Talking dirty on the phone can be a great way to have sex with your lover.You may feel silly or intimidated at the thought of talking dirty on the phone, but once you adjust your mindset and let loose, you'll be on your way to making your phone partner helpless with pleasure.Follow the steps if you want to know how to do it.
Step 1: Talk dirty at the right time.
If you want to have a great dirty talk phone date, you have to make sure that both you and your partner are ready to start talking.If your partner is having dinner with his mom, your dirty talk won't last very long.Both of you will be free and alone at home or in your rooms if you plan your dirty talk date in advance.
Step 2: You should look and feel sexy.
Put on some sexy lingerie and a hot outfit after taking a nice warm bath.If you look ready for some action, you'll be more easily turned on if your partner can't see it.If you want to get yourself in the mood, you can rub some scented oil or lotion on the nape of your neck.
Step 3: Set the mood.
Would you have sex with your dirty laundry all over your room and empty takeout containers on your desk?Hopefully not.When you're in a romantic atmosphere, you shouldn't talk dirty.Take care of your space, dim the lights, and lie in a clean bed.Prepare everything you can to get it on.
Step 4: Don't get carried away.
Don't stare at yourself in the mirror or analyze the last thing you say to your lover before you pick up the phone.If you just sit back, relax, and get ready for what's to come, the process will feel more natural.
Step 5: Get turned on.
It doesn't mean you should touch yourself unless you want to, but it does mean that you need to get into a sexy mental space.Remember the last time it got really hot and heavy between you and your lover, and close your eyes.You can lightly care for your body to get in the mood.You should save most of that for your phone conversation.
Step 6: Find your voice.
It should sound like you, but with a slower-talking version.Do not use the same voice to ask your honey how his day went.If you want to, you can even lower your voice to a near-whisper.Make sure it sounds like you.
Step 7: Give your lover a compliment.
You don't have to talk about it right away.Start with a few nice things.Tell your special person how much you miss him, and how great his body is.It is possible to remind him of the last time you had sex.Say nice things to your lover to get into the mood."I've been thinking about your toned arms all day."I miss you and your body so much.I enjoy hearing your voice.
Step 8: Discuss what you're wearing.
It's a good idea to tell your lover what you're wearing.Mention any parts of your body that are exposed and talk about how you look in your clothes.Ask your lover what he or she is wearing and imagine him or her in those clothes."I'm wearing your favorite bra." is a way to describe what you're wearing."I'm not wearing underwear.""My dress is very tight around my chest.""My shirt is tight around my arms."I'm wearing a belt that you love to take off.I'm wearing a button-down shirt.It comes off quickly.
Step 9: What would you do if your lover showed up?
Start slow.Say a few things that you wish your lover would do.You can get as graphic as you want, but you can start with the basics.You can say, "I wish your arms were around me right now."I would love to kiss your neck right now.I'd start nibbling on your ear if you were here.You would not be able to stop me.
Step 10: To describe how it feels, touch yourself.
You can do this when you're talking dirty.The earlier you do it, the more turned on you will be.Let your lover know that you're stroking your own body.Ask the person to touch his or her own body and tell you what you want them to do.Just like real foreplay, you don't have to touch yourself too much, just start with a light touch.You can start touching yourself when you keep talking.Let your lover know what you're doing to your body.Inform him if you caressing your breasts or stomach.Tell your lover everything you feel.Say if you start to shiver after lightly caressing your neck.
Step 11: Tell him how you want him to touch you.
When you're both excited, start talking about what you want your lover to do to your body.Tell each other what you want them to do to you.It can get more graphic than just saying what you want to do.
Step 12: Discuss with your lover what you want to do.
Let your lover know what you would do if you were there.You can say whatever you want to say to his body, no matter how dirty it is, now that you're starting to get excited and to touch your own body.
Step 13: Talk about how turned on you are.
Tell your lover how turned on you are by talking to him and thinking about him next to you.Let him know that you're excited and feel it all over your body.Tell your lover if you're so turned on that you feel it in your toes.
Step 14: You can reveal your greatest dreams.
Share your fantasy with your lover, no matter how dirty it may be.He'll help you get more turned on by talking about it with you.Just close your eyes and start talking, don't be afraid to put it all on the phone line.
Step 15: Talk about it when you take your clothes off.
Let your lover in on the peep show and don't just start stripping.Let him know if you're taking your shirt off.Let your lady know that you're dropping your belt on the floor if you take it off.Paint a picture of your body that will make your lover jealous.You can ask your lover to take off his clothes.It will be very hot to order him or her around.You can say, "Now take off your shirt" or "I want you to pull down your skirt."You can ask your lover for validation when you start taking off your clothes.You can ask if you want me to take off my shirt.You can use this to paint a visual image for your lover.
Step 16: Masturbate.
If you want to talk dirty for fun or practice, then you can get off the phone.If you really want to have sex, you should touch yourselves until you orgasm.If you want to keep things hot and heavy, you can tell your lover that you're about to have an orgasm.This will turn both of you on even more.You can say goodbye once you've orgasmed and look forward to your next date.Inform your partner when you're touching yourself and let him or her know how it makes you feel.You should be as graphic as you want.It's hard to climax at the same time as your partner.Don't turn on your partner if you climax first.Don't stop and ruin the mood.Don't talk dirty until both people are satisfied.
Step 17: It's time to have a sexy goodbye.
Don't tell goofy jokes or talk about how your days went.Say some sweet, soft words to your lover and let him know how amazing he makes you feel.If you want to have a normal conversation with your lover after your dirty talk date, get off the phone after a little while.