If you ask someone out in front of a group of people or even just a mutual friend, they could feel put on the spot and pushed to say yes. This environment may also make things a bit uncomfortable for you if they decline. Zuckerman recommends asking the person out in private. Pull them to the side if necessary.29 Aug 2021
Is it better to ask someone out in person?
If you feel like you can comfortably and confidently ask her out face-to-face, then absolutely go for it. In-person communication is extremely valuable, and the mere fact that you have the confidence to look her in the eye and ask her out will go a long way.
Is it weird to ask someone you just met out?
It's pretty standard. Just introduce yourself and go straight to it. It might not work but unless you say it in a very strange way like saying “I love you” or have been following them around for an hour without speaking to them, it isn't creepy.
Is it cowardly to ask someone out over text?
It's okay to converse via text, but don't avoid moving towards that goal if the goal is to ask her out. Texting is a quality means of communication, but it doesn't replace personal interactions. You must remain in sync with your initial goal, asking her out.3 Aug 2021
How do you ask for a date over text?
Ask her out on a date. You may want to start by asking her what her plans are on a given day/weekend. If she says that she is free, then ask her out. Send a text saying "Would you want to do [such and such] activity with me?" Don't wait too long to ask her out.