If you don't have a lot of practice, talking to girls can be scary.If you want to be friends with a girl in one of your classes, you shouldn't be too nervous to talk to her.This article will show you how to break the ice with a girl by talking about the class you have in common, then get to know her and develop a good relationship.
Step 1: There is a small favor to be asked.
Asking a favor is the easiest way to start a conversation.You don't know what you have in common with this person.Asking a favor is a way to get into a conversation without being boring.Make sure the favor is small and won't put her out.To see something you missed, ask to borrow a pen or read their class notes.You should look on with her if you don't have your textbook.You can sit closer to her as well.
Step 2: You can ask a question about what the teacher said.
You might not know what she likes because you don't know her very well.The class you are in with her is the only thing you have in common.Ask the teacher to clarify what she said in the class.Asking someone to explain something you don't know will result in a longer conversation than asking for a favor.Ask follow-up questions to keep the conversation going.Show solidarity if she didn't understand.Let her know that you both have something in common.
Step 3: Make her happy.
Try to make her laugh with a sense of humor.Roll your eyes when the teacher assigns homework, or make eye contact with her when someone says something silly.Make sure you don't disrupt class or draw the teacher's attention.Getting in trouble won't impress her.
Step 4: She has an opinion on something related to class.
Make her feel like you want to know what she has to say, because you are looking for anything that begins a speaking relationship with her.Ask her what she thinks is going to be on the next test, or how many hours she is planning on putting into preparation for a presentation.When she gives her opinion, don't talk over her.Show interest in what she has to say by letting her talk for as long as she wants.
Step 5: Give her a compliment.
It's a lot harder to give a compliment than it sounds.You should always be respectful of girls when you compliment them.Most girls don't like to be made to feel like you only like them for their looks when you compliment them on how pretty they are.She had to work for something she was born with, so compliment her on that.This could be related to her appearance.She needs to be praised on her hairstyle instead of her eyes.She put together an outfit.Tell her you liked her answer.If you see she got a good grade on the test, give her a hug.
Step 6: You should choose the right time for your speech.
If she's late or concentrating on something, don't bother her with any questions or favors.If you have a class with her, you're going to see her every day, so wait for a time when she seems relaxed and in a good mood to break the ice.
Step 7: The conversation should be moved away from the classroom.
If you know you have at least your class in common, it is a great way to get to know each other.Over time, you want to get to know other parts of each other, so talk about things that have nothing to do with school.
Step 8: Have a pleasant demeanor.
Don't try to be cool, it might come off as condescending.It is easier for a girl to talk to a guy who is open and honest.Girls like guys who enjoy themselves.When you speak to her, face your body towards her.When you are talking, make eye contact with her.
Step 9: Find out what she is interested in.
You want to know each other after breaking the ice.Try to find out what she is interested in.Ask her what she likes to do in her spare time and what her favorite classes are.Talk about topics that interest her.She will look forward to talking to you since you enjoy listening to her talk.
Step 10: You can share your interests with her.
Talking about the things that are important to you will help her get to know you.You will stop liking her eventually if you let her talk about herself all the time.Sharing parts of your life with each other equally is important to maintain a balance.Open and honest is what you should do.Talk about the things that are important to you instead of just talking about what she wants to hear.You can use your discretion.There are some things that you should not talk about with someone you don't know very well, so begin with topics that are harmless and light.It's important to keep a balance between how much she talks and how little you talk.
Step 11: Get to know her friends.
Friends are the best way to spend time with someone.You will be more relaxed and at ease if you hang out with a group of friends.She likes you more if you get along with her friends.When she is not around, talk to her friends.You don't want people to think you're using them to get a girl.Make real friends with them.If you like this girl, you will probably like the people she chooses to surround herself with.
Step 12: Future conversations can be made plans for.
To make sure you get to talk to her again, you should make a plan about how you are going to do it.If you are talking during lunch break, you can say that you have something you want to tell her next time you talk.Tell me about what Mr. Smith said in class last week.Tell her you will see her at a different time, for example, "I'll see you in English" or "Are you eating lunch in the courtyard today?"I can return your notes.
Step 13: Talk to her outside of class.
If you see her hanging out by her locker, talk to her at lunch or between classes.She will see you as a friend when she sees you and talks to you outside of the classroom.
Step 14: Don't get too excited.
You want to show interest in her, but you don't want her to think you're stalking her.Don't be around every corner.It is possible to get into a routine where you talk to her at the same times every day.You can be confident that you will see her every day and not feel like you have to chase her.You might not talk to her for a day or two.She will look forward to your company even more if you give her a little time to miss.
Step 15: You can ask for her phone number.
You are on your way to being more than just a friend when you are talking to someone outside of school.To ask a question about class is a good way to ask for someone's number.She doesn't feel like you tricked her into giving you her phone number, so use the number to ask questions first.Instead of calling, send her text messages.She will not feel as much pressure.Send messages every once in a while about annoying things your parents say, or something funny you saw at the mall, after sending a couple texts about homework or due dates.
Step 16: Outside of school, hang out with her.
Depending on how old you are, your parents might not allow you to hang out with girls one-on-one, but you should invite her to spend time with your friends.Some of her close friends should also be invited if she is not with your group of friends.Make sure she is comfortable hanging out with you.Go to the mall or the movies.You can get food, like pizza or burgers.Even though other people are around, make sure to pay attention to her.