People have heard about the friendzone.Many people have had an attraction towards a friend.There is a lot of debate about friendship and romantic attraction.Attempting to seduce a friend is a different game than attracting someone from scratch, and a lot of your success will depend on your existing friendship.Seducing a friend can feel riskier than usual, as you may be chancing your friendship in the attempt.If done correctly, moving forward and trying can lead to great things.
Step 1: First, be a good friend.
Making sure you have a great relationship as friends before moving onto anything else is more important than simply preparing for your big seduction.If you are friends with someone already, they will base their seduction on what they know of you as a person.Many things should be true for all of them, even if they are different degrees of friendship.Try to talk to them a lot.It shows you care about the little things and you're interested in them as a person.They should feel good about themselves.Depending on how they make each other feel, people choose the people in their life.It's true for relationships as well as friendship.
Step 2: Make sure the situation is correct.
If you think the timing is right, you should move.If your friend just heard bad news and is looking for a shoulder to cry on, a seduction might not be a good idea.The same is true if there is a lack of chemistry between the two of you.It's better to wait and see if things work out.Don't wait too long.If you let someone else take your friend into a relationship, it will ruin your chances of seduction.
Step 3: They should spend a lot of time together.
The more people of the same sex spend together, the more chance there is for something to happen.When you simply ask to hang out, it says a lot about you.You should ask them to meet up if you don't spend a lot of time together.It's a great way to maximize the chances of something happening if you are just meeting as friends.There isn't much chance of something special coming out of time in a group.One on one time is different as it means that the two people are together for a specific amount of time.
Step 4: Together, find a quiet moment.
A proper seduction can't take place in a crowded area.It's necessary to have an intimate space.After one of you has invited the other over, this could be at the end of a night at a party.You don't want external pressures to affect the way seduction is received in a quiet, private setting.If they think their friends will be there to see it happen, they may feel shy about it.
Step 5: The interaction should be playful.
If you bring their mood down, you will have a hard time seducing them, even if your friend finds you attractive.Your positive side should be emphasized.It is possible to make a conscious decision to be pleasant around the person you would like to seduce.It is possible to flirt more openly if you are cheerful.A proper seduction is not a serious thing.
Step 6: Light touching will express attraction.
It's important to touch in flirting.It is the way that will break the two of you past the barrier between friends and something more.A brief touch on the arm is a light touching.You can usually tell if they'll accept bolder gestures from the way they react to them.If you decide that your affections aren't being reciprocated, you can try to keep your flirtations subtle.
Step 7: Hold your friend's attention.
It's normal to make eye contact with a friend while you're talking, but prolonging it usually hints at something more.Studies have shown that holding someone's gaze for a long time can make them feel sad.If you spend a lot of time with this friend, make sure to keep eye contact.Positive or negative eye contact can happen.It depends on whether the other person finds you attractive.
Step 8: Be flirtatious into your conversation.
Regular conversation between the two of you should come naturally if the friend you want to seduce is already close to you.You will want to flirt into your talk with the foundations in place.It's a great place to start.Compliments are a more direct way of showing interest."Your hair looks great today" is an example of a flirtatious remark.I think it suits you.
Step 9: Take your friend's current reaction into account.
Before you make the final push, you should reflect on the ways in which your friend has reacted to your flirtations.It's possible that your friend is inviting you to make a move if they smiled when you touched them or teased them.If your friend is looking uncomfortable, it's probably a sign that you should back off.Everyone's psychology is not the same.If you are friends with this person, you should have an idea of how they would react to someone they're attracted to.
Step 10: Don't be afraid to make a bold move.
A moment of truth is involved in all seductions.This usually means a kiss, although it might also mean a sexual or romantic comment.You can move in if your friend responds well to non-committal overtures.Kissing on the lips is seen as something that is reserved for more than just friends.You should move in if you think the time is right.Don't be hasty about it either.It isn't an experience you want to rush.By their nature, bold moves are risky.It's a good idea to feel out your chances before committing.
