If your man is more comfortable talking about work, sports, or anything else besides his feelings, you may be frustrated and wondering if he really loves you.You don't need to be a mind reader to know if your guy is crazy about you.Guys who are in love behave in a predictable way.If you keep an eye out for certain signs, you can get a good sense of how much you love your partner.
Step 1: Look at how he treats you.
He will treat you with respect if he loves you.He listens to you and cares about what's happening in your life.He goes out of his way to give you things that you like.He listens to your opinions and values you as a person.He cares about you and doing these things shows it.
Step 2: How much do you question his feelings?
If a guy really loves you, you won't need to question it.He's going to make you feel his love by showing you how he feels and saying it to you.You have to make sure that you don't let your feelings get in the way of someone who loves you.It's possible that you don't feel like he loves you, but it could be something else.If your past partners have said you get clingy, that's a sign you're not secure.It is possible that you are trying to be extra nice to win his love or to meet his needs without thinking about your own.Taking the time to identify each emotion is one way to combat this type of insecurity.You can notice how emotions guide your behavior.If you start to worry that your boyfriend doesn't love you, you may try to please him more.If he's finding ways to show his love all the time, these fears are usually false.It's important to identify the source of your fear.Maybe you have had bad luck in previous relationships with people who have mistreated you, or maybe you've had a critical voice of one of your parents.Don't allow your inner critic to run wild.Talk back to it.When you doubt the other person or yourself, try to turn it around.Try to stop the thought of "He probably doesn't love me anymore" if you find yourself saying that.Say no, that's not right.He tells me that he loves me.He probably got busy.
Step 3: You should check to see how much time he spends with you.
A guy who loves you will want to spend time with you.He's likely in love with you if he makes time for you on a regular basis and goes out of his way to see you.If he blows you off, watch.He's more likely to blow you off if he doesn't really care.He may cancel at the last minute if he doesn't make time for you as often.He probably doesn't love you if he's not making time for you.Sometimes a guy will have a legitimate reason to cancel on you.He should give you as much notice as possible.He should be interested in rescheduling.He might not be that into you if he's not.
Step 4: He might be willing to do part of the work.
He should be willing to come up with plans, not just you.It's not necessary for you to schedule everything yourself.He probably cares for you if he's willing to take the lead.One way to make sure he's willing is not to plan everything.It's a good idea to give your guy a chance to plan dates.If he cares about you, he should take the initiative.
Step 5: Make sure he is willing to compromise.
Sometimes compromising with another person is necessary in a relationship.Sometimes he gives more and sometimes you give less.It might mean he's willing to go see a movie that he doesn't like, while you'll go to the sports bar sometimes, even if it is not your thing.He is likely to fall in love with you if he is willing to participate in some give and take.
Step 6: If he does small things, notice.
When he goes to the kitchen, does he ask if you want water?Does he plug in your phone when it's low?He probably loves you if he anticipates what you need and does little things to make your life better.
Step 7: Make sure he doesn't get embarrassed by you.
If a guy wants to be with you, he shouldn't be embarrassed by you.He's willing to introduce you to friends and family.If he doesn't want to introduce you, that means he's not sure about you.Being embarrassed can be a red flag if he doesn't want to introduce you.
Step 8: He might like to be near you in public.
This is the same step as the previous one.He won't draw you close in public if he's embarrassed by you.If he likes to pull you close in public, watch to see if he displays his affection by holding hands or giving you a hug.It could be that he's shy in public and not that into you.
Step 9: You can watch how he talks.
It's probably not a good sign if he only calls once a week.He probably can't get you out of his mind if he spontaneously texts, emails, and calls.Every guy is different.He doesn't like to spend a lot of time with someone he loves.It's important to figure out what kind of person he is before jumping to conclusions.
Step 10: Pay attention to what he is interested in.
Do he ask about you and your day when you get together?Is he interested in what's happening in your life?He cares about you if he's interested in what you're doing.
Step 11: See if he remembers.
Guys and people are going to forget important dates and past conversations.He is likely in love with you if he remembers important dates and pays attention to the conversations you have.
Step 12: If he is interested in fighting, notice.
To fight with someone, you need to care about them and find a way to reconcile.He may not care that much about you if he doesn't fight or ignores arguments.You don't need to have a lot of fights.Even if it leads to an argument, you need to be able to express your opinions.He might not be into you if he doesn't seem willing to engage.
Step 13: Pay attention to what he says.
If he starts using "we" on a regular basis, that could be a sign he loves you.He's starting to commit to you being together if he says "We."
Step 14: If you have your own language, note it.
It's a good sign if you have your own language, including pet names and jokes.He cares enough about you to fully engage in the relationship.If he has a pet name for you, it means he's falling in love with you.
Step 15: Don't hesitate to ask.
You can talk about your feelings if you're in a healthy relationship.Tell him what you think about him.Ask if he has the same feelings for you.You could say, "I think I'm falling in love with you."I'm a little worried because I don't know if you feel the same way.
Step 16: He is afraid of rejection.
"I love you" makes you vulnerable, as the other person may not reciprocate those feelings.He might be afraid that you'll reject his love even if you show him you love him already.
Step 17: The past affects the present.
If he's been in a bad relationship in the past, he may not be as willing to jump in emotionally to this relationship.If he hasn't said it yet, he may just be waiting until he feels ready to make a commitment to you.
Step 18: Some guys have a hard time talking about their feelings.
He doesn't like talking about his emotions.He might prefer to show how much he loves you, making you a priority in his life.