It's difficult to act around boys.It's possible that you don't know whether to be serious, social, or flirtatious.Don't think so hard.You can easily talk to boys if you act naturally.
Step 1: You should know that boys like talking to you.
It's not like they think differently if you talk to them more.
Step 2: Before you talk to that cute boy, take a deep breath.
This only takes a few seconds so you can act more natural.Continue if you are starting to freak out.
Step 3: If you freak out when talking to a cute boy, then you should talk to an average looking guy.
No man will turn you down just for talking to him.
Step 4: Ask him questions about himself.
You don't have to talk if he's talking about himself.If you know a boy's interest, talk to him about it.Before talking to that hoops fan, find out how the basketball team did last night.
Step 5: Ask him about the clothes he's wearing.
Say something like "I love the Beatles!" if you notice that he is wearing a Beatles shirt.They are my favorite band.If it's not your favorite band, don't lie.Girls and boys are similar in that they are honest.
Step 6: If you can't focus on their eyes, look at their faces.
You look like you're paying attention.
Step 7: Think about befriending the boys first.
Many romantic relationships started as friends.This gives you time to get to know each other in a different way.
Step 8: Don't pay attention to boys or looks in your life.
You can find hobbies and interests.It gives you something to talk about with the boys if they're in the same extracurricular activity.
Step 9: Make sure you are confident.
Boys like being confident.You should fake it if you don't have it.Keep your back straight by smiling.Talk to them about anything.
Step 10: Be kind.
Boys don't like girls being mean.Don't be rude or put on a sour face.Don't add sarcasm that makes him feel hurt, and always smile.
Step 11: Don't be mean to the boys you are hanging around with.
Don't talk loudly or poke a guy.It's a good idea to stop if he seems annoyed.
Step 12: It may take a while to be comfortable with boys.
When they were teens, many adult women struggled with boys and now enjoy comfortable relationships with men.You become more confident as you get older.
Step 13: You should be fun.
Don't say "I do not know what I want to do".It's a good idea to smile, laugh, and suggest a room to play.
Step 14: Boys are just as nervous as you are.
Chances are they are focused on themselves and not listening to you.They probably won't notice if you make a mistake with what you say.
Step 15: There is a smile.
Guys enjoy seeing the girl smile.Don't smile too much.Their goal is to see your smile.Don't act upset.Give him a big smile when he says something funny or silly.That way he can see your smile and feel accomplished.