Guys may call you ugly if you're a girl.Nobody likes to be made fun of.If you don't have self esteem after he says you're ugly, you find yourself wondering if he's right and feeling self conscious.Are you going to allow him to insult you and get away with it?Are you going to pay attention to it?
Step 1: Take into account who is calling you ugly.
Is it one of your closest friends?Can you tell if he is teasing?Is it a guy that hates you and makes fun of you on a daily basis?Is it an evil ex boyfriend or a random idiot?
Step 2: If he's teasing you, you can have a friendly poke and a joke.
Either tell him off or ignore him, if he's saying this to be mean.
Step 3: If this isn't the first time someone has said this, you should take a look at yourself.
Is there a way to hide your unique feature?Are you always biting your lips?Are you looking at the floor?Do you keep your hair out of your face?Everyone is beautiful in their own way, some inside and some outside.Every person has a different idea about beauty.Not everyone sees the same things.Accept that you will be judged on your appearance.It's up to you what they judge you for, a smile or a frown, someone obsessed with their appearance, or someone having too much fun to worry about how they look.
Step 4: Don't let it ruin your life.
One comment shouldn't make you miserable.Have fun and walk confidently.
Step 5: If it's a boyfriend, find someone who isn't a jerk.
Step 6: Be nice.
If you understand that "ugly" is a weak and childish insult, you should respond in a very adult way.Tell the person who called you ugly that he is very kind.Then leave.It makes people crazy when they can't get a response from you.
Step 7: Most mature adults don't call each other ugly.
You won't have to deal with juvenile behavior from people who should know better.
Step 8: If you want to, you can use a comeback.
Something that makes the person who insulted you laugh can make you feel better.'I'm ugly, you're immature, nobody's perfect' are some suggested comebacks.Do you know what your dad looks like?I missed out on my beauty sleep because I am ugly.What's your excuse?I'm ugly.It's called a birthmark, Treacher Collins Syndrome, andloid scaring.Is there a medical term for people who say it's obvious or is it going to be named after you?