It's a good idea to avoid being an annoying texter.
Texting is hard to do correctly.It's no wonder people are driven by instant gratification because of the conveniences that technological advances have left us with.People succumbing to the pitfalls of being an annoying texter more than they'd like to admit is a result of this plus and needing to be continually entertained.There are ways to redeem yourself after being labeled annoying.
Step 1: Take a break from your phone.
Take a day and travel somewhere without a cell phone connection so you can text.It's a great way to stop texting and start again.Either alone or with a friend, you can go on a local hike on the outskirts of your city.A spotty signal will give you time to connect with yourself and prevent you from being so attached to your phone that you don't notice who's contacting you.For a less dramatic way to get rid of texting, turn off your cell phone and put it in airplane mode for 24 hours.This will remove you from the map.
Step 2: You should get physical.
Sometimes, you want to send another text to a person who hasn't sent one back to you yet, and you find yourself looking at your phone.It is possible to take your mind off it completely by releasing your emotions through exercise.Playing an active role in the game rather than watching it on TV is a way to engage in one of your favorite sports.You can play tennis or basketball.If you're a lousy player, this distraction will make you feel better.Go for a kickboxing class, a spin class or a barre class.Not only will the benefit of being released still be there, but it will be joined by a sense of confidence for taking up a new skill.
Step 3: Start a project.
Take your phone off and use it to create something.If you switch your focus from who is texting you to a project that hasn't seen the light of day, you will become mentally preoccupied.You can add one of a kind decor pieces to your space by working on do-it-yourself projects around the house.Pick up new skills on an instrument you've always wanted to play.
Step 4: You can meet with your friends.
Texting will never replace interacting in real time.It's a good idea to spend a day out with friends.While shopping, going to the movies, or dancing at a club, strengthen your relationships with in-person communication.No one is allowed to use their phones while you are hanging out.It's easier to get your mind off texting if everyone is having a good time.
Step 5: Don't use the phone.
It's not a necessity to use your phone at all times and treating it like one is the fastest way to annoy people.When and how you use your phone is up to you.Texting people while you're in a social setting like class, a meeting, work, at lunch, or at dinner is not appropriate.Don't respond to text messages if there is an emergency or a family member is calling.Texting shouldn't be allowed in places where it's a nuisance to you or people around you.Don't text while at the movies.
Step 6: Don't text while you drive.
It shouldn't be an aspect of driving to compose, read, or send a message.A lot of accidents happen because people think they can use their cell phones while driving.It is a danger to you and anyone on the road.The great thing about a text is that it isn't an urgent form of communication, so it can wait.Don't use your cell phone at a red light or traffic stop.It distracts you from the road and can be annoying to other drivers who want to go somewhere.If you interact with your cell phone while driving, use blue tooth and hands-off options.If you don't have those things, cut it off completely or put it in a compartment in your car.
Step 7: Don't use abbreviations to much.
Abbreviations are a great way to shorten words.A person receiving a text message may not understand it because of too many abbreviations.Some abbreviations are acceptable.Text longhand with a few abbreviations.The ratio of longhand words to abbreviations should always be greater.Refrain from using too many abbreviations in your text messages.Modifications to your abbreviation usage can help a person decipher a message.Text messages should not be shortened in a professional sense.It's the easiest way to look immature.
Step 8: You need to proofread your text before you send it.
Texting is about speed and efficiency, but not to the point of error.The person receiving the text can be taken aback by a small error.You can use autocorrect to finish sentences faster.It's a good idea to always proofread your text.
Step 9: If you start a conversation, have something to say.
Tell them something funny that happened when you asked what's up.Don't reply with "nothing" as an answer or a one-word response.The person will wonder why you sent them the text.Don't text someone for the sake of texting.People can tell if you're using them to bide your time or genuine interest in them.You should be invested in your messages.Text that is sincere or not.If you notice that the person you're texting is giving you one-word responses back, it's a sign that they either don't have anything to talk about or they feel like talking.Text them again.
Step 10: Punctuation can be used, but do not use it too much.
A question mark after a question is good.There are many question marks.Do not use five question marks at the end of a sentence.
Step 11: How often do you use emojis?
Sometimes people think it's cute to add ten winky faces or ten kissing faces after a brief text or in exchange for actual words; other people find it annoying.If you have to, use an emoji for emphasis and only use one or two at a time.
Step 12: It's important to maintain an even text ratio.
Send one text back for every single text you receive, that's the text ratio.You can send two back if two were sent to you.Do not send more texts than you received.It's the easiest way to be desperate or needy.
Step 13: It's a good idea to steer clear of overtexting.
All of the text messages on your phone are longer than a paragraph.If you notice that your texts are a little long, you can practice self awareness and stop texting.Unless you are really good friends, don't text someone you know multiple times a day.If you ask what's going on."What are you doing?"You are doing something wrong three times in a day.Texting is not a replacement for in person or phone conversations, so if there are a lot of details, save it for one of those two outlets.Important details can be lost.
Step 14: Texting can be emotionally charged.
You should never text someone while they are angry or upset.Tone can prolong confrontation and negative emotions.Pick up the phone to continue the conversation or save it for later.
Step 15: Be aware of the time.
On a weekend when you're trying to get some extra sleep, it's a little annoying to receive a text before noon.It can be disruptive.Texting is like a phone call to a house phone.You wouldn't call someone's house before noon or after 10:30 pm, so use that as a rule of thumb when sending text messages.There might be some wiggle room with these guidelines if you have known each other for a while.Use your discretion.Texting someone after midnight can be a sign that you are needy, wasted, or trying to hook up.
Step 16: Don't ignore the texts you receive.
It's the right thing to do.Not receiving a text response can be just as annoying as receiving too many.Do your best to respond to messages in a timely manner.
Step 17: Have respect for other's texting boundaries.
If nobody responds, they are either busy or don't want to talk to you.You should respect their decision not to talk to you.Allow the person you're texting to show you what their next move is, as you would in a face to face interaction.Don't text that person again until they text you back.The other person is trying to distance themselves from your texts.They definitely received your message, so don't text them with a different question a minute later, or resend the same message an hour later.Avoid texting a "good night" in order to remind your friend that you were waiting for their text, if they tell you that they will text later.It is a passive aggressive behavior.