The coming school year is a great time to rethink yourself.
Whether last year didn't work out for you, or you just want to shine and be a new person this year, reinventing yourself is an exercise in self-growth and improvement.Taking time to be introspective, find inspiration in others, and writing lists of goals is how to start.Changing your surroundings, getting more exercise, and learning new skills are some of the things you can do to initiate your reinvention.Negative things like self-criticism, toxic friends, and bad habits need to be removed.
Step 1: Do you want to be a person?
If you want a change, you should first take a good look at yourself.Quiet time by yourself to reflect, daydream, and visualize your reinvention will help you in the upcoming school year.Asking yourself questions such as: "Is right now a turning point for me?" and "What are my academic goals for the year?" will help you decide who you want to be.
Step 2: Look for inspiration in something.
Identifying who you admire the most is a key step in determining your identity.The aim is to learn from the best, by example, and this sort of inspiration can come from friends, family, teachers, or famous idols.As an aspiring writer, your English teacher or favorite author might be a huge inspiration.
Step 3: You can make a list of goals.
The best way to visualize your ideal self is to write down the changes you want to make in your life, such as becoming class president, starting an after school band, or getting a certain grade.It is possible to provide enough motivation to turn words into action with a written goal.You can keep yourself motivated by writing daily or weekly lists of your short- and long-term goals.I will get an A in both math and science this semester.
Step 4: You can give yourself a new look.
Fashion is a great place to start a new life.Reinvention is all about the individual elements that you choose to change.Try playing with other style details, such as the color of your wardrobe.You can switch from colorful clothing to all black clothing, or vice-versa.
Step 5: Find people to hang out with.
It is possible to find new people to spend time with at school.To do this, try reaching out to acquaintances that you don't see often, or approach a social group at school to see if you can hang out with them.Ask ice breaker questions like, "How's your day going?" in both cases.Let the conversation begin from there.You can expand your friends circle by sitting at a new table at lunch.
Step 6: The things around you need to be changed.
You should change the things that you see on a daily basis.Taking steps to improve your physical surroundings can help you with your personal development.Redecorating your living space, updating your wardrobe, or anything else that will make you see things in a different way is what this means.
Step 7: Get more active.
Maintaining your mental and physical health is an important part of reinventing yourself, as going through this period of transition will require you to be at your best.Regular exercise can provide you with relaxation, better sleep and mood, and stronger immune function, all positive changes for a better you.Make a point of getting active as much as possible, with easy to schedule exercise like: walking or jogging jumping rope working out on a treadmill, elliptical machine, or fitness stepper.
Step 8: Take new opportunities.
Make the most of any opportunities that come your way, because reinventing yourself means venturing into the unknown and trying something new.Try new restaurants, listen to new music, or shop at a new store and you can open your mind.Make a list of new things you would like to try and hold yourself to crossing at least one thing off your list per week.You can eat at an Afghan restaurant.
Step 9: There are new skills to learn.
Learning is important to self-growth and personal improvement.Learning new skills can prompt the brain to release dopamine, a neurotransmitter that is directly related to feelings of pleasure; the long term effect of gaining a new skill, on top of the dopamine kick, can provide a lasting sense of fulfillment and self-esteem.Look at your community newspaper, local classified ads, or online listings to see what lessons are available near you.Swing dancing, swimming, and guitar playing.If you opt for lessons in an activity that you can continue at school once it begins, you will get a bonus.
Step 10: Self-criticism is not a good idea.
A commitment to positive thinking is needed in order to build self-confidence.To adjust your thinking in key moments, be conscious of your reaction to things.Don't make negative generalizations such as, "I always screw things up" and avoid jumping to negative conclusions.No one at the party will like me.I didn't do well in school today, but tomorrow will be better.
Step 11: Cut out your friends.
It's important to remove yourself from people who make you feel bad.As friends influence our lives, thoughts, and actions, your social circle should be a source of happiness and support for you.To remove toxic friends, be upfront, honest and unapologetic about your feelings, and state your intention to remove yourself from negative energy; real friends will recognize their fault and be understanding about it.Say something like, "Your negative comments are affecting me and I deserve better from a friend."I will have to keep my distance from you if you can't be a positive influence in my life.
Step 12: Leave the old habits behind.
Leaving behind bad habits is part of true reinvention.Be aware of your vices, flaws, and patterns and deal with them in a proactive way.Whenever you feel like you are slipping into old habits, do something small to get yourself out of the spiral.E.g.Make an outline of the steps you will have to do to complete your task if you feel like you are avoiding something.One small step towards getting things done is planning.