It's a good time to be a secret admirer of someone.If you have a crush on someone, you can send them gifts and messages to let them know that they're special.The holiday is centered around romantic gestures and declarations.
Step 1: A simple card is all you need to start.
This is the easiest and most personal way to get in touch with your crush.You can either buy stationery or make your own personalized card.You want to make it clear what your purpose is when you contact your crush as their Secret Admirer.If you want to accentuate the romantic theme, use reds and pinks to make your own card.
Step 2: Send a message to your crush.
Write clearly and concisely.Explain in your own words why you like them so much.Don't talk about yourself.You are making that happen by telling them why you think they are special.Don't say that you like your hair.You want to be unique.
Step 3: Don't write your name in your handwriting.
Your handwriting could give away your identity.They may know what your penmanship looks like if you sit next to them.Since you're writing a love note, take the time to make your script legible and elegant.If you write in print, try writing in cursive.If you write everything in cursive, that's the same.If you don't want your message to be lost, then use a computer to type it and choose a fun fonts.
Step 4: You can sign their name as well.
Their name should be visible on the card.If the card is delivered in error, there's a better chance it will make its way back to you.You don't want to send a note and find out that they never received it.You don't want to use your real name.If you want to use your real name, make sure you are comfortable with revealing yourself to your crush.
Step 5: Give them something to unwrap.
Depending on your research, your crush may prefer daffodils to roses, or maybe they love chocolate chip cookies and that would be a perfect surprise on a tough Monday morning.Attach your card if you can give them something to make their day a little brighter.Don't get personal.If you're trying to get a relationship started, lingerie, expensive items, and photos are better for you.
Step 6: You can give a card or gift.
It is difficult to be a Secret Admirer.You have to get a gift for this person without them knowing.Notes can be snuck in their locker, gym bag, car window, or mailbox.Pick a location that your crush frequents frequently.A friend could be the deliverer.The more anonymous you are, the better.Timing is everything.If you start leaving notes and gifts for your crush before February 14, you can use the whole holiday to give them gifts and messages throughout the day.If you want to impress your crush before V-Day, keep your displays of affection to one day.
Step 7: There are thoughtful acts of kindness that you can do for them.
You don't need to give physical gifts to your crush.If you know this person well, you can help them out by washing their car and leaving a note on their windshield.
Step 8: A scavenger hunt will help you find your crush.
Instead of giving a gift, you could create a scavenger hunt for them on February 14th.You can use this method to lead your crush to you on the big day.The first clue is to slip your crush a note.They can't figure out what the clues are so they leave them in relatively nearby places.You don't want your crush to run town all day, so keep things within your school or neighborhood.You can leave a small gift with each clue.For the end, leave the biggest gift or most personal gesture.You want to save the biggest surprise for the grand finale because their excitement will build during the hunt.
Step 9: There are clues to hint at your identity.
You want to get your crush's attention.In a note, you could say that you love seeing them at the same coffee shop every morning, or you loved their presentation in class the other day.
Step 10: It's a good time to reveal yourself.
If you want to keep your crush, you need to be brave and tell them who you are.At some point, they're going to want to know who is responsible for all of the sweet things you've done for them.You can choose a convenient time for yourself and your crush.You should meet them after their last class of the day for the big reveal.Listen to what they have to say about their secret admirer.It's time to reveal yourself if it sounds like they're excited to find out who it is.You may want to stop if they don't seem interested.You don't have to control another person's feelings, but you should be respectful if they are.
Step 11: You can choose a public place.
Coffee shops, parks, and restaurants are good starting points because there will be people around but not so many that you won't have privacy.Pick a relaxing place because you don't want to scare your crush away.A bench in a park is beautiful, but a dark movie theatre will make you look like a stalker.
Step 12: Tell your crush where to find you.
Even though you're trying to convey an air of mystery, you need to be clear in your directions so that your crush can actually identify you.
Step 13: Become their Secret Admirer.
They may recognize you if you're already involved in this person's life.You have a chance to show them that you're their mysterious and sweet admirer.You can continue to get to know each other if you ask them on an official date after the big reveal.
Step 14: You can learn more about your crush.
Chances are, you already know this person.There are a few reasons as to why you admire them.You need to know a few more details in order to do things for them.
Step 15: They should talk to their friends and family.
Do a survey of the people who are close to you.If you want to know what your crush likes and dislikes, or what their class schedule looks like, you can ask innocent questions in a conversation.It's a good idea to be careful when talking with friends and family.A friend might accidentally slip up if you start asking around to find out who you are.If they said that you've been asking about your crush a lot, your cover would be blown.If you think they can keep a secret, tell them you're going to be your crush's secret admirer.Someone on the inside can help you out.
Step 16: Take care of their schedule.
It's good to know if they're in a meeting or gym class because you shouldn't know when they brush their teeth.It's a good idea to plan when you're going to leave little surprises for them.
Step 17: Get to know them too well.
Don't be paranoid.It's fine if you need to research their favorite candy.Don't dig so deep that you find out their pet's name and shoe size.Once you reveal your identity, you should really get to know them, even if you do some preliminary research.
Step 18: Make a plan.
Decide what you want.If you want to go on a date with this person on February 14th, you need to start courting them a few weeks before.You can create a more elaborate plan if you want to just surprise them.You could have your crush go on a scavenger hunt on February 14th that will lead up to them meeting you that evening for a date.