- Fresh flowers.
- Fake flowers — especially if in a monument vase.
- Wreaths.
- Small flags during the holidays.
- Wind chimes, crosses, or bird feeders — especially if in a monument vase.
- Grave blankets.
Can you leave things at graves?
The two most common items placed at gravesites are flowers and stones. However, many people choose to leave mementos of a more personal nature such as photographs, angels, and small trinkets that have their own significance or special meaning.10 Sept 2018
What is disrespectful to a grave?
Touching monuments or headstones is extremely disrespectful and in some cases, may cause damage. Be sure to walk in between the headstones, and don't stand on top of a burial place. Be respectful of other mourners. If a funeral is occurring, take care not to get in the way of procession and burial.17 Sept 2018
What are things you can leave at a grave?
- FRESH FLOWERS. Leaving fresh flowers on gravesites is a timeless, classic way to decorate a grave.
- ARTIFICIAL FLOWERS. Some cemeteries do not allow fresh flowers to be placed on graves.
- CANDLES.
- HANDWRITTEN NOTES.
- PHOTOGRAPHS.
- PHOTO ENGRAVED PENDANT.
- SOLAR LIGHTS.
- SPECIAL ROCKS & STONES.
What happens to the stuff people leave at graves?
In some cemeteries the stuff is just left there. In others, it's removed periodically no matter how long it's been there (2 days or 2 months). In the cemetery where I worked, any dead flowers, etc were removed and sent to the landfill with the cut grass. It all went in a dumpster.
What flowers do people leave at graves?
- Anemone: protection, anticipation, and sacrifice.
- Aster: patience, love, and wisdom.
- Blue iris: hope and faith.
- Calla lily: faith, purity, and holiness.
- Camellia: love and devotion.
- Carnation: love and affection.
- Chamomile: patience and fidelity.
Can you leave food at a grave?
If you do leave food on the grave, make sure that the food is not wrapped up in plastic or is in the original wrapping. This can cause waste and litter. The same goes for drinks, so it is best to avoid leaving them at a gravesite.11 Aug 2020