You've found the woman you want to be with the rest of your life.How do you want her to be yours forever?Once you have a full plan and know what to expect, you'll be able to propose to your girlfriend without any problems.You don't have to do crazy things unless you think she wants it and you want it.If you think she will appreciate it, make a grand gesture.The most important thing is to speak from the heart, and to find a way to let her know how much she means to you.If you have to ask her parents if you can marry her first, you might want to buy an engagement ring.Get started at step one if you want to marry.
Step 1: You should be confident with your relationship.
If you have a strong sense that your girlfriend loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you, you should be able to predict with 100% accuracy that she will say yes to you.If she's dropped hints that she wants to get married to you, she might want to move in to a house with you to make you a part of her family.If she's never mentioned these things, you can try out some feeler conversations to get a sense of her feelings; if she acts uncomfortable or ignores your questions, then she may not be ready to marry.She's in it for the long haul if you've only been together a few months.Spending more time with your girlfriend can help make sure that you're both the right people for each other and that she will say yes.If you don't know she's not ready for a proposal, you can save yourself from embarrassment by figuring out her feelings.
Step 2: Ensure that she is the one.
You've been thinking about it for a while.It's important to know that you love her and consider her the one.Think about all the reasons that make you want to marry her.It's important for you to show your love to her at the proposal and to confirm to yourself that you're making the right decision.It's time for you to tell your girlfriend that you want to share the rest of your life with her.When you know, it can be a little confusing.She's dropped so many hints about getting married that you don't want to disappoint her, not because you feel like you've been together long enough and that it is time for you to do it.Many people think that you should move in with your girlfriend for at least a few months before you find out she's the one.If you have to share a bed, groceries, and mutual expenses with her, you may see a different side of her that isn't as compatible as you thought.You don't have to do this, but it is one way of "double checking" that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with her.It's possible to talk this through with a close friend or family member if you're certain they won't spill your secret.It's a good idea to avoid discussing your plans too much with other people.
Step 3: Ask her parents permission.
If your significant other wouldn't mind, you could ask her parents for her hand in marriage.Asking a father's permission is considered old-fashioned by many and is a gesture that suggests you respect her and her family.It's a sign of politeness and what family won't resist that?It really depends on the girl and her family situation, so try to feel it.Is this important to her and her family?Is it something that would make her cringe?She may be estranged from her family.Take her situation and preferences into account.By now, you should know her well.Asking for permission after you've proposed is a modern twist.This can be used to ensure that your wife-to-be is the first to be asked but she's aware that you still intend to bring her family right into the fold.Some people think that this is the wrong way around, but it's still a sign of respect.Ask her mother if it's possible to ask her father.
Step 4: Decide when to propose.
Timing is only something that you can work out, and it's important to get the timing right.It's not possible to say that there are perfect times to propose, but it is important that you propose at a time when you are not rushed and ready.The time will be right if you plan the proposal in as much detail as possible.Is there a meaningful day for the two of you?Are you talking about an anniversary of your relationship or first date?If the two of you are living in different cities and come together for a special holiday event, this is the only chance to ask her.She wants to get married in the middle of the year.Asking her friends or family if there is a certain season, month, or length of time she wants to be engaged will help her plan her wedding without feeling rushed.If she says she wants a fall wedding and you propose a few months before the fall, she may not like the idea of waiting a year to get married.There are advantages and drawbacks to proposing on holidays.On the other hand, if family is gathered around or it's a time of great joy, these days can make the occasion more meaningful.Sharing your proposal date with the holiday date can make it feel less impersonal for some, while for others, it's a great way to remember.Make sure you have some alone time after the proposal.If you plan on proposing to her on Thanksgiving with your families nearby, make sure you take her out on a long walk or somewhere private when you do it, before you get overwhelmed by family and don't have a chance to process what just happened.
Step 5: Decide where you will propose.
The place and atmosphere of the proposal will be remembered forever and the most important thing to remember is that you are the main creator of that atmosphere!It's important to choose a place that will be meaningful for both of you and where you can feel comfortable, calm, and natural.What are her favorite places?Does she like the beach, sunsets, tall buildings, cityscapes, nature, etc.Maybe she would prefer a private screening at the cinema.What is it that makes it practical?Things can go wrong if you try too hard to create a special occasion.It's easier to focus on what you know will work and be appreciated by both of you.Consider romantic places such as the beach, botanical garden, a famous restaurant with an amazing view, and a covered bridge.The location should be considered for its safety.A man proposed to his girlfriend on a cliff and she fell to her death because she was so excited.You should always take safety into account when proposing.The two of you love doing things together.Maybe this can serve as a source of inspiration, such as proposing when you're out camping, fishing, sailing, hiking, cycling, attending a sports event, traveling somewhere, etc.She won't suspect that you'll be proposing since it will be part of your usual routine.If you have to, make reservations.If you're going to propose to someone at a restaurant that you need to be able to get the best table, you should reserve it in advance.
