When you have a crush on a guy, you want him to pay attention to you just as much as you do.How can you stay in his mind after you've left?
Step 1: You should make eye contact.
Crazy sparks can be caused by locked eyes.Don't try to stare into his soul, but if you can catch his eye from across the room or hold his gaze while talking, it can have a big affect on him.Eye contact can lead to feelings of attraction.As you look away, try to catch his gaze and smile.Then look at him again.
Step 2: It was appropriate to touch him unexpectedly.
Touching increases attraction and can raise a person's heart rate like falling in love.You can stay on his mind by finding subtle ways to make physical contact.Sit next to him and keep your shoulders and legs from touching.He accidentally cut his arm while reaching for something or brushing his fingers.Touch his arm to emphasize a point, or to get his attention.
Step 3: Say his name.
Don't start every sentence with his name, but just say it once in a while.It will grab his attention and remind him that you're only thinking about him.If he says something that makes you laugh or blush, try not to say his name.Nicknames can be fun as well.Your little inside joke will set your relationship apart if you nickname him only you.
Step 4: Wear a signature scent.
If your perfume is too strong, it may cause headaches or allergic reactions, so don't pour it on yourself.He will be able to smell it when you are close to him.He will make an association between you and your scent.He might encounter a scent when he's not with you.Pumpkin pie or coconut are fun ways to try rose or lavender.He'll think of you when he walks by a rose bush.
Step 5: You can live your life.
Don't wait to hear from him.Without him, your life should be interesting.Waiting for a guy to make your life fun and exciting is the biggest mistake you can make.It makes you boring because you have too much time to focus on your crush.It's likely that he'll be wondering if he can join you in your pursuit.Showing that you are your own person.He will be flattered that you choose to be with him and not because you need him to make your life exciting.
Step 6: Be yourself.
Don't pretend to be something else than you are to get a guy to like you.It will only be a matter of time before he finds out if he doesn't see through your act immediately.It's irresistible if you're comfortable with yourself.Don't pretend to be a fan if your crush is obsessed with football.Ask him to share his knowledge if you don't know a lot about the sport.You've got something in common if you're into it.It's okay if you're not.Just be honest!If he notices you, don't change yourself just so he'll notice you.If you can catch his attention because you're funny and interesting, you will know he's into you for your personality.
Step 7: Don't get carried away.
Obsessing over whether or not he thinks about you as much as you think is draining, can hurt your self-esteem, and can cause you to feel unattractive.It's supposed to be fun.You won't worry about what's going to happen next if you focus on living that full, interesting life.Don't let your obsession stop you from doing the things you love.Do the things that make you.
Step 8: Listen to what he says and ask him questions about himself.
People like to talk about themselves.It feels good when someone is interested in your opinion and wants you to share it.Ask about his favorite bands and movies.People like people who ask them questions about themselves.Make sure you weigh in as well.The conversation shouldn't be about him.Don't feel like you have to agree with him if you share your own thoughts and opinions.
Step 9: You shouldn't play hard to get.
You may think flirting up a storm with other guys will show him that you're desirable and have other options, but playing hard to get rarely works.Research shows that we are more attracted to people who are not perfect.If you have a big smile for your crush and no other guys seem to notice, you're going to catch his attention.You don't have to be mean or ignore other guys.If you were thinking about flirting with someone to make your crush jealous, you might want to rethink.
Step 10: There is a sense of mystery.
He will lose the fun and anticipation of slowly getting to know what makes you tick if he knows everything about you right away.It's a good idea to hold back a bit.Don't text, call, or message him.Give him time to think and ponder about you.He can be curious about you and what you're doing.Don't be rude, but always be available.