You don't know how to show her how much you care about her.Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel, and listen to her when she needs a kind ear.She will feel appreciated by your words and actions.
Step 1: You should get to know her.
Talk to her in class if you're in school with her.Whenever a group of friends get together, talk to her.Say hello and smile at her, you don't have to make a big deal about it.Ask her how she is.Getting to know her is the first step in showing her you care.She will get the idea that you care about her if you talk to her and ask her how she's doing.This is a low risk way to show her you're interested.It will be easier to show her that you care if you know her better.Getting to know her may make you care more about her.
Step 2: You can text and talk to her.
If you can't spend a lot of time with her in person, this is a good way to get to know her.Even if you see her every day, social media and other instant messaging apps can be a great way to talk to her one-on-one.
Step 3: You should be interested in what she has to say.
Listen carefully to the answers to her questions.Try to learn about her by asking more questions.It's a good idea to take interest in her activities.You can show that you care by listening."How's your day going?" is a good starting point."How was your weekend?"That's my favorite band.Do you enjoy them?"How did that go?" is a more advanced question.Do you go there often?Have you ever watched them live?If you only ask questions, she might be uncomfortable.You can make jokes and share your own experiences.Don't have an interrogation.
Step 4: Listen when she needs to speak.
Be kind and patient.Encourage her when she is uncertain, but don't give her too much of your own opinion.Giving thoughtful advice is a great way to show care, but sometimes people just need to talk about their problems.Don't listen in order to get anything from her; listen because you care.
Step 5: Remember what she says.
When you get the chance, bring the details up so she knows you heard her.If she's said something important, this is even more true.Listening involves retaining information.If you zone out and forget things that she has told you, she may be annoyed.Remember the little things she says.If she mentioned that she has always wanted to go to the lighthouse, plan a surprise trip and take her there.She will appreciate that you remembered a small comment.
Step 6: She has values and beliefs.
She may do things that you don't approve of.Unless these things harm her in a big way, don't restrict her.If a value is a part of her life and you don't like it, she will appreciate you for that.It doesn't mean that you have to be subservient; you should let her be who she is.
Step 7: Be courteous and thoughtful.
If you're walking into a room with her, hold the door open.If she's hungry, give her some of your food, and ask if she needs anything at the store.Go out of your way to make things easier for her, and make sure she knows you're thinking of her.If she is struggling with something, be prepared to help, but always give her the chance to figure it out.She will know that you care if you just offer.Not every girl wants things done for her.Being thoughtful does not mean that she can't do things herself, it just means that you want to make her happy.
Step 8: You should greet her whenever you see her.
Ask how her day is going.It's a good idea to make it clear that you're happy to see her, and to take the time to talk to her.Don't use your phone or talk to anyone else during this time.If she knows that she has made you happy, it will make her day better.
Step 9: Buy gifts for her.
Put your heart into it, and make it thoughtful.Unless your girlfriend likes expensive things, it doesn't have to be expensive.It could be a letter or a poem.Don't give her too many gifts, maybe once every few weeks or every month, otherwise she will keep expecting it, and the gifts may lose their novelty.If you're musical, consider writing her a song.If you are artistic, draw her a picture.If you're good with words, write her a poem.If you're clever, make her a piece of jewelry.Make it personal with what you have.If she's been talking about something for a while, you might want to buy her something to show her that you're listening.She will still see that you care, but she may feel less appreciated if you give her things she doesn't want.
Step 10: Make her laugh.
Tease her in a friendly way.Bring any inside jokes that you had with her up so that she knows you remembered them.You can make her laugh even more by understanding her sense of humor.It will show her that you care if you go out of your way to make her happy.
Step 11: Try to get to know her family and friends.
If the two of you are already romantically linked, she will appreciate your efforts.She will care for you if you are kind and sincere to the people she cares about.If she doesn't like it, back off.Find out where her boundaries lie by reading between the lines.There may be a deeper problem in your relationship if she isn't ready.
Step 12: Ask her something.
It may be time to ask her to spend more time alone with you once she knows you care.Ask her out on a date if you like her.Asking a girl out doesn't need to mean that you're exclusive or anything like that.It is a way to let her know that you care about her and that she cares about you too.
Step 13: Tell her that you care.
To let this girl know that you care about her is the easiest and most straightforward way to let her know.Wait until the moment is right and find a time when the two of you are alone.I want you to know that I value your time together and I care about you a lot.It should be genuine and sweet.If you know the girl well, you can bring this up whenever you want, but if you are still in a relationship, then you may want to wait for a quiet and sentimental moment.Tell her when you're sitting on the lawn, staring at the stars, or walking for a while.It doesn't need to be in a romantic context."I just want you to know that I have your back, or you should know I really value your presence in my life."
Step 14: Specific is the best way to describe it.
Give her feedback and praise.Tell her what you care about.I care a lot about the conversations we have and I value the time that we spend eating lunch together each day.Keep it simple.Your care doesn't need to be anything more than what it is, and you do not have to impose any expectations onto her.Make it clear that you're not trying to get anything from her.
Step 15: Tell her a lot.
If you really care about this girl, make sure that she doesn't forget.You should show her how much you appreciate her.Let your care flow into every action.You can find new ways to say that you care, whether that is a compliment or an appreciation.You always make me smile.