Step 6: You should consider how you will propose.
The intimate details of how need consideration should be considered after you've decided when and where.What other elements do you want to add to make this an especially memorable and romantic occasion for her?Bear in mind that the manner in which you propose will be retold by her many times over, so make sure it's good!For some inspiration, try the traditional pose, there are many possibilities and it's entirely up to you what you do.Take her hand in yours, and ask her to marry you.The beauty of this gesture is that it can be done anywhere, thanks to the movies.If there are other people around, they'll listen in.Expect their interest and support.It's a good idea to find out if she'd like something public or private.In real life, most engagements are private, even though many women are proposed to in public in the movies.She may be embarrassed by all of the attention if you propose at half-time during a sporting event or at an intimate party with several of your friends around.In front of a bunch of people, you'll feel worse if it doesn't go well.Think about the things that might accompany the occasion, such as a quartet playing a tune or a small fireworks display.If it's your kind of thing, they can add to the atmosphere if you have friends who will help out.The ring needs to be hidden.This method requires her to find the ring and then you propose.A ring can be hidden inside flowers, chocolates, or a special gift.It's a good idea to ask her to open the gift at the right time.If she accidentally swallows it, it will put a big dent in the occasion.Be creative.If you don't want to say the proposal yourself, there are a number of other ideas that involve more planning and can be very entertaining.You could make her a crossword in which the final answer spells "Will you marry me?".It's possible to do something small and cute with children in your families, or even a pet that you own together.If you have the means and think she will like it, you could have a plane write the question on the sky as the two of you are walking.Another popular move is to propose on a vacation.Make sure she will say yes if you do this.Rejection on the first night will make your vacation worse.Taking out an advertisement in the paper that you know she'll read, getting her favorite radio DJ to announce the proposal, or placing a big banner with the question on it over a bridge are all possibilities.
Step 7: You can choose a ring.
It's great if you know what your girlfriend wants.For many women, choosing their own ring is the preferred option if you don't know or want to ask.If you know what kind of ring she wants, you should try to sneak a ring out of her to find out her ring size.She will be touched that you remembered what she wanted and you got it in the correct size.Asking her about the ring she wants will let her know what's on your mind.If you can't afford an engagement ring, it's not necessary to blow a fortune.It's better to get something small and classy and to save for your future together instead of spending all your savings on a piece of jewelry.All types of natural diamonds can be considered if budget is a concern.The diamond industry now offers many types that fit within the price range of everyone.For more information, read How to choose an engagement ring.
Step 8: Be well dressed.
According to the occasion and place, dress nicely.As can be.It deserves to be "picture perfect".She will appreciate the effort you've put in.This only applies to where you're planning to propose and you have time to change.If you propose on the beach, during a hike, skiing, or as you skydive, use your common sense about what to wear.
Step 9: Rehearsing.
It's a good idea to rehearse in advance of your proposal.If you want to spend the rest of your life with her, you need to understand why you love her so much.When the important moment comes, this will help you avoid being tongue-tied.You shouldn't put a lot of pressure on yourself.In the end, your girlfriend may only remember the words, "Will you marry me?"To the point, and from the heart, keep the proposal simple.I love you more than words can express.I would be honored to spend my life with you, you're the most thoughtful, generous, kind, and beautiful woman I've ever had the fortune to know.Are you going to marry me?
Step 10: Propose.
There is no time like the present to move forward.Start unfolding your plans when you bring her along to "the place".It's important that you don't give things away by touching the ring in your pocket or saying silly things.If you bring her to a place she's never been before, or somewhere extra romantic, and you have a feeling that she will know what you're going to do, then try to propose as soon as you can.There is a chance of tears, screaming, or shock.Even if she knows what you're about to do, these are standard reactions.It is not real to her until it is done.End the proposal with a kiss or hug if she says yes.She should put a ring on her finger.Don't be angry if she says no.A bad impression will be left in her mind by your sour face and grumpy attitude.Don't be down on yourself, you tried your best.