- Log in to Discord.
- Tap over to the ALL tab in the top-left corner of the screen.
- Choose a contact from your list of friends.
- Tap the Chat Message button (white chat bubble over blueish background) to create a DM.
- Enter your message and tap Send.
Is it safe to message on Discord?
Direct Message Settings Discord privacy settings allow users to control who can add them as a friend or send them direct messages. The “Safe Direct Messaging” setting automatically scans and deletes direct messages which contain explicit content, although this does not apply outside of direct messages.