Sending a girl a photo is just as nerve-racking as talking to her in person.Adding her to Snapchat is the first step in making that connection.You can continue the conversation after you start snapping more frequently.Filters can be used to add variety, humor, and creativity to your snaps.
Step 1: She can be added onSnapchat.
The ghost icon is at the top of the screen.You will be able to add her with her usernames, through your phone's contacts, or with a special Snapchat code after you select "Add Friends" in the menu.You can always add her to the friends' list if you don't have her usernames, number, or Snapchat code.On the same day, follow her on multiple platforms.Doing so might make you think it's too strong.
Step 2: After adding her, send her casual pictures.
The first snap should be sent a few days ago.She might be a little desperate to snap her right away.You should snap her every other day with things like your dog eating snow, street performers, and the pile of homework you got in math class.She will come to expect hearing from you when you send her casual snaps.There will be more snaps in the future.
Step 3: Gradually increase the number of snaps you take.
You will start exchanging snaps more frequently as you get to know her better.If she keeps responding, it's likely she wants the conversation to continue.
Step 4: For a natural conversation, Tailor your responses to the situation.
Allow the conversation to develop as though you were talking to her in person if she responds to you.To show you are listening, ask her questions about the things she says.Paint her a picture of what you like and what's important to you with your snaps.
Step 5: Don't use over-the-top expressions.
Phrases like "hey, what's up" won't catch her attention and may go unread.She might ignore your snaps if she makes weird and silly comments.Try snapping her a pic in a cowboy hat with the message "howdy" instead of "hey, what's up"The tone should be friendly, interested, and playful.You could write "they'll never catch me" with a picture of police driving by.
Step 6: You have things in common.
It will be easier to talk about things that you enjoy.Think about her hobbies, clubs she is involved in, and her goals.Any of these could lead to a full conversation.Art Books Music School TV Sports are some common areas you might explore.
Step 7: Use your snaps to tell a story.
This is a way of getting her to listen to the messages you are sending.If there is a lot of hustle and bustle behind you, you could run from a crowd.To increase her interest, use snaps of your empty workplace with a witty text.Show how things change.You could take pictures early in your shift, during lunch rush, and before you leave to show how busy you have been.
Step 8: Comment on her stories.
When you first start snapping, don't comment a lot.Increase your comments as you begin to snap more.When commenting, you don't have to be funny.In a story about her playing with a dog, for example, you might say, "That's the prettiest dog I've ever seen." Comments are a great place for you to ask casual questions.You can start talking about music if you notice she was at a concert.
Step 9: There are opportunities for discussion.
Send her a picture of your favorite song on the radio.She will send you a photo when she hears the song and you will have a chance to take more.Cute animals, shared favorites, familiar locations, and people are some of the useful snaps for creating conversation opportunities.
Step 10: Ignored snaps are taken in stride.
People don't take snaps as seriously as text messages or phone calls.Many snaps go unseen because of this.Don't take it personally if your snaps are ignored.Don't feel like you have to reply to snaps when you're busy.
Step 11: You can use filters to make your snaps funnier and artistic.
You can use audio and visual filters to modify snaps.The doe filter could be used with a snap of yourself and the message, "I'm hungry".For extra cute factor.If you tap and hold your face, you will be able to access the filters.New filters are released by the ephemeral messaging service.Try different filters to find your favorites.
Step 12: The streak can be used to your advantage.
You will eventually build a streak by snapping daily.This feature is automatic.She will probably want to keep the streak alive.You will have more chances to talk with her.You can get a streak started subtly by building the frequencies of your snaps gradually.
Step 13: Be respectful of her boundaries.
Sometimes boundaries can be overstepped because ofSnapchat.Some people think it's not a big deal to walk around without a shirt on, but to others that may be disrespectful.It's possible to get your account revoked for sending inappropriate messages.Although this may be different for some, it is frowned upon to share private snaps to your friends.
Step 14: Links will be added to your snaps.
You should see a paperclip icon on the right side of the screen when you make adjustments to your snap.You will be able to add links when you tap this.Links can be used to add websites, Rick Astley and more.If you snapped her a picture of something she'll want to buy, the linking feature is perfect.You could include a link where she could buy shoes if you snapped her.
Step 15: Surprise her with a joke.
Voice filters can make you sound like a robot.The speaker icon is located in the lower- left corner of the screen.