliment you all the time, acting jealous whenever another guy or other plans come up, or he will just want to spend all of his time with you.All you need to know is the look in his eyes.He stares at you like you're a true wonder if he was shifty-eyed or distracted in the beginning.
Step 15: Know when it's time to say goodbye.
If you cut him loose too late, he may give up on you, but if you get him at the peak of his affection, it won't mean as much.If he's growing bored with you, you should say goodbye at the peak of his affections for you.Just because you're getting tired of playing him, you can say goodbye.It's a tough job.If he starts getting really attached and even says he loves you, then you should get rid of him.Don't forget to protect your heart, if you wait too long to say goodbye, you may also begin to fall for him.
Step 16: He should be cut loose.
You should cut off all contact with the player once you've decided it's time to say goodbye.You don't have to tell him why, you just have better things to do.Don't make a big production of it or take him out to dinner to end things, just tell him how you feel at a time that's convenient for both of you.If you really want to hurt him or get him back, just let him catch you with another guy.Don't look surprised or like you've been caught when he sees you.He'll get the picture if that hurts him even more.
Step 17: Don't have mercy.
Your decision is final after you've cut the player loose.You won't hang out with him again, return his calls, or even grab coffee because you feel bad for him.You should remember why you played him in the first place.Either he hurt you or another friend, or you realized that he doesn't respect women.Why should you respect him if he doesn't respect women?He will lose respect for you if you don't see him again.He'll only want you if you don't really want him.You'll be better at recognizing players in the future once you've played them.Protect your heart as you move forward in your love life by watching out for these cagey guys.Stay humble.Don't think that you can get any guy you want or feel like you're playing some guys when they only look at you as a friend, the tables can.They may know more about the game than you do.