It can be difficult to get in touch with a guy who you think may be bisexual, but who has not admitted this to himself or others.If you're attracted to a guy who you think may be bisexual, you might want to look for signs that he's interested in you.You could ask him for a date if he seems interested.
Step 1: Look at body language.
If a guy holds himself and behaves around you in a way that interests him, he may be interested in you.Smiling and making eye contact are some of the things that people do when they are attracted to each other.The classic sign of interest is this.If a guy is attracted to you, he will make eye contact with you even if you are across the room and he may also smile.A person raising an eyebrow.An eyebrow flash is a movement that people make when they are attracted to someone.When you first see him, watch for a raised eyebrow.Parting lips.When they are attracted to someone, people tend to part their lips.If he's interested in you, this is a quick gesture that will happen as you make eye contact.
Step 2: Preening gestures is something to watch for.
He might be interested in you by self-grooming or preening gestures.If he is adjusting his tie, smoothing his hair, or otherwise trying to improve his appearance, this is a good sign that he's attracted to you.He is smoothing out his shirt while he is talking to you or stroking his facial hair to make it look neat.
Step 3: Take note of any intimate touches.
If he is interested in you, he might touch you in a gentle way, such as by placing a hand on your arm or shoulder, even if it is only for a moment.He might be showing his interest if he seems to be touching you now and then.This could be his way of showing that he finds you attractive if you tell a joke and he laughs while grasping your forearm.
Step 4: Think about how the person acts with other people.
You can try to determine if he is interested in you by comparing his behavior to yours.It is possible that he thinks you are attractive if he is more affectionate towards you than anyone else.If he laughs at all of your jokes, but barely smiles at anyone else, then he may be interested in you.
Step 5: Make eye contact while smiling.
Making eye contact and smiling are classic flirtation tactics.If you are sitting across a table from each other, smiling and making eye contact is a good way to show your interest.The lower stakes version of flirtation is smiling and making eye contact, which is a friendly gesture.If you want to make eye contact, look away for a few seconds.If he is still looking at you, then look at him again.This could mean that he finds you attractive.Send a message that you find him attractive by smiling at him.
Step 6: Get rid of a conversation.
If you are going to ask a guy out, you want to know if you have anything in common.It might turn into a boring date if it isn't changed.Start getting to know him by asking him about his interests, likes, and dislikes.What do you do for a living?What do you like to do?What kind of music do you like?Did you grow up here?Do you own any animals?Are you having fun?
Step 7: Give praise.
It's always appreciated if you are flirting with someone or not.You can send a message to the guy by giving him a compliment.He might compliment him if he is interested.He can change the subject if he is not interested.Say something like, "You have a great sense of style!"You can say something like, "I am sorry if I am staring, but you have gorgeous eyes."
Step 8: Try to play with it.
It's a good way to flirt and gauge his interest at the same time.Let him know that you are attracted to him with some gentle touches.He may be able to touch you back with these gestures.If you find something funny or interesting, you can try touching him on the arm or shoulder.If you want to be bolder, you can place a hand on his back as you walk through a crowded place together.
Step 9: Look at your interest.
If you think there is a chance he isn't into guys, then a subtle approach is best.If you still don't know if this guy is interested in dating you, you might say something to hint at your interest in a date.This is a lower stakes way of showing your interest that will allow him to decline.Say something like, "I need a date for this movie I want to check out on Saturday."I really want to ask this cute guy out, but I am not sure if he dates guys or not.What would you do in my situation?
Step 10: Don't be afraid to be direct.
If you want to find out if this guy is interested in dating you, then you should take a direct approach.If he dates guys, ask him in a straightforward way.You can ask him if he would like to go on a date with you.If he confirms that he dates both men and women, you could say something like, "Do you also date guys, or just women?"There might be a little awkwardness after he says no.This will pass.To return the conversation to a friendly space, try to say something reassuring.You could say, "Okay, cool."I don't know, I just ask every guy I meet.
Step 11: It is possible to suggest a place to go.
You can ask him on a date if you get a lot of positive sign from him.Pick something that you both enjoy and suggest a specific day and place to meet up.You could say, "since we both love horror movies, we should check out that new one on Saturday."Try saying something like, "I really want to check out that new Indian restaurant, too."We should go together this Thursday.