Talking to a girl is just one part of the battle.You have to get her to talk to you.It is easy to get a girl to talk to you.You will want to get her attention first.You will have to find a way to interact with her.An easy conversation starter is sure to get a response after you've made contact.
Step 1: Don't forget to take care of your hygiene.
People will feel more comfortable around you if you smell good.You can keep yourself clean by showering daily and using personal care products.You can take a shower in the morning.It's a good idea to wear deodorant.If you have some, wear it.Don't apply too much.Make sure your clothes are clean and dry.
Step 2: To impress, wear a dress.
You can get noticed if you wear the right clothes.It's important that your clothes make you look your best.If you want to show off your personality, choose clothing that suits you.Pick something that makes you feel good about yourself.When choosing the perfect look, consider where you're going.If you wear a suit to school, you will look out of place.If you're wearing a golf shirt, you might look out of place at a rock concert.You could either choose a t-shirt that features a band you and the girl both like, or you could copy a trendy look worn by your favorite singer.
Step 3: You can show your talents and interests with your clothes, speech, and actions.
This will help you get her attention and boost your confidence.Show off your awesome things by writing them down.You can join a club, choose clothes that represent those things, or talk about them.Do you know if you're smart?Do you like to play a sport?Can you play an instrument?What are your interests?If you want to show off your musical talent, you could bring your guitar to school and play a few tunes.Alternatively, pass out flyers for an upcoming show your band is doing.If you play a school sport, you can wear your school t-shirt.You can wear a shirt with your favorite team jersey.You could draw on your shoes, pants, jacket, or t-shirt as an artist.Wear it to school with pride.You can join the computer science club if you're skilled in programming.You can wear your team shirt to class if you show off your awards.
Step 4: Be confident.
The girl will be more interested in you if she sees you as confident.Maintaining eye contact, smiling, and being assertive are all ways to show confidence.Stand upright with good posture.With your face forward, keep your back straight.You are a great catch.You can repeat a pep talk to yourself before school starts.You could keep a note with your best qualities in your phone so you can review it when you need a boost.It will give you a boost in your step.
Step 5: When you are around her, be yourself.
This doesn't work and it's tempting to try to be someone you're not interested in.You will come across as false if you are misrepresenting yourself.The right person will be attracted to you if you are your authentic self.It is okay if it is not her.Don't let your beliefs get in the way of staying true to them.Don't agree with everything she says.Do what makes you feel comfortable.If you're more shy, don't act outgoing.Stay true to yourself.If you actually dislike her favorite band, don't pretend to love it.It's okay to inquire about what interests her.You can ask her about her photography hobby, but don't pretend to be a photographer if it's not true.
Step 6: She is a member of a club.
You can hang out with her in a casual setting.Before you join, make sure you know what the club is about.You can attend the club's meetings and participate in any social events.Don't approach her immediately.If you want your meeting to happen naturally, you should participate in the club activities.
Step 7: Get in touch on social media.
Send a direct message if you follow her on social media.Your message should be casual.You can send her a meme that reminds her of something that happened in class.Do you want to send a meme to Ms. Ray?How well you know each other will affect what you send first.If you're classmates talk sometimes, you might start with the meme.If you only know each other through mutual friends, you might want to introduce yourself first.Wait for her to respond before sending another message.She will find it annoying if you send several messages at the same time.
Step 8: You can connect with your friends.
You can ask your friends to introduce you, or you can set up a group activity that will include the girl you want to talk to.Your friends might be able to tell you what she likes.If you invite your friends to go bowling, make sure the girl gets an invite as well.
Step 9: Go directly to her.
During lunch is the best time to do this.You could approach her during an activity you're both in, such as an after school club.If you walk up to her without hesitation, you will show that you are confident.She knows that you are friendly when you smile.You will be more appealing if you have confidence.Before you walk up to her, know what you are going to say.She is having a conversation with someone else.It is not a good idea to walk up to her when she is walking.She might be annoyed that you interrupt her when she is trying to get where she needs to go.
Step 10: You should make eye contact.
When it's a good time to talk, try to get her attention when you see her.Eye contact shows that you are confident.You can start talking when you catch her eyes.You can try to make eye contact when you get to class.You could make eye contact in the lunch line.
Step 11: Wait until she isn't busy.
It is not a good time to talk to her if she is doing something or talking to someone else.Interrupting what she's doing will annoy her and make her less receptive to having a conversation.She will likely be distracted.Wait until she's free.If you see her reviewing her notes before class starts, don't try to talk to her.She's waiting in the lunch line.
Step 12: Tell her a joke.
Showing off your sense of humor is a great way to get her talking.Keep the conversation going after she laughs at your joke.You could bring up a topic that interests her.Look up some jokes online if you don't think you're funny.Make sure the ones you choose are not dirty jokes, cruel, or otherwise inappropriate.Have you heard of the claustrophobic astronauts?He just needed some space.
Step 13: There is a shared interest or experience.
You can say something about the class you are taking.If you lean in close, you can say your comment just to her.It's too early for Shakespeare.Don't get too close to her if it says, "To sleep, or not to sleep."It is a good idea to have a breath mint on hand.
Step 14: Simply request a favor.
You can borrow a pencil or copy of her biology notes.This will lead to an interaction between you two.I was not present yesterday.Try to keep the conversation going after she says, 'Could I take a photo of your bio notes?'It's okay if you can't.Try to talk to her again after a few days.
Step 15: Ask her a simple question.
Stick to topics that are appropriate for someone you don't know well, such as school, mutual interests, popular movies and TV shows.It's a good idea to ask a question about movies rather than about politics.Ask her a question about a factual topic.Try to ask her about herself.Ask for information.Ask her to share her thoughts on something if you feel comfortable.Give her your opinion on the same topic after she says, "What did you think about the latest superhero film?"If you want to ask another question, try to reward her answers with 1 of your own.
Step 16: Give her a compliment that is sincere.
Don't pay too much attention to her appearance.Point out what you like about her.After she says, "Thank you," try to extend the conversation with a follow up comment.
Step 17: Actively listen.
Look at her while she is talking, and nod along to listen.Affirmative responses, such as "That's crazy" or "Uh-huh", should be given occasionally.It sounds like you know a lot about the Marvel Universe.
Step 18: Express interest in what she has to say.
If she knows you're interested, she's more likely to keep talking.Asking additional questions and making comments will show you are interested.Say, "That's a great point!" and keep the conversation going by sharing your own thoughts on the subject.You don't want to ask too many questions.For each thing she shares about herself, make a point of sharing your own thoughts or interests.She can have a chance to talk after you share.It's okay to ask another question if you feel like the conversation is about to stop.