It's difficult to chat with a girl you like on Facebook.Thanks to Facebook, you can share photos, discover more about her interests, and interact both publicly and privately.By using Messenger or writing on her wall, you can start a conversation and deepen your connection.
Step 1: Talk about the interests of both parties.
There is something you like about this girl and you want to talk to her.Discuss your interests with her on a deeper level.You could say, "I saw you wore a Ramones T-shirt in your profile photo."I also love them.What is your favorite album?
Step 2: Ask her what she thinks about herself.
A good listener is appreciated by most people.Get to know the girl better by asking her questions.
Step 3: The longer conversations should be kept on the shorter side.
It may be a good idea to keep Messenger conversations shorter.If you don't know each other well, a conversation that goes on and on may feel uncomfortable to her.To build friendship in a natural way, get to know one another gradually over multiple messages.
Step 4: To open a message, ask about an assignment.
Private messages are sent between you and the girl.It won't be subject to the comments and likes of other people, but it will feel a little more personal.If you don't know how to start, ask about something perfunctory rather than personal.This does not mean that a personal conversation can't go on, but it puts less pressure on getting the conversation started.Do you know what the English homework is for tomorrow?I don't know what time our shift at the restaurant begins tomorrow.
Step 5: It's a good idea to start a conversation.
Open-ended questions allow you to get to know someone better.These don't have to be loaded.They are trying to break the ice.If you have been writing on each other's Facebook wall posts already, you could follow up on something she has posted.
Step 6: Joint activities can be drawn upon.
It is likely that you and the girl you would like to chat with already know each other.You already have something in common, talk about it.Sharing experiences will bring you closer.You could say that you liked the drill we did today.You ran so fast, that customer was hilarious.Did she think we made cupcakes at a hot dog place?
Step 7: She should be respected by her boundaries.
If the girl asks you not to contact her anymore, respect her wishes.She might not be interested in the type of relationship you are seeking.
Step 8: There is a joke on her wall.
It makes sense to interact with the girl on her wall if you don't know her very well.This type of interaction is casual, but it is important to keep in mind that you may be subject to the comments and likes of others.To start a conversation, make a good-natured joke about something she has posted.You have a sense of humor and you are engaged with what she is interested in.Don't tear down any other comments with your jokes and keep them clean.It's a good sign if she likes or comments positively on your post.If she is receptive to your wall posts, you could try progressing to a private message.
Step 9: She has a wall and she wants to share pictures on it.
It's a good idea to take photos of someone you like.You could tag her if you have photos from a day at work or a school trip.A funny photo that is not of the two of you but appropriate to a post she makes, such as a meme, could be shared to make her laugh.
Step 10: When possible, reinforce inside jokes.
If you and the girl are having a conversation, post a joke on her wall.The inside jokes don't tire out as quickly as other jokes.Even if it was created in a larger group, posting it will make her happy.
Step 11: Be kind to each other.
Be kind in your interactions on Facebook.It can be difficult to read sarcasm online.She may interpret your posts as critical even if you don't mean them that way.Phrases to avoid include, "I'm not rude; I just say what everyone else is thinking."