Step 11: It is possible to be attracted to yourself.
It can be hard to know who is seducing who.Women tend to play a more submissive role in seductions, but sometimes they play it off as an active way to pull a man in.They may be waiting for the right moment to make their own move if you think there is mutual attraction there.Let them know that it is a good idea to step in.
Step 12: The consequences should be accepted.
The consequences of a seduction could be either good or bad.A friendship could lead to a one-night stand or a long-term relationship.Things can get awkward quickly.If this is the case, the best way to repair a friendship is by talking openly about what happened.Explain what made you want to do what you did.It's best not to ask about why they turned you down.Bitterness on both ends can be caused by focusing on the rejection itself.You have to accept your losses if all is lost.Not everything will work out the way you want it to, especially in relationships.
Step 13: Talk things through.
There is going to be awkwardness if the seduction has failed.It is a good idea to allow both sides to say how they feel.If you want to keep the friendship alive, this is necessary.You should be honest with how you feel.If the other person tries to ignore it as a joke, it may be a good idea to move past the episode as quickly as possible.It's a good idea to talk about what happened as friends.It's important to let your friend know that you care about them in spite of any added attraction you have for them.You could start a conversation with this: "I know how this might look."I value you as a friend because I am attracted to you.I hope you don't think I'm less of a person because of this.
Step 14: Take things forward.
You have to move forward after the seduction.Whether the seduction worked, you're staying friends, or the friendship was ruined, this is true.In the worst case, there is no benefit in letting yourself suffer over it.Learning from your decisions is an important part of life.You should forgive yourself as soon as you can even if you regret it.You should be proud of yourself because you were taking a risk.If the seduction fails completely and your friendship ends, you can fill the emotional void with something new and fresh.You should keep yourself occupied.People who stay busy heal from emotional pain the fastest.Don't judge it.Get to a better place in life by moving on.If the seduction fails, try to remain friends.It's easy to stay friends if you can talk things through.Accept that some feelings are different from others.They might begin to see how much you value them if the friendship stays together after you're rejected.If you allow the subject to be for the time being, there is a chance they will change their minds and realize what a catch you are.
Step 15: Take into account your chances.
There is a chance that you can figure out your chances of success based on your existing interactions.Is flirting involved in your interactions?Are they involved with someone else?Do you know if they already find you attractive?It doesn't mean there is no hope for you if you get a less-than-desired answer.You have to play your cards right, and possibly change things about yourself to fit their needs in a partner.It's important to have expectations prior to making things work.If you don't know where to go, things can go bad quickly.
Step 16: Your friend may want to be taken advantage of.
Seduction is a form of positive attention and there is no one who doesn't enjoy feeling wanted.You should keep in mind that your friend may already have feelings for you, even if they don't respond well to your seduction.The gesture can seem affectionate if you go about it in a way that isn't weird or demanding.
Step 17: Is a seduction worth it?
To seduce a friend is more risky than trying to date a stranger.You can ruin your friendship.The repercussions from it could affect other mutual friends as well.A friendship that is strong enough can usually survive a failed seduction if things are discussed openly.Do you want to go through with it or not?It is important that you live with whatever decision you make, because there is no easy answer to a question like this.Staying quiet can cause a lot of pain if you really like the person.
Step 18: Point out what you expect.
There are different degrees of success that relate to your expectations.It's up for debate if a relationship is worth it if you think you'll only get a one night stand.It's not a good idea to try a one-night stand with someone you think may get emotionally tied to you after the fact.
Step 19: Tell your friend what you want.
A lot of degrees allow you to seduce a friend.It's possible that you prefer a 'friends with benefits'-type situation if you want a full relationship with them.If a 'friends with benefits' arrangement is what you're specifically looking for, it's recommended that you look for one of your friends that is already open and comfortable with sexuality.