You can initiate contact by tickling your boyfriend.The best spots to tickle to get him laughing are when this flirtatious tactic is being used.
Step 1: Do you know if it's the right time and place?
It can be difficult to know if tickling is cute or not.If you are in public, he might not appreciate giggling in front of a bunch of people.If you've just been fighting or angry, now isn't a good time to make him uncomfortable.Listen to what he has to say.He probably needs a hug more than he needs tickle torture because he's confiding in you that his dog died.Wait until you have room to wrestle and not hurt yourself.If you catch him by surprise, make sure he doesn't have a hot beverage or something that could hurt him.If you are annoyed that he is not paying attention to you, don't try to tickle him when he's playing video games or absorbed in something important to him.This is when tickling is not fun.He won't mind a tickle if you two are joking around and he's in a good mood.
Step 2: If he's ticklish, figure that out.
If your boyfriend isn't ticklish, your tickle attack will fail.To figure out where he's most ticklish, do a little exploring.If you want to see if he laughs, you can poke him in his side, just above his hip or ribs.Give him a hug and he's going to tickle himself.This is a ticklish spot on most people.If he's laying down and you notice his reaction, run your toes along the bottom of his feet.The air will hit his ear if you kiss him gently on the neck.Do you know if he gets emotional on his neck?
Step 3: Make sure your nails aren't sharp.
If you plan to tick him over his skin, you might want to use sharp nails.If you plan on getting into a tickle war, sharp nails may become painful.
Step 4: You can sit next to your boyfriend on the couch, bed, or ground.
If he doesn't suspect anything, get close to him and cuddle or kiss him.
Step 5: You can move your fingers under his arms.
As if you are scratching a dog behind its ears, move your fingers quickly.If you use too much pressure tickling, it can quickly become unpleasant and even painful.If you can get him to stretch his arms above his head, he will be fully exposed for an attack.He may copy you if you stretch first."Who wants ice cream?"Raise your hand.Unless he hates ice cream, he'll probably do the same thing.He's more vulnerable if you straddle him so he can't escape.
Step 6: Go up and down his sides.
Think of your hands as small arthropods.He will try to stop you by pressing his arms against his sides.People will try to defend themselves by limiting their access.
Step 7: He's trying to defend his upper body, so make sure the bottom of his feet are straight.
To protect his feet, grab one foot in one hand and use the other hand to tickle it.You don't want to get kicked.He may kick you in his attempt to escape.
Step 8: Finish by blowing on the skin and nuzzling his neck.
It's a nice way to show him that this was a lot of fun.
Step 9: If it seems like he's not enjoying himself, stop.
Even though they are laughing, some people don't like being tickled.You should stop if he tells you he's not in the mood, starts yelling, or starts kicking.Don't tickle him for more than a few seconds.He is going to pee in his pants if he says he is laughing so hard.
Step 10: Prepare for an attack.
It's unlikely that your tickling will go unanswered, so you better be prepared to take it.Pull your arms tightly against your body when you stop tickling your boyfriend.It's likely that someone will initiate making out or fooling around after tickling, because it can be a very flirtatious action.