Being an alpha male means being strong and dominant.Knowing and getting what you want is what it means.Alpha men are often admired and emulated because they always get what they want.If you respect the alpha male mentality and want to bring it to your personal life, there are a few things you need to avoid.
Step 1:
You should walk like an alpha male.When you approach the girl you have your eye on, don't wander around, casually bumping into her friend group, and then awkwardly initiate an interaction.An alpha male sees a girl he wants to flirt with and approaches her with confidence and purpose.Walk like you're in control.You know where you are, and nothing is standing.To observe yourself, try to find a place with mirrors.Don't be embarrassed to practice because sometimes people have nervous twitches that they do not notice.
Step 2: You should make eye contact.
It can be hard to look into the eyes of an attractive girl when you are talking to her.She is out of your league when you divert your gaze.Most women will not be interested in flirting with a man who has already decided he is not good enough.When you start talking, make eye contact.It doesn't mean you should stare at her.Sometimes it's okay to break eye contact.
Step 3: In a steady voice, introduce yourself.
If she takes a bit of aback when she says something like, "I'm sorry to interrupt, but I had to come say hello", that's a good thing.You showed her that you are confident and you don't hesitate to do what you want.To show you are mature, extend your hand for a handshake and make sure to grip her hand firmly enough.Pick-up lines can be avoided.Don't act like you're using a flirting manual to talk to her, she's attracted to genuinenessTell her why you approached her.If you don't want to use a compliment right off the bat, you can say, "I saw you from across the room and I had to come say hi to someone so gorgeous."You can say, "You're friends with _____, right?" if you have mutual friends.You can start a conversation with an observation, like, "I noticed you're eating _____, isn't it excellent?" by planning something to say.
Step 4: Ask her questions.
You can control the conversation with this.You shouldn't talk over her, interrupt her or act like a know-it-all if you're controlling a conversation.It means you are steering the conversation.To show her that you are interested in learning about her, ask her questions about herself.Asking her anything intense or personal is not a good idea.You can ask her how she knows the host at the party.Asking her simple introductory questions is a good way to find out more about her.You can ask more in-depth questions once you know a little bit about her.
Step 5: Don't use your words.
Don't launch into long stories or monologues about your life when you talk about yourself.You should only talk about yourself if she asks, or if you want to highlight something you have in common.The more attention you show her, the better.
Step 6: Things should be positive and light.
Alpha males don't feel bad for themselves.They create their own realities, so be careful when talking to the girl you are interested in.If you have a sense of humor, use it.The flirting technique of making a girl laugh is very effective.Don't complain, you want her to associate you with fun, laughter, and positive vibes.Provide a positive spin on things if she says something negative.You can say something along the lines of, "It's not great, but at least we can suffer through it together." if she says something about the weather being awful.
Step 7: Provide genuine praise.
Don't make her like you by flattery.Comment on the attractive qualities she has.Alpha males are secure in themselves and don't say things that are not true.This will show her that you are genuine and she will appreciate your compliment even more.You can say something like, "It sounds like you're extremely intelligent to manage all of that" if she talks about her job.If you make her laugh with a joke, you can say something like, "You have a unique laugh."I like it.You won't look like an alpha male if you tell her she's hot.
Step 8: Brilliance is created by creating banter.
Don't be afraid to tease her.Alpha males are genuine, and they don't shy away from being confident.Make her laugh by calling her out on silly things, but don't say anything that could offend her.A fun way to start a conversation with a woman you've just met is to act like you already know her.You can say something like "Oh [her name], you've always been so funny/stubborn/observant/nerdy" once she starts talking about herself.You can make her feel comfortable by making her laugh.
Step 9: The conversation can flow naturally.
Don't approach a girl with a singular goal in mind.Make it your goal to have a great conversation.It is possible for women to tell if you are picking them up rather than flirting.When it feels like the conversation is going well, only ask her out.
Step 10: End the discussion.
You should end the conversation when you have chatted for a bit.If it went well, ask her out on a date or get her number.Tell her that you enjoyed meeting and talking to her, if you know you will see her again.You have once again asserted your alpha-ness by ending the conversation on your terms.Wait for a lull in conversation and say something like, "It's been wonderful talking to you, and I will give you a call/ see you later/whatever" if things don't go smoothly.Sometimes alpha males are rejected, but they don't matter.The key to being an alpha is to not need anyone else's validation.Rejection is not something to fear.
Step 11: Look good.
It doesn't mean you have to get a six-pack, cut your beard, or spend thousands of dollars on a new wardrobe.Be that and decide what great means to you.Do it if it means exercising regularly and getting more fit.Do it if it means brushing your hair.Being an alpha and flirting like one is all about feeling your best.If you want to look better, groom yourself how you like, and know that every time you meet a girl, you are the best version of yourself, then you need to polish up anything that you think would make you appear better.There are alpha males with huge muscles and perfect clothes.Bill Clinton is an alpha male who has power in confidence.Being an alpha male is more about mindset than appearance.
Step 12: Good hygiene should be maintained.
Good hygiene is non-negotiable and things like hairstyle and wardrobe are up to you.If you want to have a good time with girls, you have to be nice to them.Keep your skin and hair clean by showering and keeping your breath fresh.It is possible to flirt successfully while maintaining a sloppy hygiene routine, but it will increase your chances.
Step 13: There is a difference between alpha and cocky.
People confuse a confident, "Alpha" attitude with being arrogant.An alpha is self-assured, doesn't need to dominate a conversation or always be the center of attention, and are flexible, just like everyone else, they make mistakes and they own up to them.A person who is arrogant will talk over others, be ruthless in trying to get ahead, and will not admit to wrongdoing or apologize.A confident person can accept criticism, allow someone else to step into the spotlight, and admit it when he's wrong.
Step 14: Carry yourself confidently.
Don't be afraid to take up space, stand up straight.alpha males will not be hunched over with their hands in the air.Take a deep breath and say that you're the cool guy in the room.If you are standing, take a wide stance and keep your arms up.If you feel like that on the inside, focus on looking comfortable, self-assured and dominant.It is like exercising a new muscle when you look like an alpha male.It will become easier every time you do it.You will start to feel like an alpha male as well.